My GF has done freaky stuff in the past but won't get freaky now

[Kev07]

Well the thing Im most confused with is that I won her quicker than any guys she has dated. She did take it up the ass from me without me asking for it...damn it was so dirty but felt so taboo it was great!!

I was the only guy who never had to use a condom. At the start she was a condom nazi and I know I am the only guy she has gone so much further.

Yes I do feel inferior but shes not the only girl I know who is "watering" down. I know a lot of girls who had a ho-phase and then trimmed down a little.

Half of the things she gives me without asking are like the things you have to conquer mountains and slay dragons to get from your average gal. I think I am just really freaky as well and I should get shut down for all the other things I am wishing for lol.

Here are some of the things she does for me:
*Sex everyday
*30min *******s EVERYTIME before sex (record is 55mins)
*licks my balls at my command lol
*Backrub after sex
******** everytime I am being nice to her
*prefers sport or other outdoor activities over shopping and girly movies.
******** while driving (risky to be in a sticky situation)

She's doing everything great apart from going through all the way for my disturbed needs lol...I just think it is a lil harsh to leave her because of THIS n THAT....etc

I think with any other girl I wouldve ditched them the first week but for a girl to keep up for 2 years thats a pretty slog on its own.

2 years in and you're still getting all that? she sounds like akeeper even if she doesnt do all the freaking things u want.

bottom line, if she doesnt wana do it then she doesnt wana do it, everyone makes mistakes. it all boils down to how much you like/care whatever about this girl in opposed to how much the other freaking things mean to you.

i will also agree with kontroller about hwo she had to tell you all these things, past is past, there really is NO reason she had to tell you these things, but whats done is done and you cant do **** about it.


also it doesnt really sound like you're going to far out of your way for her, so w/e

finally, you seem reluctent to even tell us what you want her to do, i'm not surprised she doesnt even want to do it

 

[TheBaconator]

Well the thing Im most confused with is that I won her quicker than any guys she has dated. She did take it up the ass from me without me asking for it...damn it was so dirty but felt so taboo it was great!!

I was the only guy who never had to use a condom. At the start she was a condom nazi and I know I am the only guy she has gone so much further.

Yes I do feel inferior but shes not the only girl I know who is "watering" down. I know a lot of girls who had a ho-phase and then trimmed down a little.

Half of the things she gives me without asking are like the things you have to conquer mountains and slay dragons to get from your average gal. I think I am just really freaky as well and I should get shut down for all the other things I am wishing for lol.

Here are some of the things she does for me:
*Sex everyday
*30min *******s EVERYTIME before sex (record is 55mins)
*licks my balls at my command lol
*Backrub after sex
******** everytime I am being nice to her
*prefers sport or other outdoor activities over shopping and girly movies.
******** while driving (risky to be in a sticky situation)

She's doing everything great apart from going through all the way for my disturbed needs lol...I just think it is a lil harsh to leave her because of THIS n THAT....etc

I think with any other girl I wouldve ditched them the first week but for a girl to keep up for 2 years thats a pretty slog on its own.

Dude stop your *****in, like an above poster said, you're very lucky to be getting it that much as is. Seems like this girl goes above and beyond to please you sexually, so I really don't see what more you want from her. Looking for a rimjob or something? Have her bang you with a strap on lol?

You get sex everyday, Bj's galore, you've hit it from the back, so honestly, what is this freaky **** you are so obsessed with, i'm actually curious now.

 

[DonGorgon]

Most Women dont like revealing their inner ho to guys they like/love cause they think it makes them look bad so unfortunately the looser guy she is banging on the side, who she does not care about, gets to enjoy all the freaky play while you get missionary or nothing at all.. and often when people get really close they feel its awcward to be nasty with each other...

 

[KontrollerX]

Good post DonGorgon.

This fact is why Tom Leykis tells his listeners that they want to be the guy women hook up with, not the guy women bring home to mom and dad.

 

[decades]

yea i wouldnt have cared if i didnt know about it. in fact i would have felt like the king if it wasnt for this little issue.

im sure she would feel like crap everyday if she knew a few of my skeletons

what do you want, for her to put on a rubber suit and swing from the chandelier?

 

[NewMan]

some women like to vomit out their past to the guy they are with - probably to prevent them from the guilt of their past and putting it on the new guy...... "I was honest with you, and you excepted me"

somethings should be left unsaid.

 

[DonGorgon]

^^^ SHE DID NOT TELL YOU THE WHOLE STORY.. nope..!

 

[true romance]

I think DonS nailed it...this must be frame at the beginning.

**** like monkey or borderline rapist style..give her something/emotions she will remember for the rest of her life.

I have few girls told me the same, guys did freaky stuff to them and they remember for life.

The key is do it wild and sponteneous, variety..Caveman...

Bang her like you never seen food before.

 

[Ragin_Asian]

what if she has given a lot more apart from just freaky stuff..

it wouldve been ok if she has never done it before....but now i know she has

and now i feel like i am living under their shadow and theyve had it better than me.

seriously i feel like im bein a ***** about this issue. but some of you scarily makes sense.

makes me wish i was single and get to do a lot of nasty sh*t all over again lol

 

[DarthAngel707]

Ummm...so anal and sex everyday is not freaky enough for you Ragin, what is?

You could have 100s of girls wanting you but as long as there is a prettier one you are dissatisfied.

Be grateful for your cool-ass GF man. This forum is for guys who need help with women, not the ones already doing their girlfriends everyday.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

I'm also curious what exactly she has admitted to doing before with other men that she is reluctant to do with you. What is it you're referring to?

I mean I can understand if she wants to put her days of guys taking a dump on her chest behind her.

 

[Reyaj]

what if she has given a lot more apart from just freaky stuff..

it wouldve been ok if she has never done it before....but now i know she has

and now i feel like i am living under their shadow and theyve had it better than me.

seriously i feel like im bein a ***** about this issue. but some of you scarily makes sense.

makes me wish i was single and get to do a lot of nasty sh*t all over again lol

I bet those guys she did that freaky **** with have memories that will last forever.

Now go take your girl out for a nice dinner and a movie!

 

[comic_relief]

I bet you watch porn and want to do the same things that they do.

There is a theory that porn ruins a person because most girls won't do that sh!t. The movies shows extreme behavior that is not normally done in real life, but the guy wants to do it. If the girl won't do it and the guy accepts what is done in those movies as commonplace, the girl won't live up to his expectations and therefore, he is ruined.

I'm just telling you guys the message. I am just restating the theory, I don't believe that your ruined.

comic_relief

EDIT: 10 post rule -

um...he said things she admited to doing before. not things he saw in a porno. read the thread ffs.

I have read this post, but I must have missed it. Still I was only giving another perspective on it.

 

[Warrior74]

um...he said things she admited to doing before. not things he saw in a porno. read the thread ffs.

 

[In2theGame]

To the OP, I understand what you mean and how you feel but i went about it a different way. I didnt mind it too much since it was in the past, in fact i knew my girl was freaky and happy about it so i treated her like a slvt in bed. instead of complaining about it, you need to change your tone and view on this situation. If you complained about it to your girl that why she doesnt do any freaky things with you, then that makes u look like a chump to her. Just grab her and F the sh!t out of her. Period!. Im pretty sure thats what the other guys did and thats why she was freaky about it, because they took command. Which you need to do instead of complaining about it.

 

[Phyzzle]

In my opinion, there is nothing you should demand from this girl that she isn't doing already.

Really, what is it that you like? Dirty sanchez? Analingus? You want to suffocate her? All that can be unsanitary or dangerous.

Yeah, so she tried it before, but I've known a girl who tried anal with me once, and said, "never again, too painful". It wasn't because she wasn't into me enough (she tried, after all) she just didn't like it, not with me or anyone.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Don't you just wish she never mentioned it?

You say you wish you were single. So go be single then.

However, I think everyone can agree that your sex life currently is pretty damn good. And whatever you want her to do, it must be pretty damn out there since you have ignored about a dozen poeple asking what it is.

Do you just want her to do some freaky act once to see what it's like or do you want it consistantly? You shouldn't have to talk girls into anything but maybe you could get her to do it just once so you can get it out of your system, but if its something she really does not want to do, expecting to get it consistantly is not reasonable. I'm sure you would feel similarly if your girl really wanted you to do some act you hate all the time. In this case, you either get over it or find a girl that enjoys that act.

 

[slickaz]

she doesnt swallow?....
she doesnt do ass to mouth to ass to mouth?
what the ***** is it that you wanna do man?

THIS girl is doing more than most girls i know, i mean 55 minute bjs, bjs while u drive even..F*K!

im seriously curious about what it is you wanna do to her, coz im gonna try this on my next..lol

 

[Ragin_Asian]

she's done threesomes before...but wont do it with me...she has her reasons stating why she would never ever do anything like that ever again...but i was thinking she would have say never before that too. I dont want a threesome but something just as memorable and exciting.

So just being honest here (being open to flames here) I just want to do anything and everything I could do with just me and her just to get that out of my head...My situation is similar to another OP a long while ago.

It f's with my head to why someone had it better than me now. Like I've been saying stupid crap like....how come you said yes to this and that with other people but you wouldnt do what I like.

 

[slickaz]

do you realise how bad a man sounds when hes saying that to a girl that is in a relationship with him?
i mean dude, you gotta understand alota girls do alota stupid things when theyre younger...

let it go man, the more attention you give, the more guilty shes gonna feel..and even IF you get youre way its going to be her doing it out of pity or guilt..both of which you dont want.

i do understand 3somes are most male fantasies (personally i dont feel the same as id rather put all my attention to one girl at a time..) but sure if she did smtn with somebody else..why not you..but also realise..every girl has had her first kiss with somebody else...if ur the second dude shes kissin..well you cant say no i wanna be the first..shes done it..its over..its her past..get over it and dont make her feel guilty..and honestly..if i had your girl..trust me....shed be too busy enjoying her current experiences to talk about her past experiences...

you seem like a good dude, dont take what i said in this post the wrong way, im just saying this as a man to another man..
make the girl feel good man!..ur her man..u need t o please that woman..not whine to her..