She said it was not active. I pulled out my phone and said let's see, I'll call it right now. She jumped up and said "no, wait...." Then proceeded to throw a fit accusing me of "looking for **** to get mad about." I know this tatic, turn it back on the other person while throwing a royal fit, in hopes they will back down, but I didn't. Asked her who she gives that number to. She picks up a papasan chair over her head and heaves it against the wall (there goes the deposit). More arguing. Says she was "just talking to" this guy from blackplanet.com who lives in GA that she has never met. l leave. A day later got the "we should take a space break" stuff then she has been calling me wanting me back, sorry, etc.
That's the long story short version. I know what to do going forward, pretty much.