My gf has a 'private number'?!

[Mo B!tches]

3 weeks ago I was at my gf's place waiting for her to get home so we could go out. She called and asked me to look for something in one of her many purses - a key or something, I forget. I was digging thru one and finally dumped it out on the bedspread so I could sort thru it faster. I was putting the stuff back and saw a pager which was turned on, with the number taped on the back. I called the number from my own cell and her voicemail came on: "hey it's me and you reached my private number, leave a mssg or page me." This was kinda odd since on her main cell she has no voice message, she just uses the automated message. Anyway I have no suspicions, everything is cool with us, we have insane passion for each other, we have been together 11 months and exclusive for the last 7. So I left it alone but still think about it from time to time, why would someone need a 'private number'? I'm getting paranoid.

 

[jafyk]

You should ask her about it. Get an answer from her and then bring the answer to the forum. Then I'm sure based on what she said people will be able to tell you if it's something to be suspicious about. On the other hand maybe you should forget about and enjoy your happiness it unless you see real evidence to make you suspicious.

 

[r0cky]

yea private numbers are common among escorts and doctors, so lets just hope she's a doctor.

 

[KontrollerX]

Is she a lawyer, doctor or government agent?

If none of the above I would be concerned if I were you.

 

[Mo B!tches]

I don't know. If I was up to no good, and kept a private line, I sure as hell would never leave it where others could find it or ask my gf to go looking around my apt digging into stuff.

Aren't private lines like this made so you don't have to give out your real phone number? I'm not gadget-savvy.

 

[AKA FLEX]

Ask her about the pager, but don't tell her you called it. She can't accuse you of snooping because she asked you to look through her purse.

Who still carries a pager anymore? What is it, 1994 again?

 

[Mo B!tches]

Ask her about the pager, but don't tell her you called it. She can't accuse you of snooping because she asked you to look through her purse.

Who still carries a pager anymore? What is it, 1994 again?

True I didn't go looking for anything. It was one of those cheapo mobilfone ones you can get at a mall kisok. Guess it's only purpose is to provide a forwarding number.

I did notice it had a display screen, which indicated it was locked.

 

[AKA FLEX]

True I didn't go looking for anything. It was one of those cheapo mobilfone ones you can get at a mall kisok. Guess it's only purpose is to provide a forwarding number.

I did notice it had a display screen, which indicated it was locked.

Normally I would say not to sweat something this silly, but this whole situation smells fishy to me. Like an earlier poster said, the only people who have "private numbers" are doctors and escorts, and I'm guessing you've never seen a stethoscope around this girl's neck.

I would ask her about the pager ASAP. If her answer doesn't reconcile with what you've already found out on your own, you know you've got a lying sl-- on your hands and you can say what the barber said.... "NEXT!"

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Naw, bro. Totally normal for a person to have a secret like a 'private number' that they don't tell you about. I mean really.. who DOESN'T have a 'private number' that they don't tell their significant other about? lol.

My boy's father is a doctor. His younger wifey got bored and became a high priced escort for a few years. His dad eventually found out, she took 1/2 his sh!t and now she's just chillin'. He's all fcuked up over that one.

FYI, 11 months isn't sh!t. :cheer:

 

[pricey rowe]

Listen To Er!c L!ve!!!!!take Heed To That Sh!t

 

[guywhoneedshelp]

Some people will say that the moment you feel the reason to spy and worry about this stuff, you're with the wrong person. However, you may be with the right person, since you do have a strong passion for each other and this private line may be no big deal.

So I would strongly suggest you do not download a program called spector pro from http://www.email-spying.com/ to see if she is up to no good on the computer and definitely not buy a SIM card reader from http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/cellphone-spy-simcardreader.html so you can read all the texts that she deletes because that would just be morally wrong. You wouldn't want to visit that website and download that piece of software and read her myspace and e-mails and stuff, that is such a terrible thing to do. You also wouldn't want to be going to http://www.geminitracking.com/ and buying something that you can hide in the trunk of her car or anything like that because that is just morally wrong.

 

[Dole]

Some people will say that the moment you feel the reason to spy and worry about this stuff, you're with the wrong person. However, you may be with the right person, since you do have a strong passion for each other and this private line may be no big deal.

So I would strongly suggest you do not download a program called spector pro from http://www.email-spying.com/ to see if she is up to no good on the computer and definitely not buy a SIM card reader from http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/cellphone-spy-simcardreader.html so you can read all the texts that she deletes because that would just be morally wrong. You wouldn't want to visit that website and download that piece of software and read her myspace and e-mails and stuff, that is such a terrible thing to do. You also wouldn't want to be going to http://www.geminitracking.com/ and buying something that you can hide in the trunk of her car or anything like that because that is just morally wrong.

Do you work for the CIA?

 

[Kev07]

Some people will say that the moment you feel the reason to spy and worry about this stuff, you're with the wrong person. However, you may be with the right person, since you do have a strong passion for each other and this private line may be no big deal.

So I would strongly suggest you do not download a program called spector pro from http://www.email-spying.com/ to see if she is up to no good on the computer and definitely not buy a SIM card reader from http://www.brickhousesecurity.com/cellphone-spy-simcardreader.html so you can read all the texts that she deletes because that would just be morally wrong. You wouldn't want to visit that website and download that piece of software and read her myspace and e-mails and stuff, that is such a terrible thing to do. You also wouldn't want to be going to http://www.geminitracking.com/ and buying something that you can hide in the trunk of her car or anything like that because that is just morally wrong.

:crackup:

no seriusly, what does your girl do for a living, that might answer something

 

[Alphamale1821]

hmmm a private pager number....why else would a girl have a private pager number. maybe she has a secret side job.

 

[Alle_Gory]

What does she charge by the hour?

 

[PlayToWin]

I think we all know what the answer is here, sorry to be negative ned, lol, but we all know this is bad news, probably REALLY BAD NEWS. I mean the fact that the original poster hasn't replied on his own thread shows 2 things.

1. He was hoping everyone would say it was no biggie, and that he could blow it off as something that was not big deal and go on with his day(although the fact he came on here for advice shows he was very concerned despite trying to downplay it a bit.)
2. That he may be a little embarrassed considering almost every reply on the thread is saying that she is up to no good, and that is obviously and understandably no the answer he was looking for.
3. That he probably confronted her since then both from his own suspicions, and the fact almost everyone on here agrees she is up to no good. I feel that if she had a valid reason after he confronted her, or at least a valid reason he could come up with in his head, that he would have made a post explaining the situation and it would save him some face in the situation(even if just on a internet forum)

 

[jafyk]

GuyWhoNEEdsHElp, why are you telling him not to go to certain sites and yet you list those sites. It seems to me that in a round about way you're asking him to go to the sites?

 

[i am me]

your girls a drug dealer lol

 

[-=Ice-T=-]

GuyWhoNEEdsHElp, why are you telling him not to go to certain sites and yet you list those sites. It seems to me that in a round about way you're asking him to go to the sites?

Is this guy serious?

 

[Kev07]

Is this guy serious?

I think he is :crackup: