My game is tighter, yet my friend gets the girls

[chad2k5]

what's the deal? he's a good friend and all, but man this site says it's about game and mine is smoother but he usually ends up getting the attention. he's got a steady g/f now so we don't really sarge much anymore.

here's a pic of him.

http://img405.imageshack.us/img405/3598/83776567.jpg

maybe I just think my game is better? not sure

 

[djinhell]

hmmmm, looks a lot like that guy who kept starting threads about how amazing stubble is, and posting pics of himself!

 

[horaholic]

Whoever is getting the girls, obviously has more game. end of story.

 

[Duffdog]

Whoever is getting the girls, obviously has more game. end of story.

Absolutely not the end of the story. Its typically whomever is more attractive to the girl, regardless of game.

 

[everywomanshero]

Naw none of the **** you read about online matters. It can matter but it doesn't need to. IOWs it's possible to get lots of ***** being a big entertainer and all that, but it's not needed to get a ton of *****, I am talking in the 100s easily without being able to entertain people at clubs. It's called you get the girl alone and you **** her. haha. If only I were kidding too, but it's really that simple. ALl the tricks people are doing are just getting in their way, wasting time that could be spent alone with a girl ****ing her instead of waiting for the magic sign, waiting for her to "pass" your big kino tests, and waiting and waiting until time runs out and all you have is a phone number. As long as people lack confidence in themselves, they look for more tricks, more magic bullets, more reasons to get in their own way.

You think listening to that 1,0000th audio dating guide will help ha ha go a head.. then go spend 55 hours practicing it and never realize how many chicks could've been banged in that time. The only reason I will even tell you this simple truth is because I've already ****ed my fair share of chicks. If I create a few more guys that can score into the 100s, it doesnt really matter to me. Most guys who know this will keep it to themselves or sell you some bull**** instead so they can keep living the good life while you run around in circles and give them money to boot. Besides I know very few will wise up, most will keep running in the hamster wheel and wonder why their results are ****. To not do so would require one to put confidence in himself, to believe the girl wants to **** him no matter what "signs" some data guru claims she is sending. The dirty secret is to turn off that kind of thinking, not add more and more.

 

[FutureSpartan]

Naw none of the **** you read about online matters. It can matter but it doesn't need to. IOWs it's possible to get lots of ***** being a big entertainer and all that, but it's not needed to get a ton of *****, I am talking in the 100s easily without being able to entertain people at clubs. It's called you get the girl alone and you **** her. haha. If only I were kidding too, but it's really that simple. ALl the tricks people are doing are just getting in their way, wasting time that could be spent alone with a girl ****ing her instead of waiting for the magic sign, waiting for her to "pass" your big kino tests, and waiting and waiting until time runs out and all you have is a phone number. As long as people lack confidence in themselves, they look for more tricks, more magic bullets, more reasons to get in their own way.

You think listening to that 1,0000th audio dating guide will help ha ha go a head.. then go spend 55 hours practicing it and never realize how many chicks could've been banged in that time. The only reason I will even tell you this simple truth is because I've already ****ed my fair share of chicks. If I create a few more guys that can score into the 100s, it doesnt really matter to me. Most guys who know this will keep it to themselves or sell you some bull**** instead so they can keep living the good life while you run around in circles and give them money to boot. Besides I know very few will wise up, most will keep running in the hamster wheel and wonder why their results are ****. To not do so would require one to put confidence in himself, to believe the girl wants to **** him no matter what "signs" some data guru claims she is sending. The dirty secret is to turn off that kind of thinking, not add more and more.

Nail...meet hammer.

Spot on.....most guys here can't seem to accept the fact that your typical socialized hot girl will hook up with a guy for the simplest reasons....aka SHE WAS ATTRACTED to his appearance, status, or wealth and HE aggressively setup an opportunity for sex to happen.

This is how it goes down 90% of the time.

A girl that wants you will make it easy for you as long as you don't blatantly screw up with negative actions/mindsets.


So what if your friend gets more girls? Maybe its because he's a normal social guy that knows how to connect with girls on a deeper level than constant jokes and teasing. He's could be better looking than you also...game can only compensate for so much buddy.

 

[bukowski_merit]

WTF? knowing this stuff isn't going to make you automatically better than guys who even have lesser "game"...

it gives you a decent advantage... and gets your mindstate right... that's about it...

it's not magic.

somewhere along the line - your friend triggered her attraction switches more than you; that's it; whatever "game" he was using worked on her... instead of complaining about it - you should have been paying attention to what worked for him...

my guess is your friend gives off a vibe of someone who has a lot of sex, knows what he's doing, and can give it to them good... i got friends like this and am like this myself now... i wasn't always like this... i tried to do magic tricks too once... honestly, once i started getting complimented on sex with every girl i got with - that's when i became great with women... that confidence comes out of me naturally now... and i do very little of what is taught on here (im not saying it doesn't work, it defitnely does, but i no longer have to care about that stuff).

 

[Rex Man]

Maybe you look like ass?

Are you in shape? Do you give off bad vibes?

It's not always WHAT you say as much as HOW you say it. Are you looking for IOI's. Some piece of the puzzle is obviously missing.......Find it

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

hmmmm, looks a lot like that guy who kept starting threads about how amazing stubble is, and posting pics of himself!

ROFL , that was the first thing that popped in my mind after watching the pic. "its the stubble guy" . :crackup:


@OP:

Bro , the problem is you. Its probably that you give bad vibes , or you feel insecure when he's around or whatever but its not the looks.
He must be more charismatic or must be more masculine and dominant or whatever.

 

[WhtRbt]

You're game is not tighter. Simple as that.

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

He gets the girls because you think about "game", and he just is what he is.

 

[WhtRbt]

He gets the girls because you think about "game", and he just is what he is.

The tightest game is coming full circle and not having one.

 

[Kupid Diggs]

What exactly do you guys mean when you say "Bad Vibes"?
Explain a bad vibe then explain what a good vibe is...

 

[nismo-4]

Maybe these girls are just not that into you? they seem more into the other guy.

What you need to do is improve your game and give off better vibes. If you act more of a man, you'll do better.

 

[Rex Man]

What exactly do you guys mean when you say "Bad Vibes"?
Explain a bad vibe then explain what a good vibe is...

You ever been around some dude and while there wasn't any thing wrong about him per se, you wouldn't trust him around your younger family members.

It's basically how genuine you feel a person is. And the rapport you build with them. It can go a long way too. Too see some good examples of good vibes, watch some late night talk shows and observe very popular people.

Bad Vibes? Well......there's always the Republican party?

 

[horaholic]

Absolutely not the end of the story. Its typically whomever is more attractive to the girl, regardless of game.

Yes. But whoever has the best game, either studied, or natural, is more attractive to the girl, get it? Thats what 'game' is. Making yourself more attractive to females, whether its inner or outer, or genetics, its all part of the game.

Besides, anyone with great game, can steal a girl off of the other guys easily.

 

[Duffdog]

Yes. But whoever has the best game, either studied, or natural, is more attractive to the girl, get it? Thats what 'game' is. Making yourself more attractive to females, whether its inner or outer, or genetics, its all part of the game.

Besides, anyone with great game, can steal a girl off of the other guys easily.

If you actually believe that crap, then I feel sorry for you. Lets reverse the scenario shall we?

You are with a 6 who is an excellent conversationalist and you really like her and blah, blah, blah... all of a sudden, a 10 comes along and does nothing more than wink at you and walk off. Would you ditch the 6 and go after the 10 who was clearly interested in you? Duh, of course you would. And you would do it for NO other reason than because the other girl was hotter. I guess that if you define absolutely everything as game (like you did), then you would be right, but that's a stretch, isn't it...

It sort of sounds like you are saying that more attractive people have more game anyways, so average people will always lose because their game can never compare?

 

[horaholic]

It sort of sounds like you are saying that more attractive people have more game anyways, so average people will always lose because their game can never compare?

Not at all. Quite the opposite actually. Im saying game=attraction, which means average people can outgame naturally attractive people if they know what they are doing. I know guys that are naturals, and not that good looking, that can swoop a girl I've been working on all night, in five minutes. They have WAY more game than me, and are thus more attractive. I can game girls pretty easily, but I suck when there is competition from the naturals I know. It has nothing to do with looks.

As for your scenario with the 6 and the 10. As guys, of course we will go for the 10. She's hotter. Girls dont think that way though. They will find as exciting, alpha genetic 6, more attractive than they will a boring beta 10 guy, and the 10 guy will think to himself, "Im way better looking than that guy. Why does he get the chick?" Well, cuz the other guy has game.

Dont forget that girls have totally different standards of attraction.
That should have been the first thing you learned on this site or any other one, for that matter..

Everyone in the entire community believes 'that crap.'

 

[edger]

what's the deal? he's a good friend and all, but man this site says it's about game and mine is smoother but he usually ends up getting the attention. he's got a steady g/f now so we don't really sarge much anymore.

here's a pic of him.

http://img405.imageshack.us/img405/3598/83776567.jpg

maybe I just think my game is better? not sure

I hear ya man. I deal with it all the time, in the same shoes as you. Having good game isn't a cure for the common cold.

Naw none of the **** you read about online matters. It can matter but it doesn't need to. IOWs it's possible to get lots of ***** being a big entertainer and all that, but it's not needed to get a ton of *****, I am talking in the 100s easily without being able to entertain people at clubs. It's called you get the girl alone and you **** her. haha. If only I were kidding too, but it's really that simple. ALl the tricks people are doing are just getting in their way, wasting time that could be spent alone with a girl ****ing her instead of waiting for the magic sign, waiting for her to "pass" your big kino tests, and waiting and waiting until time runs out and all you have is a phone number. As long as people lack confidence in themselves, they look for more tricks, more magic bullets, more reasons to get in their own way.

You think listening to that 1,0000th audio dating guide will help ha ha go a head.. then go spend 55 hours practicing it and never realize how many chicks could've been banged in that time. The only reason I will even tell you this simple truth is because I've already ****ed my fair share of chicks. If I create a few more guys that can score into the 100s, it doesnt really matter to me. Most guys who know this will keep it to themselves or sell you some bull**** instead so they can keep living the good life while you run around in circles and give them money to boot. Besides I know very few will wise up, most will keep running in the hamster wheel and wonder why their results are ****. To not do so would require one to put confidence in himself, to believe the girl wants to **** him no matter what "signs" some data guru claims she is sending. The dirty secret is to turn off that kind of thinking, not add more and more.

But let me ask you, are you referring to attractive women here?...because in general, avg. to below avg. chicks are easy.

 

[nismo-4]

On a serious tip, average guys have to try 5 times harder than naturals. Naturals don't have to worry about a girl being taken nor do they have to worry about the sh*t tests. The attraction process goes much faster when you're a natural.

Looks gets you in the door. Personality keeps you in the door. If you can't get in the door in the first place, personality is virtually useless.