My friends sister...

[viktor1983]

Hi,

i haven't been visiting for a long time, but now i need your suggestion.

Situation:

haven't known much my friend's sister (Jennifer) for a long time, but now she work with us... haven't talked her too much, but she hasn't got a boyfriend now, and she's a 9

She enjoys partying, working with me very much (as she told, and as she acts), touches regularry my leg, calls almost every day for 10-15 minutes on my mobile, and does almost everything to stay two ... last sunday travelled about 100 kms for sleeping here (nothing happened, we just got drunk, i've got a girlfriend now, and she knows...)

now i'm gonna drop my girlfriend, because I realised about two months before i doesn't like her really... The situation would be easy from here (distance doesn't matter, i don't like girls wanting to meet every day, and we are doing photos together almost on every party..), if she wouldn't speak about her advantages last night, about the boy who performed bad, etc..

I'm not gonna jump from the 10th level if we stay friends, i can easily find a girlfriend if i really want... The real problem is that we are doing an internet site about partys, and she is one of our photographers too, so i must have the friendship of her, because we have to work together for a long time... Someone said don't try to pick her up, because of the site.... After having been in a relationship it's not a problem for me to hold the friendship, but it could be problematic if I misunderstand the signs....

So what's your suggestion? Should I try "picking up" her, or not?

Thanks for your reply in advance, and sorry for my english....

 

[sfalexi]

Wow. You're really breaking a lot of rules here. . .

"Don't dip the pen in the company ink". Do NOT go after someone you have to work with on a day to day basis. It only leads to everyone else being in your business (cause if YOU don't tell them, she will) and it leads to problems.

"Don't mess with a friend's close relative" - EVEN if your friend says it's 'ok'. Cause now HE'S gonna have to deal with the **** when that girl comes home and starts *****ing to him about how she wishes you would do this and he's gonna end up stuck in the middle.

Leave her alone.

Alexi

 

[Fenderules]

yeah. If you had really a lot of chemistry you would have alrday been togethor so i'd say she's not worth the potencial hassel that could occur.

 

[viktor1983]

i know her since jan1

 

[Fenderules]

i say dont mix business with pleasure.

 

[quest]

probably best to stay away from her..

+ i know this might sound a bit weird.
but there is alot of girls that LOVE to flirt with a taken guy, then when he dumps her, flirting is reduced (not cut off) and any move you make will be thwarted.

think about it, what an ego boost if u can make a guy dump his girlfriend for you.