PianoGuy33
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So at the beginning of school year my friend meets this girl about a week before I do. They are already dating when I first meet her. I think she is cool and am happy for my friend. Anyways, my personality is to tease, so I begin teasing her about all sorts of things, and it is obvious that she is more reactive to me than to her BF.
Throughout our interactions over the period of two months, her BF notices how reactive she is to my jokes, and begins to get jealous. I tell him not to worry.
So every time she sees me she always grabs my arms, my hands, and laughs hysterically at everything I say. This past week she has started to ask me to hang out. She comes over to my place, and we sit and talk on the couch. She says that she doesn't love her boy friend, but she tells him that she does so he doesn't feel bad. She also got into my bed and started wrestling with me trying to get something in my hand that I was holding onto.
So when I go out with her and her BF, she is still way more reactive to me, and I never see them kiss or anything. The thing is, I know that if she was my GF, we would be kissing all the time, because I can tell how much she likes me.
So she's going to her BF's parents for christmas for a week, and she texts me that she will miss me. I respond by saying that something is going on here, and telling her that I think you like me. She asks why I thought that, and I told her it was because she always laughs at everything I say, she is always touching my arms, and touching my hands, and that she went straight to my bed when she came over for the first time. She responded by saying, sorry if I confused you, but I just like you as a friend.
I asked her if she was just saying that because she feels guilty about liking another guy while she is in a relationship, or because there was actually nothing between us. She called me, and told me she didn't want to answer my question.
Then we talked on the phone for like 2 hours, and she is laughing at everything I say, and I am making sexual jokes to her, and she is eating it up.
I like her a lot too, and I just need some advice. What should I do?
Should I try and make her break up with her BF?
Do I believe her that she just likes me as a friend?
Do I just forget about her?
How do I win her over?
She also tells me that she doesn't love her boyfriend and that sometimes she wonders why she is in a relationship with him?
Sorry for the long message, but please help a brotha out!
Peace!
Throughout our interactions over the period of two months, her BF notices how reactive she is to my jokes, and begins to get jealous. I tell him not to worry.
So every time she sees me she always grabs my arms, my hands, and laughs hysterically at everything I say. This past week she has started to ask me to hang out. She comes over to my place, and we sit and talk on the couch. She says that she doesn't love her boy friend, but she tells him that she does so he doesn't feel bad. She also got into my bed and started wrestling with me trying to get something in my hand that I was holding onto.
So when I go out with her and her BF, she is still way more reactive to me, and I never see them kiss or anything. The thing is, I know that if she was my GF, we would be kissing all the time, because I can tell how much she likes me.
So she's going to her BF's parents for christmas for a week, and she texts me that she will miss me. I respond by saying that something is going on here, and telling her that I think you like me. She asks why I thought that, and I told her it was because she always laughs at everything I say, she is always touching my arms, and touching my hands, and that she went straight to my bed when she came over for the first time. She responded by saying, sorry if I confused you, but I just like you as a friend.
I asked her if she was just saying that because she feels guilty about liking another guy while she is in a relationship, or because there was actually nothing between us. She called me, and told me she didn't want to answer my question.
Then we talked on the phone for like 2 hours, and she is laughing at everything I say, and I am making sexual jokes to her, and she is eating it up.
I like her a lot too, and I just need some advice. What should I do?
Should I try and make her break up with her BF?
Do I believe her that she just likes me as a friend?
Do I just forget about her?
How do I win her over?
She also tells me that she doesn't love her boyfriend and that sometimes she wonders why she is in a relationship with him?
Sorry for the long message, but please help a brotha out!
Peace!
