My friends G/F is falling for me...

[PEACEDJ]

Man, I don't know if I should be happy or not, but one my good friend has a g/f (HB 8.75) now i knew this chick before my friend did. She was the type of the girl where every guy drooled all over and had MADD AFC... me on the other hand love to flirt with her but I never really wanted to date her at all and my feelings haven't changed. Many people think we go out because of how heavily we flirt but I for some reason these days I keep sensing that she's falling for me and my friend senses that too and wants to keep her away from me. I don't want anything bad to happen between my friend and I, but this chick and I are like kickass friends (believe me I'm not falling for her or even want her) and I don't want her and I to be feeling burdens on our shoulders because of this friend.


IDK.. What would you guys do?

PS. She told her b/f to chill out and she keeps wanting to go on dates with me and what not (hence why I came up with the conclusion that she likes me and her friends keep telling me the samething)

 

[xblitz44x]

Lets get this out in the open first. You would fvck her if the situation was right. And apparently she would fvck you. So apparently your advice here is to try to talk you out of wanting to have sex with her. If you weren't struggling with that exact dilemma then you would realize that a piece of pvssy isn't worth the cost of your friendship and distance yourself from her without question; and there would be no fuel for this post.

It seems like more and more on this board, advice is becoming that thing you ask for when you already know what you should do, but wish you didn't.

 

[prosemont]

Your "good friend" is a burden to you and his girlfriend???

You're a tool.

 

[Seeph]

Bro's before hoe's. learn this.

 

[thejuice]

xxblitz44xx, i can see where youre coming from with the existentialist philosophy here except that i really think he doesnt want to fvck her. If shes an 8.5, i would defenitely want what shes offering, but thats just me, not him. I think he knows he should do something, but is unsure of what it is considering the situation. He wants to preserve both relationships but a decision will complicate things, so hes avoiding the decision as long as possible. If he decides one way, itll screw the other and vice versa. So heres my advice...more of a question to get you focused peacedj...what would make YOU feel better? If you can be honest with yourself, youll know what to do

 

[stuartSan]

You don't want to be with her, so thats good. If you really mean it, talk to your good friend about it. He SHOULD trust you since you're both good friends.. and if he chooses to get anal over this (which means he doesn't trust you enough as a good friend that you wouldn't want anything with his gf) he probably isn't a friend worth having anyway.

If I were in your position, I'd talk to both of them about it. I'd tell her that even though we're flirting, we're not going to have anything between us. I'd tell my good friend that nothing is going to happen between the girl and I and that he shouldn't stop us from hanging out together if he trusts me because the girl is my friend too.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by xblitz44x
It seems like more and more on this board, advice is becoming that thing you ask for when you already know what you should do, but wish you didn't.

You see it too, huh?

 

[Anonymous56]

How about stop flirting? You just said you don't want her anyway, why flirt then?

 

[Dee-Zy]

If your friend is really your friend then be straight up with him.

Tell him what you basicly told us.

It happened to me, some guys I chill with time to time started to hate on me because their girl was attracted to me.

It is a burden. If I were you, I'd do myself a favor and stop flirting though. That would be step one. Step two, turn her down when she wants to go out.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by xblitz44x


It seems like more and more on this board, advice is becoming that thing you ask for when you already know what you should do, but wish you didn't.

true true

 

[danziger]

Originally posted by Seeph
Bro's before hoe's. learn this.

agreed...in my words it's

"mates before dates"

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by Seeph
Bro's before hoe's. learn this.

Listen to this advice, BUMP.

 

[mrsoy]

i dont see the problem in dating a friends ex gf

couple of kids i know have done it and im currently with my friends ex gf and we are still best friends. if he or anyone else wanted to date my ex,i would really have no problem with it,it would actualy be kinda funny haha

 

[L-I-B]

Originally posted by Seeph
Bro's before hoe's. learn this.

this is where its at

 

[WaterTiger]

This chick will get you in trouble! She's a tease and she's going to cheat on your friend. If she truely cared for him, she wouldn't be acting like this. My advice to you:
DO NOT talk to her.
Avoid being alone with her.
Don't answer her calls.
STOP FLIRTING WITH HER. Would you want some guy doing that to YOUR gf? If she flirts with you just ignore her, don't respond.

Like the guys here have been saying, chicks come and go, but your friends can last a life time.

 

[RandomGuy]

The more you avoid her, the more challenge you will seem. and we all know challenge => attraction.

so use reverse psychology:

act like a wussy around her. tell her that's shes the most beautiful girl you ever know and you would only dream of going out with her. worship her like she's your goddess.

If all else fail you can use the classic line: "I am gay"