My friend just randomly texted me what do

[SoSly]

Further to my point about why she even send that text in the first place, have you considered its because your flirting made her feel attraction?

She may not want to feel attraction for you, she may think she's better than you or whatever, but attraction isn't a choice, its a physiological and psychological response to a specific set of behaviours and traits. So she may have sent that text to you because your DJ skills are improving and starting to affect her and she doesn't like it.

Well screw that, keep doing what you're doing. You got nothing to lose, right?

**** , Im really on the line with what to do here... go with a neg to a girl who has a boyfriend who just said "she doesnt like me like that" even though she may feel attracted to me , OR just basically say **** off and be done with her

 

[LE6END]

Sosly, we can give you all the advice in the world, and share our separate opinions, endlessly. Ultimately, however, its up to you to take the course of action you feel is neccessary. Don't be so dependent on other people's thoughts; as you see, it's split down the middle. You make the choice at the conclusion of the day.

Personally, i think you made a great decision. People who purposely hurt you deserve no place in your life, regardless whether she suddenly likes you or not. I cant imagine a relationship with her being a walk in the park.

 

[HalfAddict]

I'd delete her number and consider her nexted...but that's just me. I have better **** to do than jerk around with attention *****s.

 

[tryst type]

To the OP I see your conflict here with what to do/how to act. But, it's very simple the reason you even have such conflict is because deep down you WANT something from this girl. You want a kiss, you want attraction, you want sex.

This "wanting" from her is a sure sign that you won't get it, in fact you'll try to show you don't want anything in hopes of getting it! This is wrong, this causes pain, confusion, and everything that comes with wanting anything.

Take this into consideration, what if you truly could care less what she thought of you? I mean truly could give a sh*t. Becomes simple no? You'd respond with a funny neg or even ignore the text and both would send the right message to her because they'd be coming from a place of true indifference.

That's how you'd feel better about the situation and how she'd be the one in your current position wondering what to say/do/act to get your attention.

Remember, girls need to feel validated and true indifference towards them makes them act like an AFC they'll even go as far as giving you sex (their own real power against us) just for that validation. It's that pathetic behavior that gives us the upper hand.

 

[vatoloco]

**** , Im really on the line with what to do here... go with a neg to a girl who has a boyfriend who just said "she doesnt like me like that" even though she may feel attracted to me , OR just basically say **** off and be done with her

You wouldn't have this dilemma if you were spinning multiple plates.

Also, when she contacts you again (because she will; women don't easily give up their orbiters), this is what you do.

Vatoloco's infallible text never fails. (Hence the "infallible" part )

 

[r0cky]

Prime oportunity to create attraction here. Reply with "Phew, good cuz I didn't want you catching feelings for me right now" This will intrigue the sht out of her. If she's really interested she will reply asking for the reasons, at which point you keep it mysterious and even try to change the subject, because you don't care! Do not show any signs of being affected by her.
If she just replies with "ok" then you just go on your merry way.
Its a win/ win. It is from challenges like these that you learn the most, so dont cut her off until you've killed all your chances,

 

[r0cky]

You wouldn't have this dilemma if you were spinning multiple plates.

Also, when she contacts you again (because she will; women don't easily give up their orbiters), this is what you do.

Vatoloco's infallible text never fails. (Hence the "infallible" part )

Good stuff here. However I think you may still have a chance to get attraction, if you play your cards right.

 

[SoSly]

Good stuff here. However I think you may still have a chance to get attraction, if you play your cards right.

No matter how much I want to keep trying , I think its my best interests to let it go , and just ignore her..

 

[JPlaya]

Just ignore her.