Would it kill you to try a different way of meeting women?
Look up online dating on THIS SITE, and see the different ways people play these things through. There are two popular threads right now of guys gaming online chicks and using the IM chats to exemplify their game and getting good remarks on their progress. You should try the same.
People hook up through myspace all of the time, sometimes months before they ever meet in person.... I'd say it works great for virgin girls who never want to do anything until a certain amount of time passes, it's easy to let time fly if you just continue with your conversations online...
Be warned though, any extended breaks without ever meeting her in person is going to create a gap in the relationship. THe internet relationship gap is SOOOO difficult to explain I won't even try. Just make sure you avoid it. If you feel any lull in the progress of gaming this girl, tell her that you are starting to think so, and set up a meeting just to know what it's going to be like.
lol, I wish I didn't sound so AFC with the above, but it is all true, field tested hundreds of times. In an area larger than texas with only 50,000 people and prices up to $1700 for a plane ticket there are some girls I first started talking to a year ago that are totally in love with me. We've never met, but I've met their friends and family and the social proof is sweet
Yeah, if you feel weird, tell her, it only makes you more of a person. Call her up and set up a date, a metting, a lunch break, a party, whatever you want. You can ask her where she knows a good place to set up a party would be, C+F her about party life, get it all straightened out, and get her to invite at least ten friends, you'll do the same and tell her to be prepared for fun and whatever else may happen.
