My freind has turned into a real DJ, I'm impressed. But hes so fu<kin ugly!

[Breadstick2000]

Well about a year ago my mate was going out with these women that I was discusted by. There attidude was bad, and they always had something to complain about.

This still hasn't sunk in yet, he went on holiday last week. Met a blonde and waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa . She is about 19 out of 10. Yet she is so easy to get on with and pretty funny. But yet, she approached him! Take my word for it, she is very nice I saw a photo of them together and this fella ain't lying.

They went all the way and I think they slept together one night too.

lol, am still at the stage of trying to get numbers.

While he was away, I bumped into one of his ex girlfreinds in a pub. She was talking about her holiday shes going on in a couple of weeks and I asked who shes going with. She replied "The three girls you kissed". Yes thats true, I have kissed her and her two mates.

She moved on, and got a bit to in depth and I was ready to bail and she said "We think you are a really good lookin guy, but we never felt anything towards you one bit". But yet she goes out with my ugly mate. (no offence to him)

I really didn't believe women don't care about looks until now.

I don't get it women go crazy about my mate, but show no interest towards me what so ever. Yet I'm so HAAAAAAPYYYY!!!! at the moment and really can't see what turns them off.

What is it. I've really got used to talkin to women and kissed a lot with no effort. But they never go further as to having a date.

Its not fair!

There is something that puts women off me, but I can't work it out. I'm the happiest I've been in my life everythings going so well at work I've worked out loads at the gym and got out in the sun so Im lookin great. Im not that bothered about having a g/f right now, just have a goal to get one before I'm 20, thats 1 and a half years. I've been trying for three. lol, even if she only lasts a couple months. I want to be able to say "yeah, been there and found out what its like".

Please help me!

Thanks.

Breadstick
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[In Sync]

UK girls are useless. I can't be bothered with them any more.

 

[bugsquish]

Stop trying so hard, and be patient. Read Pook's kill that desperation article. It helped me change my outlook a lot and got me further with individual chicks.
Remember, there's not always logic to the game. I've been rejected by as low as 6.5s, but successful with an 8.8. And it's taken me 4 months of trying to even get a date here in the city. If I still cared so much I probably still wouldn't have got that far.

 

[mr.buick]

His confidence and esteem radiate. He's not afraid to get right in there and close the deal with a woman either. If these women said you're a good looking guy but had no interest, it's time turn you're confidence up a bit my friend. Make sure though you don't turn in to a female friend with a penis. If they just consider you a friend, it's time to move on. John

 

[TesuqueRed]

There's a problem here?

You're on track. Comparing yourself to your mate--while inevitable--won't get you anywhere.

But it can be useful. Like D'Angelo says, hang around your mate, a natural DJ, and just soak up what he does. Just being around him will do that.

So, you're like 18.5 yrs old, right? Life hasn't even started yet....

You're doing well, dude. Maintain course.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Young dude, relationships will most likely not be long-term from the ages of teenhood till about 23-25. Trust me on this! And your ugly friend has a better attitude on the romantce scene than you will ever have.