My FR Journal...

[Joe The Homophobe]

This is good stuff. Who says direct doesn't work? although it takes confidence (and good looks) to get the results that Chrisz is starting to get. Let us not forget that confidence can also help diminish the effect your looks have. Women go out with ugly men all the time, ugly CONFIDENT men.

 

[DonRaul]

Hmm I'm a bit of a skeptic about your FRs.

Your approach comes off very confident but I think you are coming on way too strong and direct. I personally dont believe in just saying. Hey you're cute, whats your number??? Sure if you ask 30 girls within a week, I'm sure a few may actually bite especially if they are young and hardly get approached.

I definitely like this report:

Me: I tell you what HB, you quit your job right now cuz I'm more fun than your job and we'll travel till the end of the world together.
Her: *cracks up* Yeah, I would like that.
Me: So when do you wanna hook up?
Her: Hook up to do what?
Me: I haven't decided yet. Depends on how well you behave. So what's your number?

She gave you her number but it was completely out of the blue. This makes a lot of women uncomfortable.

Try this next time:

Me: I tell you what HB, you quit your job right now cuz I'm more fun than your job and we'll travel till the end of the world together.
Her: *cracks up* Yeah, I would like that.
Me: I know you would
Her: haha
Me: I must warn you though I spank my employees when they mishave.
Her: OMG lol
Me: That reminds me I have to buy a new belt, mine is broken
Girl: you're too much
Me: What type of belt you recommend
Girl: Leather... I dunno
Me: U like it rough huh...
Girl: haha
Me: j/k, you should come help me pick one up at the mall.
Girl: OK that should be fun.
Me: Yeah... <rips a piece of paper and hands her one>
Girl: <writes her number>
Me: <write my number>
Me: Alright then see you soon... <hug and kiss>
Girl: ok nice meeting you... <sighs> wow

 

[ChrizZ]

Hmm I'm a bit of a skeptic about your FRs.

Your approach comes off very confident but I think you are coming on way too strong and direct. I personally dont believe in just saying. Hey you're cute, whats your number??? Sure if you ask 30 girls within a week, I'm sure a few may actually bite especially if they are young and hardly get approached.

I definitely like this report:

Me: I tell you what HB, you quit your job right now cuz I'm more fun than your job and we'll travel till the end of the world together.
Her: *cracks up* Yeah, I would like that.
Me: So when do you wanna hook up?
Her: Hook up to do what?
Me: I haven't decided yet. Depends on how well you behave. So what's your number?

She gave you her number but it was completely out of the blue. This makes a lot of women uncomfortable.

Try this next time:

Me: I tell you what HB, you quit your job right now cuz I'm more fun than your job and we'll travel till the end of the world together.
Her: *cracks up* Yeah, I would like that.
Me: I know you would
Her: haha
Me: I must warn you though I spank my employees when they mishave.
Her: OMG lol
Me: That reminds me I have to buy a new belt, mine is broken
Girl: you're too much
Me: What type of belt you recommend
Girl: Leather... I dunno
Me: U like it rough huh...
Girl: haha
Me: j/k, you want to come along to the mall with me?
Girl: OK that should be fun.
Me: Yeah... <rips a piece of paper and hands her one>
Girl: <writes her number>
Me: <write my number>
Me: Alright then see you soon... <hug and kiss>
Girl: ok nice meeting you... <sighs> wow

Thanks for your reply bro!

However, it's too much nice guy fluff talk for my taste. I'm not a big fan of small talk which doesn't lead to anything. I get straight to the point. Then I get to know her and escalate.

 

[ChrizZ]

I masturbated this morning and felt like a woman afterwards. Then I hit the gym.

At the gym I saw an HB8 (prolly in her mid 20s) working out. She had her IPod on and was in the woman's gym. I could feel AA rushing through my body, but somehow I still gathered courage. I looked at her from a distance and gestured her to come over and talk to me. She unplugged her IPod and came over with a pissed face.

Me: Hi, how are you?
Her: What do you want?!
Me: You are really cute and I want to get to know you better. What's your name?
Her: I'm HB. Thank you.
Me: So when do you wanna meet again?
Her: *gives me wtf look* Just keep doing whatever you were doing.

Then she starts listening to her IPod again without a word and turns around and leaves.

I have to say that I had nervous BL and bad EC though cuz I was scared sh!tless.

 

[ChrizZ]

Okay, so after this bad approach I decided to do at least one more approach.

However I couldn't find any good targets. I was disappointed, so I went back to the bus station. On my way to the bus I could see an HB7 with her friend. The HB7 was literally staring me down. After I went on the bus I was looking back at her and she was still staring me down. I said fvck this and hopped off the bus.

Then I approached her.

Me: If you look at me like that. You can also talk to me

HB: *dazzled* Umm... you were the one staring me down.

Me: Yeah, whatever. So what's your name?

HB: I'm HB.

Me: Look, I wanna see you again. I need to catch my bus though. Gimme your

number and we'll talk some more.

HB: Okay, it's blablabla. What's your name btw?

Me: ChrizZ. Was a pleasure meeting you.

...then I ran back to my bus and went home.

 

[AFC Savior]

Okay, so after this bad approach I decided to do at least one more approach.

However I couldn't find any good targets. I was disappointed, so I went back to the bus station. On my way to the bus I could see an HB7 with her friend. The HB7 was literally staring me down. After I went on the bus I was looking back at her and she was still staring me down. I said fvck this and hopped off the bus.

Then I approached her.

Me: If you look at me like that. You can also talk to me

HB: *dazzled* Umm... you were the one staring me down.

Me: Yeah, whatever. So what's your name?

HB: I'm HB.

Me: Look, I wanna see you again. I need to catch my bus though. Gimme your

number and we'll talk some more.

HB: Okay, it's blablabla. What's your name btw?

Me: ChrizZ. Was a pleasure meeting you.

...then I ran back to my bus and went home.

thats a perfect approach

call her soon so she remembers who u are, dont wait several days cuz u didnt have enough convo to make her wait

 

[ChrizZ]

Okay, today I was on fire.

Went sarging on campus.

#1

Cute HB8 was sitting on a bench by herself.

Me: Hi, how are you?
HB: Good
Me: Hey, do you know where XYZ is?
HB: Yeah, it should be somewhere back there. I'm not sure though. It's my first semester here.
Me: Oh really. Where are you from?
HB: blalbalblabla
.....
Me: So, what do you want to be after college?
HB: A doctor.
Me: Sexy and caring, I like that about you!
HB: *smile* thanks
Me: So, do you have a bf?
HB: No.
Me: Okay, it was nice talking to ya. I'll try to find XYZ now. I want to talk to you again. Why don't you give me your number?
HB: It's blablablaba

(we talked for about 15minutes total. Overall the interaction went really well)

things to improve:

- I introduced myself too late.
- I didn't do the handshake sandwich

#2
A really cute HB9 using the ATM

Me: Hi, how are you?
HB: Good.
Me: Oh, I hoped you were doing terrible so that I could come cheer you up smile
HB: *smiles and brushes her hair like crazy*
Me: I just moved here. What are some fun places to check out?
HB: Blablabla
Me: I'm Chris btw.
HB: I'm HB.
Me: I really like California, but there are also a lot of things that piss me off about it. ...*telling a fun short story about cops in California*
Me: So what do you study?
HB: English.
Me: Oh, I heard studying English is pretty tough. Sexy and smart, I like that.
HB: *blushes and smiles*
Me: So you wanna be a teacher then?
HB: No. I don't know what I wanna be yet.
Me: Okay. I really enjoyed talking to you. I want to talk to you again.
HB: Sorry, I have a boyfriend.
Me: That's fine. I only date girls with boyfriends
HB: *giggles* I got to go. Have a nice day!

(The approach was okay, but I know I made a couple of huge mistakes. The convo lasted about 10 mins)

points to improve:

- Again, I forgot the hand sandwich.
- I didn't ask for her relationship status early enough.
- I was running out of interesting open ended questions about her.
- I hesitated a little when I asked for her number.

#3
HB9 sitting by herself at a table and eating and studying.

Me: Hi, how are you?
HB: Good.
Me: Ehmm... how do you like studying here. I'm asking because I will be a student here soon.
HB: I like it.
Me: So, what do you study...
HB: Sorry, I'm trying to study here? What do you want?

(I'm not gonna go into more details here. The convo was a complete Crash&Burn. I only saw her from behind when I approached and then I suddenly saw that she was like 26 or something. That completely threw me off. I was just completely nervous and my mind went blank)

Points to improve:

- Everything smile

#4
I saw two hot chicks sitting at a lunch table. They were talking in Swedish. I had a can of coke in my hand.

Me: *raising my can* "Skol" (means "cheers" in Swedish). You guys are from Sweden aren't you?
HBs: Yes. *laughing*
Me: Oh yeah, I know a little Swedish. I know some Swedish people. Swedish people usually intimidate me though. My Swedish friend is 7ft tall and weighs 400pds. I feel so small next to him.
HBs: *laughing*. Wow, you are a big guy also though.
Me: So you are saying I'm fat? *jokingly*
HBs: *giggling*. No haha.
Me: What are your names btw?
HBs: HBs
Me: Are you guys sisters?
HBs: No, we are just friends.
Me: Oh, I thought you guys were sisters because you are wearing the exact same sunglasses.
HB: *giggles* Yes, but I got the cheap ones.
Me: hahaha, at least you are honest about it.
Me: So how is Sweden different from California?
HB: blalbalbla
Me: What are you guys studying?
HB: Blablabla
Me: Oh really.
HB: What do you study?
Me: Public speaking. It's something I love to do. I often get intimidated by large crowds though. That's why I often picture the audience naked.
HB: *laughing*
Me (I didn't really know where to take it): Oh, well. Was good talking to you guys.
HB: Have a good day.

(I don't know why I didn't escalate?!)

things to improve:

- escalating

#5
I went to the library. I was waiting for a computer when I noticed a cute HB8 standing next to me.

Me: It's always so crowded in here.
HB: yeah. For how long have you been waiting here?
Me: For about 2 hours. For how long have you been waiting here?
HB: I just got here. You really waited for 2 hours????
Me: Yes, that means I get the next computer.
HB: Wow, okay.
Me: haha, I'm just kidding. I just got here also. What's your name?
HB: LOL, I'm HB
Me: Are you from around here?
HB: Yes.
Me: I just moved here, what are some fun places to check out... besides the obvious *checking her out*
HB: blablabla
Me: So what are you studying?
HB: business
Me: Oh, so you want to have your own business then.
HB: Yes, I want to have my own coffee shop after I'm done with college
Me: Sexy and ambitious. I like that.
HB: Oh, thank you.

... then somebody gets off the computer and she takes the seat and says it was nice meeting you. I'm thinking. OMFG, she was cute. Too bad. After that I just grabbed a seat somewhere and started working on the computer. Believe it or not, about 20 minutes later she walks up to me with a sheet of paper in her hand. She drops it on my desk without a word and then leaves. Her name and her phone number was on it smile

things to improve:

- I think I did everything right

#6 My favorite approach of the day wink
I was on the bus home when I saw an HB9.5 sitting in front of me typing on her cell phone. She was a tough nut to crack.

Me: You don't have to text me. You can talk to me in person.
HB: oh, good one. Sorry, I really don't like talking to strangers.
Me: I totally agree. I don't like talking to strangers either, unless... they are very good looking and extremely charming.
HB: *She couldn't help but giggle*

... the bus stops and her bf gets on the bus and sits right next to her. He was the typical wannabe toughboy with baseball cap backwards and tattoos and stuff.

Me(talking to her bf): Hey, whatsup man?
BF: Nothing.
Me: Are you from around here?
BF: Yes.
Me: What are some good clubs to go to?
BF: BLABLABLA
*he grabs her hand*
Me: Oh, are you guys dating?
BF: Yes.
Me: I'm Chris btw. *I introduce myself and they introduce themselves* So, what's it like living in California?
BF: blablabla
*HB started to give me IOIs*
Me: *telling a little story*. You guys seem like cool people. How about we go to XYZ club sometime?
BF: Sure, what's your Cell# bro?
*while he was typing in his number I winked at his gf and she smiled*
Me: Blablabla. What's your number?
BF: blablabla
Me: And what's your number? *turning to HB*
HB: blablabla
Me: Alright guys, this is my stop. Have a good one.

... needless to say I'm only gonna call HB haha

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more approaches coming soon!

 

[HandyAndy]

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[Joe The Homophobe]

Your first approach was awesome. You went in smiling, with energy and confidence. You made her laugh and had a fun conversation from what I noticed.

Chrisz you were great today as always. You didn't feel the effects of sargin withdrawal as much as I did (for not doing this for like 2 weeks, before the 2 weeks we were doing this like 2-3 times a week and we were killing em) I was hella nervous and uptight. Next time i'm drinking 2 (or 3) beers right before the sarge in the parking lot to combat this

 

[ChrizZ]

Did an approach today. She was about a 7. She was sitting next to me at the bus stop. She wasn't that hot, but I still approached her for practice.

Me: Hey, let me ask you a question. Where are some good clubs to go to?
HB: I don't know. I don't party that much.
Me: You are the first girl from Switzerland I met that doesn't like to party! (I recognized that she was speaking in a Swiss accent)
HB: Wow, how did you know I was from Switzerland. Have I met you before.
Me: Yeah, remember last week? We hooked up at a party. *said jokingly*
HB: haha.
Me: What's your name btw?
HB: HB
Me: I'm Chris. So what's your story? *vacuum*
HB: Ehmm. What do you mean?
Me: Alright. I'll start. *telling about my life*
HB: *opens up and tells me pretty much her whole life story*
Me: So what do you want to be after college?
HB: I want to go back to Switzerland, but I don't exactly know what I'm gonna do then.
Me: Well, what are your passions in life?
HB: I like to read books.
Me: Sexy and smart. I like that. What kinda books do you read?
HB: blalblblabla
Me: *talking about books*
Me: I have to get going. I really enjoyed talking to you. I want to see you again. What's your number?
HB: It's blablablaba. What's yours?
Me: blablabla

things to improve:

- I didn't ask for her relationship status early on

 

[ChrizZ]

Did another approach today. I was walking around campus when I saw the hottest girl I have ever seen. I saw her before at the international student orientation about 3 months ago, but I had never talked to her. She was a perfect 10 and Swedish, Victoria Silverstedt lookalike. I got massive AA. I walked past her because I was too scared to approach. She was sitting there and reading something. I then went back to the bus station, then it hit me. "Is that all you got?!?!" I said to myself. I caught myself acting like a *****, so I gathered all my courage and went back to her. I had a can of pop in my hand. Here is how the interaction went...

Me: Skol (means "cheers" in Swedish)
HB: What?
Me: *vacuum*
HB: Oh, you mean Skol!
Me: Yeah, I know a little Swedish. Aren't you the Swedish girl I saw at the orientation a while ago?
HB: Yes.
Me: What's your name?
HB: HB
Me: Hi, I'm Chris. So how do you like it here so far? (this question was a mistake because it was not open ended)
HB: Good, I like California.
Me: Me too. However I gotta admit that when I first came here I felt really intimidated. Everyone is so damn good looking here.
HB: Oh, yeah. I know what you mean.
Me: So what do you do here?
HB: Oh, I just study and dance.
Me: Sexy and a dancer. I like that about you. I bet you know all the good clubs around here then?
HB: Yeah, blablabla are some good clubs.
Me: You know I really like California, but it pisses me off that you have to be 21+ to go clubbing.
HB: *agrees and talks about Sweden*
Me: So, do you have a bf here?
HB: Yes, I do.
Me: *I kept asking what the relationship is like*
Me: Well, I really enjoyed talking to you. Why don't you give me your number and we'll hang out sometime?
HB: I'm sorry. I don't give out my numbers to guys when I have a bf. I will prolly see you again though.
Me: Oh, okay. Well it was good talking to ya anyways. Take care.

The interaction was okay. I got a friendly vibe from her. However, looking back I saw some things I did wrong etc. I was really proud of myself that I actually approached because I had massive AA.

I might go clubbing tonight, so more FRs coming!

 

[BannedGod]

I masturbated this morning and felt like a woman afterwards. Then I hit the gym.

At the gym I saw an HB8 (prolly in her mid 20s) working out. She had her IPod on and was in the woman's gym. I could feel AA rushing through my body, but somehow I still gathered courage. I looked at her from a distance and gestured her to come over and talk to me. She unplugged her IPod and came over with a pissed face.

Me: Hi, how are you?
Her: What do you want?!
Me: You are really cute and I want to get to know you better. What's your name?
Her: I'm HB. Thank you.
Me: So when do you wanna meet again?
Her: *gives me wtf look* Just keep doing whatever you were doing.

Then she starts listening to her IPod again without a word and turns around and leaves.

I have to say that I had nervous BL and bad EC though cuz I was scared sh!tless.

Bro I really admire you for all your approaches, you are an inspiration to me. However, bothering someone when he's working out, with music on, can be one of the most annoying things out there. When I'm in the gym, most of the time I'm in my own world and I don't want to be bothered, especially when I'm psyching up for a heavy deadlift (for example). If I were you, I'd minimize the gym approaches to at least girls with no ipod, at least out of respect

anyways keep up the good work!

p.s. What's the handshake sandwich?

 

[ChrizZ]

Bro I really admire you for all your approaches, you are an inspiration to me. However, bothering someone when he's working out, with music on, can be one of the most annoying things out there. When I'm in the gym, most of the time I'm in my own world and I don't want to be bothered, especially when I'm psyching up for a heavy deadlift (for example). If I were you, I'd minimize the gym approaches to at least girls with no ipod, at least out of respect

anyways keep up the good work!

yeah, I know what you mean lol

However I think rejection is better than regret. She was hot, so I decided to just go for it.

 

[ChrizZ]

p.s. What's the handshake sandwich?

The handshake sandwich is when you shake her hand with both of your hands. By that I mean you give her your right hand, she shakes it and then you put your left hand on top of hers. That shows confidence and dominance.

 

[BannedGod]

The handshake sandwich is when you shake her hand with both of your hands. By that I mean you give her your right hand, she shakes it and then you put your left hand on top of hers. That shows confidence and dominance.

Ahhh ok I get it, I could give it a try hahah.

Hey out of curiosity, what are some of your PRs on the big lifts?

 

[ChrizZ]

Hey out of curiosity, what are some of your PRs on the big lifts?

what do you mean?

 

[BannedGod]

what do you mean?

Mmmh I guess you do not visit frequently bodybuilding.com. PR = personal record (1 rep max) and big lifts = mainly heavy compounds (bench press, back squat, deadlift, standing military press, BB Bent Row)

and yes I am temporarily hijacking your thread

 

[ChrizZ]

Mmmh I guess you do not visit frequently bodybuilding.com. PR = personal record (1 rep max) and big lifts = mainly heavy compounds (bench press, back squat, deadlift, standing military press, BB Bent Row)

and yes I am temporarily hijacking your thread

It's weird. I look pretty strong, but I can't really lift anything. TBH I don't really know the answer to your question.

 

[BannedGod]

It's weird. I look pretty strong, but I can't really lift anything. TBH I don't really know the answer to your question.

Ahhh ok ok. I guess you just simply do not eat enough proteins, or do a program strictly hypertrophy-wise. Anyways, I am done hijacking your thread, resume with your awesome progress bro!

 

[mostwantedbabyfather]

I like the approach you did on the couple good stuff man.