My First Legit Hookup

Brak86

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Guys, ive made a few threads asking for advice about how i should go about hooking up with this chick. Well, on friday night i decided that i think too much. So instead i decided to grow some nads. I told my best friend that i was gonna go for this girl and so we both decided that i would get this girl and he would get her friend.

I went to our school football game and she was there. I invited her out to "drink" and "party" in my car along with my friend and hers. My friend can hold alcohol better than me so he drove while i was in the backseat with the girl. And i initiated and got the hook up. It was pretty easy (even though i was drunk i still look at it as a huge improvement). I would have never done that awhile back, even under the influence. Anyways, i was gonna go further with her abnd my friend would have too but the girls had to go help their friend who was really sick and passed out. So all in all i just wanted to report that i wasnt just posting without trying.

But one question: If i wanted to maintain liek a steady hookup thing going with this chick, how do i go about doing it? I havent called her at all and i dont plan on it for awhile because i dont want to seem desperate.
 
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You got her drunk and hooked up with her? I'd wait about a week before I called her and if you do call her just ask her if she wants to hangout or something. When yall go somewhere just use C&F and do your thing. Everything should work out fine. That's what I do, not sure about other people. Hope this helps.

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you got her drunk then hooked up with her....hmmm neone eles have anything to say about this?
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
you got her drunk then hooked up with her....hmmm neone eles have anything to say about this?
no. she knew what she was getting into.
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
you got her drunk then hooked up with her....hmmm neone eles have anything to say about this?
whats wrong with that? if i'm drunk and a girl is drunk its fair game. plus another thing...girls don't just drink to get drunk they drink cause they want to h/u with guys and they want it to be stress free. GL to you bud and wait a few days call her and ask her if she wants to chill this weekend.
 

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Brak86

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Originally posted by E_ze05
you got her drunk then hooked up with her....hmmm neone eles have anything to say about this?
Not really. I had 3 beers then went to the school football game. At that point, and when i asked her to come with me, she had had NOTHING to drink. The drink was basically for me to just get over this hurdle. I should have added that before we went into my car, she went to hers and brought hard liquor. Therefore, when we finally arrived at my car, we had my beer and her liquor. I did not get her drunk. She wanted to herself.
Anyways, I feel so much better now and so much pressure has been taken off my back.
 

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Yeah. The only time I see hooking up with a drunk girl as taking advantage of her is if you haven't drank at all (or didn't drink very much) and she is completely drunk and would hook up with pretty much any guy that wanted to. Because even if the girl is somewhat drunk and you hook up with her, she still knows what she is doing and is hooking up with you because she wants to. When she would be willing to hook up with anyone she doesn't know what the hell she's doing and you're taking advantage of her.
 

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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Yeah. The only time I see hooking up with a drunk girl as taking advantage of her is if you haven't drank at all (or didn't drink very much) and she is completely drunk and would hook up with pretty much any guy that wanted to. Because even if the girl is somewhat drunk and you hook up with her, she still knows what she is doing and is hooking up with you because she wants to. When she would be willing to hook up with anyone she doesn't know what the hell she's doing and you're taking advantage of her.
Yea...i agree. But i probably left some stuff out of my story and mislead a few people. Nevertheless, im proud of myself.
 

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Originally posted by E_ze05
you got her drunk then hooked up with her....hmmm neone eles have anything to say about this?
Whats wrong with that? Wanna make a commercial?
 
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