My first,.. but......

[legrandtango]

I went to a ball last night and met a girl and we subsequently slept together(my first time)....3times!! Shes 19 and im 21 so all things considered pretty good.

But not really being prepared for this kind of thing i didnt have any condoms. She said no problem, im on the pill. But now hearing so much about it im really worried about getting an std. Im gonna go to the clinic this week and get all sorts of tests run but until then its pretty scary.

Obviously theres nothing you guys can really say but i just thought i would let off some steam. By The way i forgto to ask for this girls phone no which is not good, but i am seeing her next week at a society so thats ok.

 

[Real Man]

If youre 21 why does it say 19 next to your name?

Slept with her three times. Does this make you a stud? is that what you are saying?

 

[legrandtango]

sorry im 19 shes 21

 

[xblitz44x]

yeah it's a good idea to get that checked out. Another thing; just because she claims she is on the pill doesn't mean she really is. If a chick is caught up in the heat of the moment and wants to fvck just as much as you do, she'll tell you whatever you want to hear to make sure that you'll actually go through with it. Also, you have to be careful when girls start to REALLY like you to the point of obsession because sometimes they could be so crazy that they'd lie so you can shoot your load in her and get her pregnant in order to keep you. Sick, i know, but never discount anything.

 

[Knicknack]

what the hell is a "ball?" isn't that some old english BS where people where gaudy attire and act like a bunch of dumbasses?

 

[NewMan]

Let this be a lesson to you...

DON"T FVCK A WOMAN WITHOUT A CONDOM

not matter how hot or what she tells you....

 

[Paradox]

Originally posted by NewMan
Let this be a lesson to you...

DON"T FVCK A WOMAN WITHOUT A CONDOM

not matter how hot or what she tells you....

Ditto.

A DJ always walks with a condom. Duh!

 

[b's nuts]

Originally posted by NewMan
Let this be a lesson to you...

DON"T FVCK A WOMAN WITHOUT A CONDOM

not matter how hot or what she tells you....

What if you got a gf that you know is clean and is on the pill, condoms suck, yep, condoms suck.

 

[jetli]

did she come 3 times ( how long did the whole thing last?)

 

[AMF]

"Socially brainwashed politically correct nonsense" aside, male enjoyment of sex is seriously impaired by a condom.

Imagine: It's the heat of the moment. Your both consumed by passion.

Your hot, she's sweaty, the tension and anticipation building inside both of you, you can smell how wet she is, you want that warm wetness surrounding you, taking all of you inside...

"oh, hang on.. sorry. wait. I... cant... get it... sorry. ooh, can you... help??... (laughter, ruining the moment).. thats it... wait... oh sorry (nervous lauughter. the moments... gone?) Think I must be tired honey... sorry. im sorry. err, can we cuddle instead?"

If you do get it on without either your erection or the moment slipping away, your reward is being de-sensitized to the point where you may not even be able to come.

And the woman? Oh, she's probably enjoying it even more. Those ribs really help her get off.

Condoms also mediate and sanitize sex. You are literally not in direct contact with her. In my opinion it no longer possesses the animal, basic quality, and those are the things that make sex so liberating and lovely.

I USUALLY would rather not have sex at all, if I have to use a condom.

Im aware that contraception is a hotly contentious issue, riddled with social and sexual politics.

AND I'LL SAY IT LOUD AND CLEAR:

IM ALSO AWARE THAT NOT TO USE ONE IS A HUGE RISK.

I'm not stupid. But sometimes I think condoms must be a female invention.

My edit of a popular contraceptive campaign:

"Condoms protect against STDs, unwanted pregnancy and men enjoying sex."

Peace.

 

[ManOMan]

AMF, sounds like you are playing with a loaded gun. Listen to yourself? You'd rather risk death, to increase the sensation in your penis??

Sounds like Darwin had a point

To the original poster, I would just get an HIV test, the other forms of STD testing is VERY painful (think a q-tip in your penis), and usually nothing can be detected unless you start having symptoms (i.e. VD, Ghonorhea and Herpes) cant be tested unless you have some abnormal symptoms/discharge

 

[legrandtango]

God, i dont know if she came once. She did seem to tense up more than usual at certain points and she made a fair amount of noise. To be honest by the third time, i couldnt even come . I had nothing left to come lol. Yeh, it seems witrh herpes if i was wearing a condom, i could still have caught it. Also at least with vd, its treatable with antibiotics. But i will get that hiv test. Hopefully the stats will be on my side and everything will be ok. I thought with hiv tests even if you are clear you cant be sure till 6 monts later when you have another test.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Yepp, condoms ruin everything...

One of the hottest sexual moments I had was when I was sharing a bed with some girl I'd seen a couple of times and fooled around with. We just layed there for like an hour holding eachother, kissing, touching eachother. I wasn't even expecting sex and suddenly while we are making out she rips of her g-string, rips of my boxers and just sinks down on me. I've never ever felt such a wet, warm and great vagina in my life. We subsequentally ****ed about 20 times for the next couple of weeks before we stopped cause it was just a sexual relationship based on superficial attraction. Never with a condom.

 

[NewMan]

What if you got a gf that you know is clean and is on the pill, condoms suck, yep, condoms suck.

Depends on the chick...

Can you trust her? Have you had the "What if I get preggy" talk?

Yeah, there's nothing like screwing without a rubber - I had 4.5 yrs of that - spoilt me rotten, it's just not the same anymore.