My final push (Field Reports)

[Murk]

Because in the case of trying to hook up you can say almost whatever to get her back to your place as you play that numbers game. With sales you have to make sure you don't offend the client or they can get you fired.

Haha, in sales you say whatever it takes to get the sale, it's exactly the same. You play it safe with clients on certain things and sell them a dream on other things. It's all a game imo. Both numbers game also.

 

[Epicwinguy]

On Friday night I went to my usual spot. There were hardly any people there, but a few people in my social circle. I felt bad when I left because the women of the group treat me different than the other guys there. I went to a place with a fire pit last night and saw a woman I know. She is a single mother in her mid 30s. She's pretty to me, but when I asked her out the last time I saw her she said she wasn't on the market. She had female friends with her who I should have maybe tried to meet through her. Lesson learned for next time. Today I had a date with a 24 year old. She is kind of a shut in. Says she doesn't like to go out a lot. I matched with her on Hinge, and I am still very happy I finally got a date off dating apps even though nothing happened. I realized I am very bad as escalating.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

On Friday night I went to my usual spot. There were hardly any people there, but a few people in my social circle. I felt bad when I left because the women of the group treat me different than the other guys there. I went to a place with a fire pit last night and saw a woman I know. She is a single mother in her mid 30s. She's pretty to me, but when I asked her out the last time I saw her she said she wasn't on the market. She had female friends with her who I should have maybe tried to meet through her. Lesson learned for next time. Today I had a date with a 24 year old. She is kind of a shut in. Says she doesn't like to go out a lot. I matched with her on Hinge, and I am still very happy I finally got a date off dating apps even though nothing happened. I realized I am very bad as escalating.

You need more practice. You will fail a lot before you succeed. It's part of the path to getting better.

 

[Epicwinguy]

You need more practice. You will fail a lot before you succeed. It's part of the path to getting better.

I know, which is why I am putting in the effort to be consistent with it.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Almost forgot minutes to mention, I passed up an opportunity without really thinking last night. I was being goofy and squatting over the fire pit, a girl was amused by this and started doing it with me. Something hit my behind and I was startled by it...by the time I realized it was the girl smacking my ass, it was too late. Funny story though.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Watch the reaction from the women in this video. They’re all sluts. Don’t forget it. The biggest ones are wearing lily Pulitzer.

"That's why *I* wear a walkman"

 

[Bingo-Player]

I realized I am very bad as escalating.

You won't be able to escalate every girl you meet , its just pickup fantasy written in books in the early 00's

i would say at least 1 in 3 girls i come across are very stiff ,very awkward and very boring

Last week i was talking too 2 girls in the gym , they weren't incredible one was a 6 and the other was a 7

The 6 was very demure and i could tell had very very little experience with men to put it bluntly she was boring

The 7 was more confident and kind of cheeky , she told me she had a BF which i didn't pay any attention too , i acted disinterested went to use another machine ..... HB7 then follows me to the same machine and asks if she can join in

I know exactly what she is up too tell her she's taking advantage of me and the flirting begins.

we both knew there was a little vibe there , the 6 didn't really have a clue what was going on.

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It depends what type of guy you are but any girl you pick a vibe up with (like i did with hb7) they will generally follow your lead

I.E if you start flirting , she will start fliritng

If you have no vibes (attraction) it really doesn't matter what you say , and you will waste a lot of time trying to manufacture an ambience that was never there to begin with

 

[MatureDJ]

Alright, I will give my first report while I'm still here. The place isn't closing for another hour and there are plenty of women here, but I'm ready to go home. Maybe it's just because I've drank so much and I'm bored with the venue. Maybe I'm just getting too old to stay until last call, idk.

I went to a familiar dive bar in my local area that has a fire pit. I thought about easing myself into talking with women but it didn't pan out so well this time. I got a gin tonic and went to the fire pit, where conversations with strangers naturally just happen. People we're already mid conversation and I started out enjoying the fire and my drink. I got into a conversation with a guy about the crappy US public education system. One woman got in on the conversation, but she was taken. At some point I was alone at the fire with just me and a group of women chatting. I bitched out. At one point a petite girl was talking to me and some guys I just met and she was roasting them. I tried thinking of how to open her but my mind was a little blurred and she got bored of talking to the other guys and went over to another group. I'm not good at opening groups. In fact I didn't like this petite woman but sort of liked one of her friends, and planned to talk to one of the girls of the group to eventually meet her. This didn't work lol. Anyways, this is only the first of many documented game attempts, and sure I failed. But imagine you toss a coin repeatedly each day, and one day it falls on it's edge. Anyways, I'm going to finish my drink and head home. I need good rest for the gym tomorrow.

It's OVER for FirePitPUACels.