(My Father's) Women acting weird in my home.

[TheManMasenko]

My father is in his 40s and bangs 25-30 year old women. I'm 21 currently in school.

He usually has one FWB and he gives them the key to our home.

They usually come in, while I'm already home in my room and they usually don't (or ever) acknowledge my presence.I found this very weird/disrespectful.

My father is not the type to listen to female advice, funny enough he knows "game" and psychology but rarely applies it. Most times in when the situation is not in his favor.

Thoughts?

 

[NealIRC]

My father is not the type to listen to female advice,

Huh?

 

[threeforfree]

First things first, get your dad to sign up here because he can help give good advice.

 

[Tilex]

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Maybe someone is subconsciously sad his “I fncked my Dad’s hot gf” pr0n fap dream hasn’t come true?

 

[jafman]

My father is in his 40s and bangs 25-30 year old women. I'm 21 currently in school.

He usually has one FWB and he gives them the key to our home.

They usually come in, while I'm already home in my room and they usually don't (or ever) acknowledge my presence.I found this very weird/disrespectful.

My father is not the type to listen to female advice, funny enough he knows "game" and psychology but rarely applies it. Most times in when the situation is not in his favor.

Thoughts?

Are you wanting them to knock on your bedroom door and say hello? Do you leave your room and speak to them?

You might have to explain this with greater clarity.

 

[Barrister]

My father is in his 40s and bangs 25-30 year old women. I'm 21 currently in school.

He usually has one FWB and he gives them the key to our home.

They usually come in, while I'm already home in my room and they usually don't (or ever) acknowledge my presence.I found this very weird/disrespectful.

My father is not the type to listen to female advice, funny enough he knows "game" and psychology but rarely applies it. Most times in when the situation is not in his favor.

Thoughts?

You are living in your father's home as a young adult. At this point, he owes you nothing and certainly doesn't need to explain or warn you about his romantic partners coming over for a booty call. I think that would actually be more awkward.

I understand you are still in school - but consider getting your own place. Not just because you won't have to hear your dad banging the sh1t out of these younger women (good for him), but also for your sake. Will help you with confidence with greater independence and also expand your own potential in the dating game.

 

[Mike32ct]

I’d be more concerned about your dad giving a key to random plates. But that’s on him.

 

[Murk]

I’d be more concerned about your dad giving a key to random plates. But that’s on him.

For real, I'd be spending all my time OUTSIDE of my bedroom, asking if they want a drink, making convo, listen by the door while your dad smashes them, ask if they have single friends etc. You're wasting the opportunity.

 

[2Rocky]

I'd be asking the Dad's FWB's to bring a friend next time...and by the way....Quit asking them if they are your new mommy....

 

[Stanley]

The things that sounds mildy concerning is the key being handed out.

As for the girls not acknowledging you that doesn't sound too odd to me. The girl is walking into your home to only later do a walk of shame right? I don't think pleasantries is on their mind even if it is 'rude'. If you feel some level of discomfort about all this maybe voice it to your dad? Make sure you give him a fist bump first though .

Ultimately it is his home and you live in it, so gotta make do. If you get moved out and have a roomate you would hope they are cool with this kind of stuff too if you were doing it. If it is just you and your pop he's probably reverted to that kind of mentality.

 

[Mike32ct]

There’s no reason to give a FWB a key. If she wants to enter the house discreetly (for a hookup) without ringing the doorbell, she can just text your dad “I’m at the door.” Then he can quietly let her in.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Your dad sounds cool but forget about his plates and get some plates of your own