skip2mylou781
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First, here are several cold approaches in the field that have worked for me -
Cold Approach #1 - Walk into a restaurant with my guy friend. Ask the hostess to look at the menu (HB9), it was like a joke to me how hot this girl actually was....Me and my friend look at the menu for 3 minutes, and we thought it was too expensive for 2 guys eating out together so I gave the menu back to the hb9 hostess and OUT OF IMPULSE, I say "We arent gonna eat here, but whats your #?" She gave it to me, we exchanged names, and turns out we were from neighboring towns. I # closed before talking to her about anythign else - i thought it was weird but yea ill take it lol. I TEXTED HER THE NEXT DAY, suggesting we go to dinner in 2 days, she gladly accepted. We went, I got her a freakin rose (this was back in my AFC days b4 i ever saw sosauve), she liked the rose. We talked during dinner, then went back to my house and made out for like 30 minutes, she was deff prude cuz she didnt do more....dropped her off, she wanted to chill again but she was going away for a week in 3 days.....after she came back, she told me she started goin out with her ex again and she said she was sorry.
Analysis - I was AFC to her (texted her next day, got flower, paid for dinner) but also naturally c+f (deff made her laugh) and apparenly she liked me (made out for an hour), but bad luck resulted in not seeing her again....this was a very good cold approach that produced some results.
Lesson - just fckin ask for the #...no pickup line, no c+f, just do it, save c+f for later.
Cold Approaches #2 - 10
Im estimating here, but basically these are all the same. At the mall, I was with my wing (whos a hot guy but hes shy), and I did the lame-ass pickup where id go up to the girl and say hi, wats ur name, ect ect, lemme tell u somethin, IT DOESNT WORK...i came off as shy, nervous, and got a few wtf ru talkin to me for looks. But, there was no initial eye contact b4 the hi's.
Cold Approach #11 - At the mall again, this time with my UG guy friend. At hollister, I simply ask an hb 7 to help me get some nice clothes (which was the truth, i needed some clothes), she helps me, I do c + f (this is in my post sosauve reading days), she likes it, I get her # at teh end (after 20 minutes of her helping me pick out clothes). I never called her tho cuz honestly, i didnt feel thta much attraction (she was irish, and im not into that).
CLUB APPROACHES
These are so simple - THE WAY I GET LAID WHEN I MEET A GIRL AT A CLUB:
go up, whether from the front or back, and start grinding - ive f-closed about 5 girls like this - if a girl lets u grind with her b4 u even talk, then u kno shes not a prude at the very least.
Also, try to go for cute girls who seem like they r dancin with guys that they dont want, and go RESCUE them, I used a funny line once where I came in and abruptly interrupted their dancing and pretended to be the girl's jealous bf
"baby I can't believe you'd do that to me!!! esp with such an ugly guy!"
MYSPACE "COLD APPROACHES"
ummmm simple:
1)get sn
2)talk on AIM for 10 minutes (also make sure when she checks out your pics, she says u look either "cute, hot, sexy, ect" cuz that will mean she mite be interested in seeing u, make sure to cover the following in your convo -
names, ages, where u both live, wat u guys do for fun (make sure to "me too" her on some things she says she does for fun), ask if single, suggest you hang out/chill/meet up sometime. If she says no, then NEXT her, if she says MAYBE, then NEXT her, if she says IDK then NEXT her, if she says YES, SURE, OK, or I GUESS, then ask for her #
3)call her sometime (whenver you want, just not more than 5 days after getting her #
4)see if shes nice on the phone or not, and dont forget to sound like a cool sweet funny attractive c+f ect type of guy. Not some loser whos like "ummm umm ummm so wat do u wanna talk about?" lol
5)set up when you chill
6)you kno the rest
heres something that might interest all of u:
AFTER YOU GET A GIRL'S # ON MYSPACE, SHE'S MUCH LESS LIKELY TO FLAKE ON YOU AS OPPOSED TO GETTING A # FROM A COLD APPROACH
Anyway, ill add more to this later, but does anyone have comments or questions? FEEL FREE TO POST W/E u want
Cold Approach #1 - Walk into a restaurant with my guy friend. Ask the hostess to look at the menu (HB9), it was like a joke to me how hot this girl actually was....Me and my friend look at the menu for 3 minutes, and we thought it was too expensive for 2 guys eating out together so I gave the menu back to the hb9 hostess and OUT OF IMPULSE, I say "We arent gonna eat here, but whats your #?" She gave it to me, we exchanged names, and turns out we were from neighboring towns. I # closed before talking to her about anythign else - i thought it was weird but yea ill take it lol. I TEXTED HER THE NEXT DAY, suggesting we go to dinner in 2 days, she gladly accepted. We went, I got her a freakin rose (this was back in my AFC days b4 i ever saw sosauve), she liked the rose. We talked during dinner, then went back to my house and made out for like 30 minutes, she was deff prude cuz she didnt do more....dropped her off, she wanted to chill again but she was going away for a week in 3 days.....after she came back, she told me she started goin out with her ex again and she said she was sorry.
Analysis - I was AFC to her (texted her next day, got flower, paid for dinner) but also naturally c+f (deff made her laugh) and apparenly she liked me (made out for an hour), but bad luck resulted in not seeing her again....this was a very good cold approach that produced some results.
Lesson - just fckin ask for the #...no pickup line, no c+f, just do it, save c+f for later.
Cold Approaches #2 - 10
Im estimating here, but basically these are all the same. At the mall, I was with my wing (whos a hot guy but hes shy), and I did the lame-ass pickup where id go up to the girl and say hi, wats ur name, ect ect, lemme tell u somethin, IT DOESNT WORK...i came off as shy, nervous, and got a few wtf ru talkin to me for looks. But, there was no initial eye contact b4 the hi's.
Cold Approach #11 - At the mall again, this time with my UG guy friend. At hollister, I simply ask an hb 7 to help me get some nice clothes (which was the truth, i needed some clothes), she helps me, I do c + f (this is in my post sosauve reading days), she likes it, I get her # at teh end (after 20 minutes of her helping me pick out clothes). I never called her tho cuz honestly, i didnt feel thta much attraction (she was irish, and im not into that).
CLUB APPROACHES
These are so simple - THE WAY I GET LAID WHEN I MEET A GIRL AT A CLUB:
go up, whether from the front or back, and start grinding - ive f-closed about 5 girls like this - if a girl lets u grind with her b4 u even talk, then u kno shes not a prude at the very least.
Also, try to go for cute girls who seem like they r dancin with guys that they dont want, and go RESCUE them, I used a funny line once where I came in and abruptly interrupted their dancing and pretended to be the girl's jealous bf
"baby I can't believe you'd do that to me!!! esp with such an ugly guy!"
MYSPACE "COLD APPROACHES"
ummmm simple:
1)get sn
2)talk on AIM for 10 minutes (also make sure when she checks out your pics, she says u look either "cute, hot, sexy, ect" cuz that will mean she mite be interested in seeing u, make sure to cover the following in your convo -
names, ages, where u both live, wat u guys do for fun (make sure to "me too" her on some things she says she does for fun), ask if single, suggest you hang out/chill/meet up sometime. If she says no, then NEXT her, if she says MAYBE, then NEXT her, if she says IDK then NEXT her, if she says YES, SURE, OK, or I GUESS, then ask for her #
3)call her sometime (whenver you want, just not more than 5 days after getting her #
4)see if shes nice on the phone or not, and dont forget to sound like a cool sweet funny attractive c+f ect type of guy. Not some loser whos like "ummm umm ummm so wat do u wanna talk about?" lol
5)set up when you chill
6)you kno the rest
heres something that might interest all of u:
AFTER YOU GET A GIRL'S # ON MYSPACE, SHE'S MUCH LESS LIKELY TO FLAKE ON YOU AS OPPOSED TO GETTING A # FROM A COLD APPROACH
Anyway, ill add more to this later, but does anyone have comments or questions? FEEL FREE TO POST W/E u want
not in a negative way.
