My experience with Seduction & Marketing

[Mitza]

I meet a beautiful girl, and I got her number.She plays very hard to get, and I know she is aproached every day by lots of guys as I saw.Now I contacted her, and I was at a drink with her.After that she was with her family to visit her grandmother.

Ok after she comed back we talk a little on the phone, I was once at her to give her something.Yesterday I phoned her and said that I want to meet her.Before I meet her, a few days ago I've sent her a message, and I writed that I'm atracted to her.

Ok yesterday night I phoned and I was to meet her.I parkt my car, and I saw her chating with a boy.My bodylanguage was high self esteem and when I arived that boy was a little scared by me, and he maked a step back.I shaked hands with him, and I said that I want a private chat with her, between 4 eyes.Just me and her.So me and her take a little walk.I saw that she was
atracted to me, and when we where on a dark street I said I want to be with her.From her eyes I know that she want to be with me, but I said "I give
you time to think untill tomorow." - to make her salivate for me.

Ok I went home, and waited for her SMS.

No SMS at lunch.I couldn't resit any more, and I've sent her an sms acording to my marketing knowledage.I know that in marketing when you want someone to buy something quick you have to make them think that the product is in limited edition, and you have to buy it fast.

So I decidet to apply this principle on her.I send her an sms telling her that she is my first choice, and that she has to think and give me an answer
untill 6.Ok ... 6 o'clock and no answer.I waited untill 9.At 9 I called her, and she asked me what was with that message.I tell her that this is the reality,
and that I'm direct and tell her the truth.She was mad, because this sms.I asked her what is the answer.Silence .. silence.She said nothing, I know
that she was thinking at me.I insisted for an answer, and she told me to go for the other girls from my list.I was mad .. and I hang up.

After that I sent her a message telling her that after I said that she is my nr.1 priority, she treat me like this.Again no answer.

Huhhh ... long story I know, but you can learn something from it, and I think is a quite intresting experience.Now can I have some advices ? I really need .... I like this girl, and I don't want to quit so easy.

 

[TheNewGuy]

You can't be that direct. It sorta reminds me of in 3rd grade when boys would go up to girls and go "Will you be my girlfriend?" and if she said yes, bam, its "official". It has to be slow, gradual and unsaid.

Next time just go on another date with her, and then another and eventually you will be "boyfriend/girlfriend"

 

[Quiksilver]

you scared her off...

Originally posted by Mitza
So I decidet to apply this principle on her.I send her an sms telling her that she is my first choice, and that she has to think and give me an answer
untill 6.Ok ...

It seems like you gave her an ultimatum, and breaks the unspoken emotional connection you two might have had. She probably smelled fakeness through that message, with you telling her 'you are my first choice'.

Just flip the situation..How would you react if a chick said that to you? If it happened to me, i'd say ok...then when we met i'd bltchslap her and walk away laughing.

 

[Mitza]

Please give me somthing contructive, what to do to be back on track.

 

[blueguy]

Tell her it was a joke... because in all reality, that's the only chance you have now.

 

[jigga23]

you never give a girl an ultimatum. thats retarded. you basically blew everything. never do that again. you should make the girl give you an ultamitum not the other way. only thing you can do now is not contact and see if she contacts you again. you look like a desperate chump by doing what you did. you dont say things you do it.

 

[librito]

this is a lost case.... you are in damage control now.
it is easier to get a better and hotter girl than to seduce this girl.

forget about her and go for other girls.

 

[Impact]

Man, my advice would be go out and get 10 numbers, it really helps.
I met like two weeks ago a HB9.5, and was thinking the whole day after that about her. And the next day. And the next.. But then I went out with the goal to get 10 numbers, still dont have them all, but I almost forgot about the 9.5 (she didnt answer my email).
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