So have to share my 'progress' if you want to call it that
Since i have split with my baby'z mama, i went out and bought some new clothes, blazer, shoes, belt, pants, shirts, just went on a spree. went to pick up my son, and she's all - who you looking good for and stuff. Told her i was updating the look. I leave with her giving me the line -
'Just cuz you've changed on the outside - your still the same on the inside'
Dunno what that meant, to me it was a lousy attempt at some kind of smart ass remark - open to suggestions on that one.
Second, when i told her that the only conversations we will have will be in regards to our son, and she says 'Why are you such a prick now?'
Totally cut off ties with her, haven't seen her, haven't talked to her.
She even TOLD me that i was going to have to pick her up Xmas day and take her and our son to her mom's for Xmas morning. I said i would meet her there, and if our son needs a ride, i would get him but she's on her own. She wasn't happy about that one.
I also told her that I told her mom that from now on, shes my babyz grandma and nothing more to me, sort of to cut ties off with her, and she gives me **** for that too..
Thing is, should i cut her any slack? I mean she's got a new man to do all that crap with and take her places. So why ask me for? Even when i am online, she never talks to me anymore, cuz she knows i won't respond. For our kids sake, should i tone down the attitude or not?
Since i have split with my baby'z mama, i went out and bought some new clothes, blazer, shoes, belt, pants, shirts, just went on a spree. went to pick up my son, and she's all - who you looking good for and stuff. Told her i was updating the look. I leave with her giving me the line -
'Just cuz you've changed on the outside - your still the same on the inside'
Dunno what that meant, to me it was a lousy attempt at some kind of smart ass remark - open to suggestions on that one.
Second, when i told her that the only conversations we will have will be in regards to our son, and she says 'Why are you such a prick now?'
Totally cut off ties with her, haven't seen her, haven't talked to her.
She even TOLD me that i was going to have to pick her up Xmas day and take her and our son to her mom's for Xmas morning. I said i would meet her there, and if our son needs a ride, i would get him but she's on her own. She wasn't happy about that one.
I also told her that I told her mom that from now on, shes my babyz grandma and nothing more to me, sort of to cut ties off with her, and she gives me **** for that too..
Thing is, should i cut her any slack? I mean she's got a new man to do all that crap with and take her places. So why ask me for? Even when i am online, she never talks to me anymore, cuz she knows i won't respond. For our kids sake, should i tone down the attitude or not?