My Ex just called me

MountainSlide

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So my ex girlfriend just called me and asked me for a ride to some guys house so they can day drink. I told her no and that I was busy then got off the phone. I think she may be the most retarded person I’ve ever met because if I called her and asked her for a ride over to some rando girls house, she’d have a melt down. The hypocrisy.

I’m not going to sit here and pretend like it didn’t bug me though. I guess maybe if she’s going to pull sh*t like this and disturb my morning state then I just need to block her ?? I mean revenge would be easy but I don’t think that would work in favour of the direction I’d like my life to move in. Talking to her about how I didn’t appreciate it seems kinda like a weak b*tch way to deal with it especially since we’re not in a relationship anymore. What do you guys think??
 

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You’ve obv done weak **** in the past if she thinks this can run. I’m with “block and delete”. Nothing for you here champ.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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This is classic.
She wanted to know how much power she had over you.
This is for her own validation.
Indifference is key in those interaction,anwser her like you would a homeless asking for cash

Selfish biatch
 
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At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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When an ex flame tries to make you jealous it means they are still not over you.
Wrong thinking, and Ex should mean nothing, they are gone forever. Acknowledging an Ex having feelings can only do more harm than good, take your silent win and carry on with life. A better life.
 

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Wrong thinking, and Ex should mean nothing, they are gone forever. Acknowledging an Ex having feelings can only do more harm than good, take your silent win and carry on with life. A better life.
Forever? If they are still add value to my life, I’m letting them back in. I don’t abide by any dating commandments.
 

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She was probably hoping you'd invite her over for day drinking so she could shut you down one more time. I only had one ex that I had a somewhat amicable breakup with whose call I would pick up. Any other ex can leave a VM.
 

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So my ex girlfriend just called me and asked me for a ride to some guys house so they can day drink. I told her no and that I was busy then got off the phone. I think she may be the most retarded person I’ve ever met because if I called her and asked her for a ride over to some rando girls house, she’d have a melt down. The hypocrisy.

I’m not going to sit here and pretend like it didn’t bug me though. I guess maybe if she’s going to pull sh*t like this and disturb my morning state then I just need to block her ?? I mean revenge would be easy but I don’t think that would work in favour of the direction I’d like my life to move in. Talking to her about how I didn’t appreciate it seems kinda like a weak b*tch way to deal with it especially since we’re not in a relationship anymore. What do you guys think??
Why did you even respond? That's the 100 million dollar question. Silence is golden.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I can't think of a single ex, who would have the nuts to call me with a request like that.

She must see you as a serious CHUMP
After I;m done with most women, they just stay clear of me, except a select few who I actually liked.

Bro could you imagine the chumps out there who actually WOULD do this?
 

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I woulda taken her and tell her to let me know if she needs a ride back. That way she knows you really dont give a ****.
 

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After I;m done with most women, they just stay clear of me, except a select few who I actually liked.

Bro could you imagine the chumps out there who actually WOULD do this?
Doing this would be very sad. Have to be a real king of the AFCs lmao
 

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WTF is wrong with women who do crap like this? Seriously, I don't get it.....how old are you and said female @MountainSlide ?
 

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Forever? If they are still add value to my life, I’m letting them back in. I don’t abide by any dating commandments.
I agree that each situation is different but really and truly, if an ex is adding value to your life, you need to level up, you’re not quite there yet.
 
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