My ex got fat.. why?

[CJ Top]

She may care, but not enough to make it a necessity. It's not a problem for her losing weight or staying in shape to get a man is it?
Why are you concerned about an Ex that's with another man?

So the only reason people take care of themselves is to look good for the opposite sex? That’s approval seeking behavior. What about wanting to be healthy for themselves? Wheres the confidence? Wheres the self respect? This girl is unhappy and too weak to do anything about it.

 

[devilkingx2]

Getting fat is easy, getting back into shape or staying in shape is hard. If you aren't making active efforts you'll likely be inclined to get fat (exceptions: particularly healthy diet or particularly active lifestyles, you'll never see a fat vegan or a fat guy who walks all day)