I dated this girl briefly. It was intense affair. Lasted about 2 months. We were very attracted to each other. Then we got into a huge fight over the games and me being accused of being a player and me not trusting her and vice versa. So it ended. After we broke up moved on with my life and I posted photos of girls I had gone out with and she called me out. She got jealous when I posted them.
Doesn't sound like you moved on from anything
Anyway, since that time we were over. After we were broken up not all contact was lost. She would show up at my job and email me and call me. Then she would blow me off and treat me like crap and gave me false hope for a realationship with her again. Finally i sent her a nasty email after she came to my job and totally ignored me. I told her "she looked worn out---have a nice life." I did this out of hurt. Thats was last time I had words with her.
If you were bright enough to realize that she was fuvking with you for ****s and giggles, why did you continue to take her phone calls and exchange e-mails with her? She's obviously an immature little girl and no good could have came from staying in contact with her at this point. Its very easy to ignore someone if you really want to. Yes, it might affect you if she's showing up at your work place, but don't let her see that. When you called her "worn out," it just gave her more fuel to fuvk with your emotional fire.
Anyway i saw her the next month with her new boyfriend at a party and she saw me and walked away very fast. She didnt blink an eye. It hurt alot. I still hadn't gotten over her.
Remind me again why you weren't moving on at this point? Seems like its been at least 2-3 months since you were dating when you saw her and her new guy at this party. Secondly if it "hurt that much" why didn't you just leave the party??
Then fast forward a few months.
Then finally the worst finally happened. I predicted this to happen sooner or later.
Your living in the past, that's why you had the time to think about possible scenarios on when and where you'd run into her. You can't live in the present when your holding on to the past.
I was hanging out at this club last night by myself. My exgirlfriend comes in with her new boyfriend. She walks in front of me and I didnt recognize her. Then she goes and says something to the DJ to ask to play a song and then turns around and she looks back at me (twice) as she is walking away. She acknowledges my presence. I didnt recognize her. Then I start talking to this girl next to me and my exgirl is standing 10 feet behind me with her new boyfriend. She is watching me. I leave to walk around the club and i asked this other girl to dance. When i get on the dancefloor---I look over and see my exgirlfriend seductively kissing her new boyfriend. She has her tongue down his throat she is all over him! I almost lost my mind. But I kept my cool and started dancing with my new girl within 5 feet from my ex while she is slobbering all over her new boytoy. After 5 minutes,I left the dancefloor. Why would my exgirlfriend do that to me? Does she hate me enough?Is she making me jealous? Why the "kissing" show? Maybe she didnt see me...bu I think she did since I was dancing only a few feet from her.
Dude your acting like her main motive in life is to make you jealous. I'll agree that when she saw you at the club, it was a perfect chance for her to make you jealous, but to sit here and act like she plans a strategic battle to fuvk with your emotions is ridiculous. She's moved on, sounds like you should follow suit.
All i know is...is that i kept my cool and was kissing this other girls neck in right next to her...then i walked off the dancefloor with the other girl and left the club. I felt hurt but also felt good because I didnt let my exgirlfriend punk me! Thank god i had a girl with me on the dancefloor. My ex is a b*tch to be doing that to me! Women are evil! I really had feelings for this girl and had hard time letting her go. Now i am ignoring her and I notice she is starting to get curious because she cant yank my emotional chains anymore.
I nexted her a long time ago..and dated many other women after her.....but i have a hard time letting her go for some reason. Any advice?
Why did she do that to me?
You NEVER next'd her!! All you've been doing is thinking about her and why she does this or that. Just because you made out with another girl, doesn't mean your over your ex. You need to sit down and try to understand why this stupid chick has such a hold on you. Once you figure that out, it won't matter what she does and if she's at the same place as you. You sound pretty bitter and immature, time to get on the path to self-realization.
Brad
