my ex contacted me.

broken dreams

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jophil is right dude. Its not worth your time living the past. Go out as sson as you meet a pretty hot and even more caring person. You will say to yourself .damn I was missing out and wasting time over oneitis on an Ex, knowing that its ****ing overe dude.

walking away out of a situation is the best advice dude.
you , we all make descions in life and we either make the choice or regret it.

You know what t do so go do it.
 

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broken dreams said:
jophil is right dude. Its not worth your time living the past. Go out as sson as you meet a pretty hot and even more caring person. You will say to yourself .damn I was missing out and wasting time over oneitis on an Ex, knowing that its ****ing overe dude.

walking away out of a situation is the best advice dude.
you , we all make descions in life and we either make the choice or regret it.

You know what t do so go do it.
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WHAT FYCK IS THIS BYTCH talking about. FYCK DISRESPECTFUL BYTCHES! FYCK BYTCHES THAT THINK THE'RE BETTER THAN YOU! FYCK BYTCHES THAT USE SEX TO MANIPULATE YOU! THE'RE FYCKING ANIMALS and the ONLY WAY to be better and give 'em a slap in their face is to ignore 100%! This is the only life you got! Make something of it! Don't be used by "GARBAGE WOMEN"!
 

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fast forward to two days ago, she instant messages me out of the blue because she's proud of an accomplishment in her career (that she wanted to tell me about) and than wants to make sure there are no ill feelings between us, but also wanted to make sure that i was still in love with her. what kind of crazy crap is this? there is seriously something wrong here.

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She means something like this,
" I am contacting you again by using the pretext of my career accomplishment. I am not traveling too well in my personal life. My new BF/ branch is unstable or just broke, and I am testing your feelings toward me so that I could perhaps branch swing backwards to you. I want to make sure that there are no hard feelings because that will increase my chances of manipulating you into taking me back UNTIL I find another chump to f**k my way into into an LTR with him, at which time I will provoke a drama with you and dump your ass again..

Hey DJarly, you wanna play this game with this h0 ?
 
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jophil28 said:
She means something like this,
" I am contacting you again by using the pretext of my career accomplishment. I am not traveling too well in my personal life. My new BF/ branch is unstable or just broke, and I am testing your feelings toward me so that I could perhaps branch swing backwards to you. I want to make sure that there are no hard feelings because that will increase my chances of manipulating you into talking me back UNTIL I find another chump to f**k my way into into an LTR with him, at which time I will provoke a drama with you and dump your ass again..

Hey DJarly, you wanna play this game with this h0 ?
exactly!!!
jophil is right, and this is why you must loose her contact info and do not reply to her.
 

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jophil28 said:
She means something like this,
" I am contacting you again by using the pretext of my career accomplishment. I am not traveling too well in my personal life. My new BF/ branch is unstable or just broke, and I am testing your feelings toward me so that I could perhaps branch swing backwards to you. I want to make sure that there are no hard feelings because that will increase my chances of manipulating you into talking me back UNTIL I find another chump to f**k my way into into an LTR with him, at which time I will provoke a drama with you and dump your ass again..

Hey DJarly, you wanna play this game with this h0 ?
This is great advise.

DjArly, remember your strength. When a woman bangs another guy, it's over, an unforgivable, unforgetable offense. There is no going backwards, in life, with her.

Strength, forgive, forget, move on...and NEVER look back. Never be in contact with this woman again.
 

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She's nothing but trouble; don't worry I am working on other chicks and I now have the strength to not let her affect my mind. I still can't believe how low she went. It's freaking pathetic when you think about it.
 

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DJArlington said:
She's nothing but trouble; don't worry I am working on other chicks and I now have the strength to not let her affect my mind. I still can't believe how low she went. It's freaking pathetic when you think about it.
DJArlington,

Are u in VA? I'm in Alexandria.

Like YODA would say..."Don't try, Must DO."

If it doesn't work on current target, work on a another. Spin plates.

She's gone at this point the girl you were lovin and bangin is gone. The world you knew with her has so much changed. She's gone through changes. And whether you admit it or not so have YOU.

I've been through the same the first move is usually the right move.

A wise man once told me "You can't fuk and fight..then turn around and be friends." He was right.

Best wishes.
 

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DoubleA said:
A wise man once told me "You can't fuk and fight..then turn around and be friends."

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Ahh, so true.
 
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