Alright, I know that there have been many post's here on conversation and all, but most of them are for dates, speed seduction, picking up chicks in bars, restaurants ect. I'm junior in high school, and I have been a member of sosuave for over a year I've learned a lot of new tips/ideas, and I’m going to share you some of my tips. There haven’t been many tips on regular conversation with chicks from your school, and a lot of people have been asking me for basic convo tips.
My Conversation Tips
1) Always stay mysterious
It is important to keep this mysterious identity to keep girls interested. Girls like a challenge, and if you begin to tell them about yourself, the challenge will be over...and so will you!
2) Keep em' guessing!
One of my favorite post's was about keeping girls guessing. You can basically make a girl guess about anything, but don't to it all of the time. This adds to the mystery that you want to add about yourself. One of my favorite things to do is when a girl asks
you for gum (props to whoever first came up with this idea, I added a little myself)...
girl - do you have any gum?
DJ - maybe, did u want some?!
girl - yeah!!
DJ - haha, I only have one stick left, ur gonna have to earn it, guess what kinda gum it is!
girl - (keeps guessing, and is wrong..by now she should have moved real close to you sticking
her hand out waiting for u to give her the gum, or maybe even attempting to go thru
your pockets)
DJ - (he knows his opportunities, and he gets in some kino while she is leaning in) Nope WRONG!
girl - (finally guesses right, and is excited)
DJ - Finally, good job!! (from here you can do one of two things)
1) give her the gum
2) take out the gum, and eat it yourself!!
3) KINO!! - this is one of the most important things that you can do while talking to a girl. I can’t really tell you anything that someone hasn’t already said, basically kino is touching the girl while talking to her. You can put your arm over her in the hallways, put your hand over hers when trying to say a point, or touch her arm, back when laughing. Here is one of the best guides to kino on this site... http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16712&highlight=ultimate+kino
4) Speak with emotion - When talking to a girl, don’t be dull, gloomy, sad, boring etc. You should speak with feeling behind your words, remember, the girl remembers you for how you act, if you’re boring and sad, she will remember you as that, and she probably wouldn’t enjoy talking to you. Change your tone of voice, talk louder at some points, and softer at others. Smile and laugh as the conversation goes on.
5) Tell stories - A great way to get to know a person better, and to get kino is to tell funny stories
about childhood experiences. For example in my business class, every Friday, we break up into groups of 4 people, 2 guys and 2 girls, to do a project. I am the one to always initiate conversation so I can be the alpha male. Today, we were talking about fights from when we were younger, basically talking about fights with brothers/sisters/cousins. Whenever I would tell a story, the class was interested because I spoke with emotion, and I added jokes into it. I made sure that everyone was laughing the whole time, and while I did this, I added soo much kino into it. If I was talking about a fight, and my back hurting after, I would touch one of the girl’s backs to show her. If I was just telling a story, I would keep my hand on her knee, or on top of her hand. The good thing about it is that they didn’t even
notice my kino, because she was interested in my conversation, and she was laughing almost half of the time.
6) Be funny - Instead of having dull boring conversations, tell jokes! By this, I don’t mean jokes like "your mommas so fat.." or "a blonde walked into a..." I mean jokes on what is going
on around you. In class, don’t be afraid to say something funny when the chance comes. Odds are, that most people will gain respect for you and want to hang around with you more often. When talking to a girl, give her neg hints, but stay respective, and in a funny tone. Say something funny about her earrings or clothes, and if she gets offended, tell her you were kidding. Most girls aren’t looking for someone to marry, there out for a good time, and they would have the best time with someone funny!
If you think that you’re not too funny, watch other people in class shout out funny answers. Watch comic view, or comedy shows (btw, a new show called "the funniest man" is airing in about a week, it has competitions with to see who the funniest man is), but don’t steal their jokes, just learn how they time it. Timing is the most important thing in telling a joke.
Conversation Topics
Many of you talk about things like hobbies, interests, what classes she’s taking etc. Yeah, so you know she takes math and science, and she likes baseball, but where does that get you? When I talk to a girl, I try to talk about other things, like how she is on the inside. I get to know her as a person by feelings.
Someone once posted this in the quick tips, and it's sticked with me ever since then. They said NOT to talk about subjective subjects, and to talk about physical things. This could get you
pretty far with a girl.
-Ask her about her feelings on certain topics
-Ask her about her first date, and how she felt about it (was she nervous)
-Ask her what the scariest thing she ever did was
-Ask her about the funniest thing she’s ever done
-Talk about favorite food and music
-Ask her about the best experience in her life
Now, here are some ways to get to a girls emotions...
talk abut her feelings
talk bout likes/dislikes (be sure to ask WHY she likes or dislikes something)
find out what you have in common with her
"have you ever" questions..ask if she ever loved someone, or if she ever "had it bad" (usher-u got it bad)
find out what makes her happy/sad
"if you could" questions..if you could do anything/go anywhere..where would it be..
find out her goals and dreams for her life in the future
find out about her accomplishments
talk about her childhood
find out what she likes, and talk about it to make her feel better
ask her how she feels toward different types of people
talk about the things going around when talking to her (other people, environment..)
I hope those tips helped, if you have any other questions IM me on aim (balla dip) or just reply here.
Good luck!
-=DiP=-
My Conversation Tips
1) Always stay mysterious
It is important to keep this mysterious identity to keep girls interested. Girls like a challenge, and if you begin to tell them about yourself, the challenge will be over...and so will you!
2) Keep em' guessing!
One of my favorite post's was about keeping girls guessing. You can basically make a girl guess about anything, but don't to it all of the time. This adds to the mystery that you want to add about yourself. One of my favorite things to do is when a girl asks
you for gum (props to whoever first came up with this idea, I added a little myself)...
girl - do you have any gum?
DJ - maybe, did u want some?!
girl - yeah!!
DJ - haha, I only have one stick left, ur gonna have to earn it, guess what kinda gum it is!
girl - (keeps guessing, and is wrong..by now she should have moved real close to you sticking
her hand out waiting for u to give her the gum, or maybe even attempting to go thru
your pockets)
DJ - (he knows his opportunities, and he gets in some kino while she is leaning in) Nope WRONG!
girl - (finally guesses right, and is excited)
DJ - Finally, good job!! (from here you can do one of two things)
1) give her the gum
2) take out the gum, and eat it yourself!!
3) KINO!! - this is one of the most important things that you can do while talking to a girl. I can’t really tell you anything that someone hasn’t already said, basically kino is touching the girl while talking to her. You can put your arm over her in the hallways, put your hand over hers when trying to say a point, or touch her arm, back when laughing. Here is one of the best guides to kino on this site... http://sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16712&highlight=ultimate+kino
4) Speak with emotion - When talking to a girl, don’t be dull, gloomy, sad, boring etc. You should speak with feeling behind your words, remember, the girl remembers you for how you act, if you’re boring and sad, she will remember you as that, and she probably wouldn’t enjoy talking to you. Change your tone of voice, talk louder at some points, and softer at others. Smile and laugh as the conversation goes on.
5) Tell stories - A great way to get to know a person better, and to get kino is to tell funny stories
about childhood experiences. For example in my business class, every Friday, we break up into groups of 4 people, 2 guys and 2 girls, to do a project. I am the one to always initiate conversation so I can be the alpha male. Today, we were talking about fights from when we were younger, basically talking about fights with brothers/sisters/cousins. Whenever I would tell a story, the class was interested because I spoke with emotion, and I added jokes into it. I made sure that everyone was laughing the whole time, and while I did this, I added soo much kino into it. If I was talking about a fight, and my back hurting after, I would touch one of the girl’s backs to show her. If I was just telling a story, I would keep my hand on her knee, or on top of her hand. The good thing about it is that they didn’t even
notice my kino, because she was interested in my conversation, and she was laughing almost half of the time.
6) Be funny - Instead of having dull boring conversations, tell jokes! By this, I don’t mean jokes like "your mommas so fat.." or "a blonde walked into a..." I mean jokes on what is going
on around you. In class, don’t be afraid to say something funny when the chance comes. Odds are, that most people will gain respect for you and want to hang around with you more often. When talking to a girl, give her neg hints, but stay respective, and in a funny tone. Say something funny about her earrings or clothes, and if she gets offended, tell her you were kidding. Most girls aren’t looking for someone to marry, there out for a good time, and they would have the best time with someone funny!
If you think that you’re not too funny, watch other people in class shout out funny answers. Watch comic view, or comedy shows (btw, a new show called "the funniest man" is airing in about a week, it has competitions with to see who the funniest man is), but don’t steal their jokes, just learn how they time it. Timing is the most important thing in telling a joke.
Conversation Topics
Many of you talk about things like hobbies, interests, what classes she’s taking etc. Yeah, so you know she takes math and science, and she likes baseball, but where does that get you? When I talk to a girl, I try to talk about other things, like how she is on the inside. I get to know her as a person by feelings.
Someone once posted this in the quick tips, and it's sticked with me ever since then. They said NOT to talk about subjective subjects, and to talk about physical things. This could get you
pretty far with a girl.
-Ask her about her feelings on certain topics
-Ask her about her first date, and how she felt about it (was she nervous)
-Ask her what the scariest thing she ever did was
-Ask her about the funniest thing she’s ever done
-Talk about favorite food and music
-Ask her about the best experience in her life
Now, here are some ways to get to a girls emotions...
talk abut her feelings
talk bout likes/dislikes (be sure to ask WHY she likes or dislikes something)
find out what you have in common with her
"have you ever" questions..ask if she ever loved someone, or if she ever "had it bad" (usher-u got it bad)
find out what makes her happy/sad
"if you could" questions..if you could do anything/go anywhere..where would it be..
find out her goals and dreams for her life in the future
find out about her accomplishments
talk about her childhood
find out what she likes, and talk about it to make her feel better
ask her how she feels toward different types of people
talk about the things going around when talking to her (other people, environment..)
I hope those tips helped, if you have any other questions IM me on aim (balla dip) or just reply here.
Good luck!
-=DiP=-
