Master of the Universe
Senior Don Juan
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- Jan 17, 2002
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It's On!
My fellow DJs,
It looks like there is definitely interest in this challenge, and so it's on!
Please give me a couple of days to write up all the details, but in a nutshell here's the mission.
Go out and get rejected 10 times in one single day!
Now, this is an oversimplification, but in essence this is my challenge. Of course doing this by itself will help some people, but not every one.
For example, for many guys it's pretty easy to go to a bar or club, get completely wasted, and ask every girl they see out. But that's not going to improve your skills or give you the dramatic confidence boost that I am advocating.
So there will be certain rules that need to be followed, plus certain handicaps that the more advanced DJs will want to implement if they wish to gain maximum benefit from this adventure.
Bottom line - whether you've only approached a couple of girls in your life, or you can pick up like a machine, this WILL challenge you and take you out of your comfort zone... and help you reap the rewards.
So give me a couple of days to write every thing up, and I then will post it.
IN THE MEANTIME
While I am putting this together, what I would like is feedback from you. Specifically the following:
1) What do you think?
2) What are your greatest concerns?
3) Do you feel this will be of benefit, or not? And why?
4) What is the best day for us to do this? Remember - all 10 rejections must be gathered in one single day. It cannot be broken up into 2 or more days. I'm thinking we do this Saturday, March 27th, but I am open to suggestions.
Now, if you accept this challenge and complete it, how will that impact your life?
Well, all I can give you is a personal experience. I did this exercise for myself about 8 years ago. The first girl that I approached I was an absolute mess... sweating bullets, stuttering like mad, it was absolutely scary since I was new to this whole thing.
By the time I was at rejection number 5 or so, I was totally on fire. I actually approached that particular girl with the line "Excuse me, but I made a goal to get rejected by girls 10 times today, and I'm behind schedule and would like to go home soon. So I'm going to ask you out and then I want you to reject me."
She thought it was the funniest line ever, and actually gave me her number. I replied "Thanks, but you're not making my life easy" or something like that.
Anyway, by the time I was done, I never had fear of rejection again. Not only that, but I now actually enjoy the challenge when a girl rejects me.
It only took one day for my life to change forever, and the same can be true of you as well.
So please take a few minutes and respond to my questions above, and in a couple of days I'll put up all the instructions.
Guys, this is going to be FUN!
MotU
My fellow DJs,
It looks like there is definitely interest in this challenge, and so it's on!
Please give me a couple of days to write up all the details, but in a nutshell here's the mission.
Go out and get rejected 10 times in one single day!
Now, this is an oversimplification, but in essence this is my challenge. Of course doing this by itself will help some people, but not every one.
For example, for many guys it's pretty easy to go to a bar or club, get completely wasted, and ask every girl they see out. But that's not going to improve your skills or give you the dramatic confidence boost that I am advocating.
So there will be certain rules that need to be followed, plus certain handicaps that the more advanced DJs will want to implement if they wish to gain maximum benefit from this adventure.
Bottom line - whether you've only approached a couple of girls in your life, or you can pick up like a machine, this WILL challenge you and take you out of your comfort zone... and help you reap the rewards.
So give me a couple of days to write every thing up, and I then will post it.
IN THE MEANTIME
While I am putting this together, what I would like is feedback from you. Specifically the following:
1) What do you think?
2) What are your greatest concerns?
3) Do you feel this will be of benefit, or not? And why?
4) What is the best day for us to do this? Remember - all 10 rejections must be gathered in one single day. It cannot be broken up into 2 or more days. I'm thinking we do this Saturday, March 27th, but I am open to suggestions.
Now, if you accept this challenge and complete it, how will that impact your life?
Well, all I can give you is a personal experience. I did this exercise for myself about 8 years ago. The first girl that I approached I was an absolute mess... sweating bullets, stuttering like mad, it was absolutely scary since I was new to this whole thing.
By the time I was at rejection number 5 or so, I was totally on fire. I actually approached that particular girl with the line "Excuse me, but I made a goal to get rejected by girls 10 times today, and I'm behind schedule and would like to go home soon. So I'm going to ask you out and then I want you to reject me."
She thought it was the funniest line ever, and actually gave me her number. I replied "Thanks, but you're not making my life easy" or something like that.
Anyway, by the time I was done, I never had fear of rejection again. Not only that, but I now actually enjoy the challenge when a girl rejects me.
It only took one day for my life to change forever, and the same can be true of you as well.
So please take a few minutes and respond to my questions above, and in a couple of days I'll put up all the instructions.
Guys, this is going to be FUN!
MotU
