"My boyfriend might be mad if it's just you and me..."

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Anytime a girl brings up her boyfriend, you should get the hint that you are not wanted!! If yiou think she is on the verge of breaking up with him, then you can ask if it is a serious commitment betweenn the two - if she says yes, then say, "ok, I respect that". She'll think highly of you and if she ever breaks up with dude, she'll remember you in a favoable light!! Don't beg or hound a woman, you'll look desperate and be less than a man!

There is no such thing as a woman "friend" - in terms of 'hangin out'! Only a chump b/f would let his girl 'hangout' with groups of guys and girls without his presence.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by gotgame?
EDIT: Please respond only if you are an actual DJ. Thanks.

Please give us the definition of a DJ!

 

[jbbrain]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
There is no such thing as a woman "friend" - in terms of 'hangin out'! Only a chump b/f would let his girl 'hangout' with groups of guys and girls without his presence.

OHHH man, I think this is NUTS! To each his own though, this debate is indeed a hot one. How you can get away with that without coming across as a desperate, jealous and pathetic chump beats me

 

[elvis aint dead yet]

While I might not whole heartedly agree with PRL, i do agree in the sense that if a girl is always hanging out with other men without her boyfriend, she's either lying about having a BF because she isn't interested in you or she has a "boyfriend" who really isn't a boyfriend at all.

While everybody is entitled to hang out with whomever they want to, if a girl hangs out with other men on a consistent basis, I'm sorry but her BOYFRIEND is either an extreme AFC or the relationship isn't really a relationship.

It's a simple fact. Most guys want more from a female friend then what they pretend. Be it an AFC, a DJ, or whatever the else the guy is, if the girl is HOT, a guy will want more then "friendship."

You can believe whatever you want to believe, it's the simple fact. Some guys are just plain sad saps who become very close friends because they are afraid to say they WANT the girl.

But back to the PRL point. If a guys GF spends more time out with other guys then him, then what's the point of being in a relationship? Because the guy is either out cheating on the girl or he's home crying about his bad relationship. Either way, whats the damn point.

A girl who defends hanging out with other Men all the time while in a relationship, is simply a girl who you should not get into a relationship with.

If you want to Bang her, have sex with her and do whatever else, yeah why not, but a relationship, what's the freaking point?