Heyjose25points
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 23, 2004
- Messages
- 400
- Reaction score
- 2
- Age
- 38
- Location
- Josetown a.k.a Chocolate City Area
Danielzxc....Hey bud, thanks for the reply.
thats been my goal as of late...not even trying to approach the most chicks anymore...but actually tryin to focus on 1 at a given situation. It really is partially a shame(Not putting myself down by any means, just saying that it sucks) that my mind is clouded when i'm at a party(Harder for me to think freely). I don't really say random sh1t at a party, as part of me aint sure what's stupid/funny to say and plus it just aint congruent unless its natural(Can see a situation where its appropriate)
Last Night I went out, and was tense as hell...and was having some difficulty making conversation going with anybody on my own(Partly was the fact that I actually didn't really want to talk)...which alcohol actually fully loosened me up 10 fold, and still I didn’t really want to talk unless someone talked to me.
Did Make out with a chick I was dancing with for almost a whole hour(We both grabbed each other’s X rated zones) but both of us had some alcohol in our systems and I did get her number.
I am having a difficulty with talking with groups(Or talking while i'm amongst a group) at parties, as i'm dividing my attention to each of them. I know what ur suppose to do in these situations, LISTEN but listening becomes harder as my mind seems to be clouded.
In terms of the bootcamp, I'm not really doing it anymore, as I just need to focus on other things right now....and am just going for opportunities as I see them. So this will just be my journal for now on. I think its important for me update once in a while atleast.
Yea man, i've gotten quite a bit of opportunities at parties to escalate but am working on that. I am getting more use to the atmosphere completely, and am practicing more when I go out.
My history with girls, I've only gotten laid once.
thats been my goal as of late...not even trying to approach the most chicks anymore...but actually tryin to focus on 1 at a given situation. It really is partially a shame(Not putting myself down by any means, just saying that it sucks) that my mind is clouded when i'm at a party(Harder for me to think freely). I don't really say random sh1t at a party, as part of me aint sure what's stupid/funny to say and plus it just aint congruent unless its natural(Can see a situation where its appropriate)
Last Night I went out, and was tense as hell...and was having some difficulty making conversation going with anybody on my own(Partly was the fact that I actually didn't really want to talk)...which alcohol actually fully loosened me up 10 fold, and still I didn’t really want to talk unless someone talked to me.
Did Make out with a chick I was dancing with for almost a whole hour(We both grabbed each other’s X rated zones) but both of us had some alcohol in our systems and I did get her number.
I am having a difficulty with talking with groups(Or talking while i'm amongst a group) at parties, as i'm dividing my attention to each of them. I know what ur suppose to do in these situations, LISTEN but listening becomes harder as my mind seems to be clouded.
In terms of the bootcamp, I'm not really doing it anymore, as I just need to focus on other things right now....and am just going for opportunities as I see them. So this will just be my journal for now on. I think its important for me update once in a while atleast.