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Making the first move. I can never find the place or when the right time is to hook up or kiss the girl, i can make kino, but when comes to kissing or making out, i dont know when to, or how to make it happen, I know the phrase Just Do It, but if i do it in the wrong time its awkward
 

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Don't worry about it. Just think of sex as extended Kino. It really could be, right? Sex is just a great massage. Think of it this way, then it won't seem like such an uphill battle for you. When we end up making things larger than life, then we have already lost. Nothing should be or appear larger than life and outside your boundries.

Don't try so hard either, there is always a moment.

Here is a tip: When she looking at your lips, and then back at your eyes, and then your lips again, she wants you to kiss her!! Out of experience, i can say with nearly 100% certainity, this is the best sign there is.
 

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It doesn't matter if it's awkward, sometimes you really need to just do it. The other option is to get strung along on a bunch of dates and never really know if she's into you before getting LJBF'd. In fact you should be creating opportunities to kiss her, don't wait for them! If it is awkward then you can say something like "that was good but with some more practice you could be a great kisser!", then make out with her.
 

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Thanks man, i guess i just gotta just do it, and be confident. Aight ill be ready
 

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As you're walking....

Put your arm around her neck(keep walking)...bring her close and kiss her under her jaw like...around the cheek. (Pay attention to her reaction to nigga....you'll need this information for the future LOL)

If you cant do that then...I don't know. The key is to prepare her for something like this. If you don't feel she's prepared then of course you'll never feel right doing it. She's got to know you're that type of dude and things will fall into place easy.

JUST DO IT.
 
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Actually, this is a difficult task - we don't want it to seem forced - it should be a natural development. So it is about "timing"!

A progression should develop - meaning if you are 20 feet away you shouldn't just run to her and pounce - this is out of place and unexpected!! :rolleyes:

The key is gradual escalation!!

Make sure she is in a light mood and acceptable to intimate contact, in other words, friendly to your advances!
 

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Oh. Aight. My bad OG MDJ ;)

I'm bad at forcing things. When my other head gets in the drivers seat it's all over LOL.
 
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