My biggest pet peeve with girls

[Dimebag_Darrell]

Boyfriends..

Jesus am I just having bad luck with finding single girls these past couple of months or what?

I swear, I've taken this into account.

I've approached, gauged IL, gotten the numbers of over 8 girls in the last 2 months and in the end when I'm just thinking that I've got them in the bag, they seemingly pull the boyfriend bullsh*t out of their ass. Now I'm not even asking these girls out. It will normally happen during a conversation. Like today, there was this girl I was DJing for about 2 weeks. I even convinced her to drop one of her classes so she could be in my class and in the end, I commented on her necklace which was like a Fender pick necklace thing and since I love guitars, it caught my eye, and I commented on it and then she totally drops my IL by saying "HA, Oh yeah, my boyfriend got it for me, its (I didn't care to hear the rest of the drivel)"

And last week. There was this girl I was gonna date.. She was totally wanting to bake a pizza for me at her place and sh*t and then the next day when I was gonna set up the date, out of nowhere, she taps me on the shoulder and in my mind I'm like "ok, make convo and set the date" and then i notice there's some mop haired freak holding her hand. and she says Hi, and my natural response was for her to go get bent..

Yeah, sounds AFCish but there's something in my moral code that says although you don't like the fact that a girl you're interested is going out with some guy, you respect it until further notice. Now, I've been told by many to go ahead and get her to cheat but it just doesn't seem right. I'm not exactly looking for a ONS or something sexual and quick. I need a girlfriend, yet it seems everywhere I look, they're all taken and I'm losing hope on girls for a while. Maybe I should wait a while and see or should I go against my values and attempt to get the girl to cheat? What do you guys think?


P.S.- What a damn dilemma when Prom is about 3 or 4 months away and I can't find a single that I WANT TO TAKE to prom because they're all f*cking taken...I've never gone to the Prom. Simply because every year the same curse is placed on me around the same time of the year. And I feel like I'm gonna start breaking sh*t!!! AND SIMPLY BECAUSE ITS HAPPENING AGAIN AND I HAVE GOT TO FIND A WAY TO STOP IT! The Seattle Seahawks found a way to win in the playoffs after over a decade of failiure, why can't I?

 

[Flabbergasped?]

There's a lot of single girls, they're usually just ugly.

It's a matter of luck, most times. I dunno if it was in the bible that I read it, but it said, "if the girl is between the age of 14 and 50, assume she's already in a LTR." If you prepare yourself for it, it's usually not as much trouble.

My problem is, I don't have the opportunity to meet many new people (no car, busy school schedule, etc), and I have no game, but I've faced the boyfriend drought before.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

Yeah..

I've tried working with the boyfriend bullsh*t in a good light over the months and years and its a big wall in my DJing.

It seems like every girl I try to get with has a BF already. Maybe I do need to get them to cheat. I hear girls are very prone to it and since girls will go with anything that doesn't make them seem at fault(slutty), why not.....

 

[MightyMate]

I like getting girls who have man.

 

[AB500]

hmm I know what you mean. I feel like a douche bag for not picking up girls when I had the chance back when school was starting. Instead I figured I'd just lean back and stay single so I could work on my skills with more women without getting **** from a girlfriend. By the time I was ready to get a girlfriend the couple of girls that made my list of people I wanted to get to know all have boyfriends. Also the fact that I'm a freshman still and have no licence to speak of doesn't help much. Girls all go after guys that are juniors or seniors and projecting and having the kind of value that will draw her away from them is no easy task, especially when there is the added weight of her already being in a relationship.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

So what the f*ck should I do?

 

[Taviii]

Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
I need a girlfriend

No you dont. Or at least you shouldnt. You should be happy with your life no matter if you have a gf or not.

Try clubs and bars, they are packed with single girls.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

yeah I don't need a girlfriend. I need some money.

 

[Taviii]

Originally posted by Dimebag_Darrell
I need some money.

Hehe, me too

 

[SlyD4rK]

"Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness. " -Swinggcat

you don't believe that you can succeed, therefore you are needy...and we all know that women don't find needy men attractive.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

hmmmmmmm

 

[j8snx1]

Well I think you should return her sh!t test right away when you hear "boyfriend." iono, i try to feel less crappy by using C&F and stuff.

For ex:

Guy: Nice necklace.
Girl: Thanks, my boyfriend got it for me.
Guy: Oh a boyfriend? When is the wedding?
Girl: Soon! (just improving)
Guy: That's too bad. The bridesmaids are going to get some real love from me while you marry your "boyfriend."

ex 2:
Guy: Hey what are you doing on ______day?
Girl: My boyfriend and I are doing ____A_____.
Guy: Really? That's too bad. I'm doing ____B______. You can join me if you want, I'm sure you'll have more fun doing ___B___ with me than ___A_____ with your guy.


I'm not sure how the scenarios would turn out, since I don't know too many girls who are taken. However, I think those are ways to show confidence and your cool attitude that you dont CARE if she has one or not.

It's no biggie Dime. Here's what I say:

It's a sh*t test until she proves it's true.

Anyone wanna add or disagree?

 

[Taviii]

Your biggest mistake is that you dont ask them out.

After you get the number wait a few days then call her and arrange a date. I repeat: a DATE, not hanging out or ****. She already knows you want to be with her if you asked for her number so there is no need to hide the truth.

Now I'm not even asking these girls out.

That's the fastest way to the ljbf zone. You are the man so you are supposed to make the move. If you don't she will think of you as a little pusy that is afraid to ask a girl out. Don't waste your time with these girls. I bet you got friends that you enjoy spending time with. So then why:

there was this girl I was DJing for about 2 weeks.

You lost 2 weeks in which you could have got a number from a girl and date her 2 times in that time. I am not saying that you cant train your DJ skills on random girls, actually you should do that with all the girls you meet, but if you want a relationship then you got to move on to the date!

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

You know, you're absolutely right.

And I reflected on that sh*t today when I was talking to a friend of mines about our plans for amassing large amounts of marijuana and getting more chicks in rotation for us. I started talking about how to attract and lay chicks and then I realized that like with everything in my life for the past 3 or 4 months, I've been procrastinating. Big time with putting sh*t in the backburner, including girl and then I'm all pissed off about why I'm not getting none lately? I need to stop f*cking around and get to the point. All you guys are totally right and I shouldn't be posting about this bullsh*t.

 

[SlyD4rK]

im glad we could enlighten you


although i must say that you shouldn't smoke pot, unhealthy for the body

 

[Indie]

InDeeD pot is not good. I couldn't concentrate on **** that was anything during the period that i was smoking pot regularly. I think it also blew my chance with a girl once, since I had been flirting with her the day before then I see her and I'm as high as a kite, but I start saying really dumb things. Although I can't remember the specifics my mates just said I acted like a spacker.

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

All right, look...


I know that half of you huys don't believe in pot. And I also agree that Being baked on a pick up doesn't always mix. Especially when your friend pulls a nice crystallized snowy Kind bud and sticks it in a pipe and let's you get green hit. That's my ass as of right now. And you know what. I'm in the clouds. But unfortunately I'm soo baked that me and my friend called off our plans to go to this bar that he can get me in where apparently only gay dudes and hot chicks go. My friend said it's the best place to pick up chicks in town...we're stoned and we're not doing ****.