The purpose of this thread is simple , to show struggling and new embers that some of us giving out the advice also went through hard times and we were not magically gifted all the wisdom we are spilling. I will start with mine.
I never really struggled with women , I had plates in highschool and decided to give a relationship a shot. Long story short after a 4 year relationship I caught her cheating so I broke off the relationship. Now here is where I went full retard. I basically put my whole life on hold for her , I even decided to forgive her after 1 months of continuous begging on her part. We got together and we talked about everything so we set another date , then during that second dates she told me she went on 2 dates with a new guy and she really liked his company. I was upset but I didn't say nothing and eventually she decided she will date this new guy instead so I backed off and sulked like a little boy that I was. Two months into their relationship, we met at a party and she was alone so we talked a bit and I ended up taking her to my hotel and having sex.
After that happened we kept talking for about 3 weeks straight and she seemed really into me again & again the dumb me who was love blind still wanted to be with her.
Anyways , throughout the blissful 3 weeks of talking to her again , I decided to reactivate my Facebook and when I did the first thing that popped up was a picture of my ex and her new man and her praising him as the love of her life and she will love him forever.
That was the breaking point for me , it's like God personally sang his hand from the heavens and biiitcch slapped me in my face. I didn't get confrontational , I just did what I should've done months ago ... I blocked her number and never looked back. She tried calling me 5 times throughout the month of January I never returned any calls. She called my parents for me to call her and I never did. Last 3 months I started getting random calls from different numbers on my phone , so I simply changed phone numbers.
During this nightmare of a time in my life , I stuck to the same message been preached her daily ; focus on your life and your goals. I got a new job that doubled my salary , bought a new car , planning to buy my fit house a year from now hopefully. Met some new friends from work with my new attitude , I also cut some friends off because I figured they were also using me. I've met some new women but I really don't fancy a relationship right now , simply work and fun on the weekends. As to the ex , I think the honeymoon phase is over for her , she is now posting depressed statuses and excessive pictures on Facebook just to boost her ego :cheer:
Honestly to conclude , just enjoy your life because if you decide to worry about the little things you will end up forgetting the important things in life ....YOU & YOUR WELL BEING!
I never really struggled with women , I had plates in highschool and decided to give a relationship a shot. Long story short after a 4 year relationship I caught her cheating so I broke off the relationship. Now here is where I went full retard. I basically put my whole life on hold for her , I even decided to forgive her after 1 months of continuous begging on her part. We got together and we talked about everything so we set another date , then during that second dates she told me she went on 2 dates with a new guy and she really liked his company. I was upset but I didn't say nothing and eventually she decided she will date this new guy instead so I backed off and sulked like a little boy that I was. Two months into their relationship, we met at a party and she was alone so we talked a bit and I ended up taking her to my hotel and having sex.
After that happened we kept talking for about 3 weeks straight and she seemed really into me again & again the dumb me who was love blind still wanted to be with her.
Anyways , throughout the blissful 3 weeks of talking to her again , I decided to reactivate my Facebook and when I did the first thing that popped up was a picture of my ex and her new man and her praising him as the love of her life and she will love him forever.
That was the breaking point for me , it's like God personally sang his hand from the heavens and biiitcch slapped me in my face. I didn't get confrontational , I just did what I should've done months ago ... I blocked her number and never looked back. She tried calling me 5 times throughout the month of January I never returned any calls. She called my parents for me to call her and I never did. Last 3 months I started getting random calls from different numbers on my phone , so I simply changed phone numbers.
During this nightmare of a time in my life , I stuck to the same message been preached her daily ; focus on your life and your goals. I got a new job that doubled my salary , bought a new car , planning to buy my fit house a year from now hopefully. Met some new friends from work with my new attitude , I also cut some friends off because I figured they were also using me. I've met some new women but I really don't fancy a relationship right now , simply work and fun on the weekends. As to the ex , I think the honeymoon phase is over for her , she is now posting depressed statuses and excessive pictures on Facebook just to boost her ego :cheer:
Honestly to conclude , just enjoy your life because if you decide to worry about the little things you will end up forgetting the important things in life ....YOU & YOUR WELL BEING!
