This is really not a long read, please give some advice and input to the following:
Background Info:
Best Friend - I'll just call him Joe.. I known him since back in the day since grade school (4th grade maybe). He's my best friend. He helped me when I was down, we supported and did everything together. He started going out with a girl who I met through him. They got serious, "fell in love" for about a year and then we graduated.
Best Friend's Ex-GF - I'll call her Ashley. I met her after she started going out with Joe. Joe started to really fall for her and they were in love. Me and Ashley always got along from the start. Always joking around etc. I was going out with someone at the time and then I eventually had a bad breakup. I would hang out with Ashley and Joe at the same time sometimes. Ashley would give me advice about my breakup etc.
I become single, we all graduate. Joe goes away to college 5 hours away. I became really close with Ashley. We talked about everything everyday. Summer comes, I see Ashley a lot because she's in the same social circle. Eventually we start partying together a lot for a couple of weeks towards the end of summer. Joe's away @ College, doesn't know what to do with Ashley, They were working things out still. They are so far apart. They try to work it through. Then shortly later decides to break up with her for good.
As I hang out with Ashley a lot, rumors started that me and Ashley hooked up. Joe hears these rumors. He believes them, and stops talking to me. Me and Ashley are puzzled because we know they are not true. We continue to laugh off the rumors and get along great still. We act very sarcastic about everything.
We still continue to party a lot and then Halloween night, We go to a Philly for a bus ride trip to some club. We pre-game, get really drunk, and accidentally (i guess i should say) end up hooking up on the bus ride and dancing all night @ the club, she was saying she wants to fvck and talking dirty to me on the way up. Then we get back, she gets naked with her friend (girl) and we have a 4:00am dance party. and end up fooling around more. We were ridiculously drunk. No sex though.
Time passes, we try to forget that night but think it's funny, but don't tell Joe. Joe never finds outs what really happened. But Joe hears more rumors, Me and Ashley tell each other everything and joke sarcastically about being in a relationship.
My friendship declines with Joe, we started not to talk to each other while he was away. Time passes, Me and Joe eventually make up and he was convinced the the rumors were nothing.
Sigh of relief from me and Ashley.
My friendship with Ashley declines a little amongst the "hookup", and my friendship with Joe increases.
Eventually me and Ashley makeup, forget the past and start being close and friendly again. Then she really was excited to see me and she comes down visit me @ my college.
Well we get along great, get drunk again, party, hookup, have SEX. Laughing the whole time, We agree to not tell anybody, and still get along great, and joke around about us fvcking.
Days past and me and Ashley still talk everyday, get along great, etc. Me and Ashley, don't really have feelings for each other, we just like to have fun, and party.
Now I'd figure she'd realize it's not a good idea to see Joe anymore just because of all the damage that has been done.
Me and Joe are real cool now, but doesn't know me and her fvcked, me and Ashley are supposed to keep it secret.
From your experience, what's going to happened? How should I act?
Ashley should avoid seeing Joe this weekend due to the circumstances don't you think?
It seems as if i betrayed a Joe, Ashley single since July 2006. It's been 6 months since they broke up. Is it still wrong?
Background Info:
Best Friend - I'll just call him Joe.. I known him since back in the day since grade school (4th grade maybe). He's my best friend. He helped me when I was down, we supported and did everything together. He started going out with a girl who I met through him. They got serious, "fell in love" for about a year and then we graduated.
Best Friend's Ex-GF - I'll call her Ashley. I met her after she started going out with Joe. Joe started to really fall for her and they were in love. Me and Ashley always got along from the start. Always joking around etc. I was going out with someone at the time and then I eventually had a bad breakup. I would hang out with Ashley and Joe at the same time sometimes. Ashley would give me advice about my breakup etc.
I become single, we all graduate. Joe goes away to college 5 hours away. I became really close with Ashley. We talked about everything everyday. Summer comes, I see Ashley a lot because she's in the same social circle. Eventually we start partying together a lot for a couple of weeks towards the end of summer. Joe's away @ College, doesn't know what to do with Ashley, They were working things out still. They are so far apart. They try to work it through. Then shortly later decides to break up with her for good.
As I hang out with Ashley a lot, rumors started that me and Ashley hooked up. Joe hears these rumors. He believes them, and stops talking to me. Me and Ashley are puzzled because we know they are not true. We continue to laugh off the rumors and get along great still. We act very sarcastic about everything.
We still continue to party a lot and then Halloween night, We go to a Philly for a bus ride trip to some club. We pre-game, get really drunk, and accidentally (i guess i should say) end up hooking up on the bus ride and dancing all night @ the club, she was saying she wants to fvck and talking dirty to me on the way up. Then we get back, she gets naked with her friend (girl) and we have a 4:00am dance party. and end up fooling around more. We were ridiculously drunk. No sex though.
Time passes, we try to forget that night but think it's funny, but don't tell Joe. Joe never finds outs what really happened. But Joe hears more rumors, Me and Ashley tell each other everything and joke sarcastically about being in a relationship.
My friendship declines with Joe, we started not to talk to each other while he was away. Time passes, Me and Joe eventually make up and he was convinced the the rumors were nothing.
Sigh of relief from me and Ashley.
My friendship with Ashley declines a little amongst the "hookup", and my friendship with Joe increases.
Eventually me and Ashley makeup, forget the past and start being close and friendly again. Then she really was excited to see me and she comes down visit me @ my college.
Well we get along great, get drunk again, party, hookup, have SEX. Laughing the whole time, We agree to not tell anybody, and still get along great, and joke around about us fvcking.
Days past and me and Ashley still talk everyday, get along great, etc. Me and Ashley, don't really have feelings for each other, we just like to have fun, and party.
Now I'd figure she'd realize it's not a good idea to see Joe anymore just because of all the damage that has been done.
Me and Joe are real cool now, but doesn't know me and her fvcked, me and Ashley are supposed to keep it secret.
From your experience, what's going to happened? How should I act?
Ashley should avoid seeing Joe this weekend due to the circumstances don't you think?
It seems as if i betrayed a Joe, Ashley single since July 2006. It's been 6 months since they broke up. Is it still wrong?
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