My Attitude - Krazyboy Look

[Crazy Asian]

What makes a person interesting and fun to talk to?
I have many things going on in my life, but I can't seem to attract others into it.
I don't know what type of answer i'm looking for, but I want to change my attitude.
To be easier to talk to and have people actually wanting to talk to me.
I always feel like I have nothing to add to the conversation and that I'm often left speechless.
Maybe it is the group of people around me.
Because when i'm with new people, I become the center of attention..... for a while, then they loose interest very quickly.
I know how to become more social, and I'm working on that, but what are some things to keep in mind to dominate the convo and keep things interesting?

Also, as for my prom, it did not go very well.
The girl i went with was a really "nice" girl and I think she did not like my sexual attitude. I had to basically shove her to my crotch. I tried to kiss her, but she rejected me and now things are so weird between us.

The problem was that I was very intimidated by her. I couldn't be myself. With most girls, I don't give a **** what I do, but I find that when I start liking a girl and ask them to something like a dance, I become so tense.

I got some pics if u guys want.

 

[Birdem]

You need to chill out and just have fun. The problem here is you are in your head too damn much. Do not look at it like you need to bring more just do things that you will find fun reguardless how stupid it sounds and everything else will flow. If you were wondering why she rejected you put yourself in her position you were acting totally like an idiot nothing smooth in what you did(tough love don't get all mad).

 

[GaryUranga]

pics

 

[Crazy Asian]

birdem, i get what ur saying.
I but this site has twisted me, and im trying to correct myself.
I think instead of sexual, i was being perverted, and instead of a gentlemen, i became a jerk.
I need to relax, but it's VERY hard to do around someone I like.
I mean, when i'm attracted to someone, i can act normally, but when i ask them to go and do something, that is when i freeze up.

pics: i'll only put these up for a couple of days.

http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q148/bolunye/BolunYeandRachel.jpg
http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q148/bolunye/BolunandRachelagain.jpg
http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q148/bolunye/BolunandRachel.jpg

hmmm i did not have one good smile in these pics.... oh well.

 

[GaryUranga]

I think youre at this stage which Im currently at but Im a bit more ahed in it I think which is relaxing and lettign things come out, trust me that once youre relaxed youll find it easier to join into the conversation and talk more, get out there, expose yourself to a lot of socializing (which is what I did) and trust blindly that you will learn how to join into the convo and all that stuff, it happens automatically you wont be aware of it.

with me what I recently noticed that happened is that I know what to say I didnt learn this conciously but suddenly I just knew what to say lie kthe comments seemed right, thats how it happens.

also, theres nothign to correct man, its all lil tweaks here and there that will make you a DJ, that and gettign the skills, thats all it takes

 

[Crazy Asian]

I think youre at this stage which Im currently at but Im a bit more ahed in it I think which is relaxing and lettign things come out, trust me that once youre relaxed youll find it easier to join into the conversation and talk more, get out there, expose yourself to a lot of socializing (which is what I did) and trust blindly that you will learn how to join into the convo and all that stuff, it happens automatically you wont be aware of it.

with me what I recently noticed that happened is that I know what to say I didnt learn this conciously but suddenly I just knew what to say lie kthe comments seemed right, thats how it happens.

also, theres nothign to correct man, its all lil tweaks here and there that will make you a DJ, that and gettign the skills, thats all it takes

thanks, that is very assuring.
i guess i was just a little stressed since nobody seemed to truly enjoy talking with me and coming up to me to talk.
I mean there are lots of people that do, but i'd just like to be more of the center of the convo.

one other problem with my date is that i've always thought out of my league until recently. That mindset fvcked me over and is still with me when i'm around her.

i think she's fvcking hot, but knowing my taste in girls.....

 

[LostAndConfused]

yeah shes cute but shes definitely in your league my man

 

[Crazy Asian]

ok so right now, i know she doesn't like me.
but goddamn do i want her.
i feel a little oneitis here but i don't give a sh1t.

i've never really had to "try" to get a girl to like me.
i know it doesn't really work like that.
now i know why so many people on here are frustrated.
you want someone so bad yet they don't show any feelings towards you back.
of course, im not acting on my thoughts or anything.

i was thinking about just isolating her and saying " i know things have been weird between us lately. lets just start over. then shake hands and say hi"
that is what i think the easiest way to get out of this mess is.
i don't want to just ignore her.

 

[young_gun]

Damn, that girl IS pretty cute, and I usually don't think girls that young look good.

 

[SilverSonnet]

Hey bro!

Hey, I had a good look at your photos. In my personal opinion, you look abit uptight, and tense. You need to just let go, mate. Have fun. After all, isn't that what it's all about? Just have fun, and if you and her dont go out, have you lost anything? Nope.
Just try