My attempt to summarize all I have learned from the bible

[08aisaac]

So by now you realize that girls aren't attracted to looks as much as they are attracted to personality and intelligence. When I say personality, I am not referring to a needy SOB such as some of the people I have seen on this forum. I am talking about the outgoing, risk-taking, surprising, personality. To sum it up: ME. Well I am not here to advertise. I have a street corner for that. Well so you have some of the basics down. Memorize this crap. Become someone that everyone wants to hang out with. Try to fill up your social schedule.

Here's an example. Ok say that you go up to this 10 ( If you don't know by now, I rank a girl on her looks. Like 1 out of 10. Of course I don't date like that because I have met some ****ed up 10's in my time. It's all hypothetical). Now of course being a 10 and all, she knows that she is hot. I mean she has guys falling for her all over the place. So she is kind of interested in you. Well you are kind of interested in her. so you figure a date is in the works. You arrange a date with this gorgeous bombshell. And then you are pretty pumped and you might of even ditched another previous social engagement to go on this date. Ok so the Kentucky Wildcat's ( My all-time favorite basketball team) are playing in a tournament of some sort. Well you have ditched hanging with your pals to go on a date. So you are getting ready for this date instead of going with your friends to see the game.

Sounds ok right because she is hot. I mean it's only a game and you might get lucky with this fine babe later. . Well that ***** calls you up and cancels. So you have just wasted your night because you thought that this girl was so good that a chance for sex with her would be worth it. Now more then likely she canceled for some stupid reason. I mean it's pretty unlikely that her mom just died or she was held hostage by the Cuban Government. More then likely she just found something better to do. Say she found some hotter guy to go out with. And this girl is hot so she calls you up and totally wants to reschedule because she thinks that you are drooling over her like every other guy.

Well you have a few options. You can tell her how it's ok and that you understand because you aren't that good a guy and your time isn't important. But that isn't the case. You genuinely have other plans and your time is valuable. That's because people like you and want to be around you and have filled up your schedule.

So you decide to blow her off. Tell her you have plans. Make her conform to a time that is good for you. And you in fact have the right to be mad. I mean she treated you like your time was nothing. She thinks that you would do anything to get in her pants. So if you tell her that you have other plans on the nights that she plans, you will make her wonder why you aren't obsessing and making yourself available for her.

She is now insecure because you aren't obsessed over her. She might start dropping hints about sex. Like trying to bribe you. Have some dignity. Tell her you are only available on Tuesday like you have been telling her even before she offered sex. Women are often blown away when a guy rejects sex. They see him as a challenge. He is confident enough to reject sex and she starts to flip out because you aren't succumbing to all her seduction. She will do anything to get you now. She has offered sex already. You already have what you were aiming for in the first place and you have now turned the tables on her. Remember when you would do anything to get a girl? Now this girl will do anything to get you. Feels good doesn't it? Girl have been pulling this crap on guys for ages and only certain guys even realize it. You could push your luck if you wanted and make her pay for dinner and the date. But this is only recommended for those with excellent game.

So what I said might seem a little advanced for highschool but there are plenty ways to apply it to highschool. Yeah so basically it has nothing to do with looks but rather confidence, control, and challenge. This is the secret. Most guys can realize the confidence part but they don't realize the control and the challenge.

Think about this. If a really hot girl were willing to sleep with any guy, she wouldn't be much of a challenge. So she doesn't sleep with barely anyone and then she becomes a challenge. Well this is where girls get most of their power. They are a challenge. See, my good comrades, the girl will tease you every now and then so that you don't lose hope, but then she will remain a challenge. If guys would realize this, they could use it to there advantage.

In the scenario that I gave you, the guy was a challenge. This 10 couldn't even snare him with sex. Sex is a women's most powerful tool. If you take away her ability to use it as a tool, then she becomes helpless and very easy to, for lack of a better way, seduce. Challenge is powerful. Use it wisely.

Next is confidence. Well this has been explained before. But yeah he was portraying his confidence in his ability to get sex from someone else. He was totally rejecting plans with her, and most definitely sex later on, and she was thinking, "Oh No. He doesn't need me for sex. He could have other girls for sex if he wanted. He isn't even that interested about me." and then she goes into a panic thinking of ways to get him. He is obviously the prize. She is trying to win him over, when at first he was trying to win her over. He is very confident. It makes her wet just thinking about it ( I just threw that one in there).

Ok so I have covered confidence, and challenge. Now there is only control.

Well this guy took total control of the situation. He could have got that girl to happily do anything for him. He has power because he can take control of any situation. Power turns the 10 on. She really wants this guy. He is like a hunter. He is powerful. He could provide for her family. He is probably very successful because he very much has those three traits of successful men. Success is a trump card( no pun intended).

Look at really hot girls that always go for the jerk. He has very much the same traits. Well except control. He can't gain control so he acts like a jerk. He is obviously confident and even arrogant. Arrogance and confidence are often confused and mistaken for each other. Arrogance is the jerks trademark. So in fact he isn't as confident as he is arrogant. The jerk is a challenge. I mean all the girls seem to want the jerk but he often attempts to make himself a challenge. But he has no control. People in control are the ones that people look to when wanting to solve a problem. But if someone went to the jerk looking for him to solve a problem, he would have no idea how to fix it. And he would in fact seek to place the blame on somebody.

This guy who missed his Wildcats game on the other hand, is very able to control a situation and in fact fix any problem that comes his way. He shows ultimate control. And he doesn't seek to make himself a challenge, unlike the jerk, he is naturally a challenge. He can't help that girls want him. They just do.

Now lets look at the nice guy. This is or was you, my friend. Yes you reading this article. Think about it. Can you and do you have control? Do you fix problems as they arise? Or do you go to someone else? Sometimes it is good to go to someone else, but most of the time it isn't. Ok so you probably don't have the control. In fact I know that the girl that you like is the one in control. Boy wouldn't she be surprised if you turned the tables on her. Ok so we have established that you have no control. You probably can't stop masturbating either can you? Well that is lack of control. If you smoke or have some habit that you can't break, then you have less control then the habit.

Well let's think about confidence. Do you have confidence? Well what is confidence? It is a belief in yourself that you are capable of doing something. Well if you have no control you have no confidence. You might but not the confidence you should have. You don't fix problems. You don't have the confidence to fix problems. They go almost hand in hand.

 

[08aisaac]

Ok so being a challenge. Well you are about the most unchallenging person you know. It is about time you started standing up for yourself and your morals. I wouldn't sacrifice my morals for anyone. Bro’s before hoe's as I say. Be loyal to your friends. In fact if you are confident and in control, then you will be a challenge. Stop doing the homework of that hot girl just because she smiles at you. Say something like, "I need more then a smile and a pretty face to do your homework." and wink. lol. That will show them that they can't get anything from you just because they are hot. You have your intelligence to bargain with and they have puzzy. Well you know the drill.

Ok so there is a way to gain the most important of those three, control. Something is only as hard as you make it. It is all mental. Tell me. Which is harder? Making a goal at a scrimmage practice or at a tourney game? Well lets assume that the team you were playing in both were applying equal offense and defense in both situations. So the only thing different is the environment. Well they require equal amounts of energy. So neither shot should be more likely to make it into the goal. Except that people would assume it is harder at the tourney? More pressure to make it. It matters more at the tourney. But really the only thing that matters is how much you care about it. So if you were a decent enough player to make the shot with no physical problem, then you will make it at both games. Let me try and clarify. Something is only as big a deal as you make it. Like with our hero and the 10. He didn't care if he got the date with her, so it was no problem and he easily took control of the situation. She cared more about it then him.

So it is the same in anything. In golf their is a phrase "There is only you, the ball, and the hole".

Are you understanding me? This is going to be my term paper by the way. lol. Ok so if you get rid of all other obstacle's besides the relevant, then it will be simple. Live in the moment. Much like the successful hunter. He doesn't think about the future and the past. He can only affect the present.

There is something to be said about living in the moment. I read this tip on some site and now I apply it to life. Or atleast making out. Be in the moment. Do not think about how you are going to transfer from making out to something else. When you are making out be totally into it. Think about the texture of her lips and how various body parts feel against hers. Focus on the kissing and not what's going to happen afterwords. It happens when it happens and you can probaly tell when she is bored with making out, but if you are the best kisser in the world, she won't quickly be bored.

To be in control you have to be able to go with the flow. If something changes all of the sudden, you have to be able to handle it and be prepared. It takes practice and work. You have to be the most qualified. That’s why we go to college. So we can be prepared. Our knowledge gives us bargaining tool which we can use to gain control. Much as women use sex, we use knowledge. Someone with more bargaining power is obviously in control. But if you take that bargaining power away from them, then they will lose control. Our hero took the power of sex away from the 10 and he gained control. This is as much a lesson in economics as it is in dating.

If you hire someone to fix your computer, they have their knowledge as bargaining power to charge crazy prices. But if you tell them you are going to someone else, they will lose that power over you. Then you have the option of going to someone else as your bargaining power.

I will try to explain to those of you that are extremely dense. The basketball player that isn’t thinking about the consequences of missing the tourney shot, will not have the added pressure of thinking about his coach and everyone yelling at him. And depending on how good he is, he will more then likely make the shot.

On a test, you should prepare weeks before it. You should study long before and then you will know everything in it. You will not have to study the night before. When you go to take the test, it will be as simple as a worksheet or some class work of that importance. You will not care about success or failure. It is only getting the obstacles out of the way.

Much the same applies when talking to women. You do not consider it a rejection when she says no. You would not consider getting her number success, because what's a number? You still have to get a date, try some cheesy technique and you might get her in bed. You are just removing obstacles. There is nothing more or less then the obstacle.

If it becomes no big deal and you do not care about the outcome, it will become easy. Because if you don’t manage to win a girl over then it was no big deal in the first place.

So there are never rejection or pressure or nervousness. Just obstacles. The hunter is not one to be scared when it comes to women. Many men are nervous of rejection, but the hunter doesn't care. There are always more women. Plus what do you have to be afraid of? If she rejects you then either you were not up to her standards, and believe me the hunter will be the one with standards not the women, or she is not smart enough to realize what a great catch the hunter was. And the hunter would not want a women too stupid not to realize his value.

When I say 'Hunter' I of course am referring to our hero, rejecter of the 10. He obviously is the perfect catch and she did not realize how valuable his time was, so he did not want someone so unintelligent.

The hunter is the most successful man in America, no, the world. He is bill gates except a bachelor because he can't find a women to match up.

Well I know this might be cofunsing in some places because it is 4 in the morning and I am finishing it up. Also some of that stuff seems pretty obvious but this is something that I am posting on another board. So I didn't change anything about it. I got alot of my info from 'The Holy Grail Of Dating' in the bible. But all of this is origanal. I just follow the theory of that post. lol. Sorry if it seems like I am stealing his glory. I am just restating the obvious.

 

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