My "Algorithm"

[roaming shark]

Remember, you need to go out and do your homework before taking any woman to your spots. Get comfortable being there solo and in your own skin. Get to know the staff. If you can't do this, it can and will kill your vibe. I just moved to a new city and have a few spots I'm working on solo right now. I've already made connections at all locations and have received all kinds of invites. During the week, I've got a few 18-year-old hoes lacking all kinds of life experience lined up, so they aren't going to "drink" anything with me. They can drink what I shoot out for all I give a damn.

While this is useful in all. I don’t put that much stock on the venue. I’m more focused on the interaction, we could be in the middle of a moshpit. But ideally yes, build a reputation at venues. Most men can’t even maintain sexual tension with a women let alone work the staff at a venue.

 

[Glassguy]

This entire post is good and useful but after 3 years it will start to fade in usefulness just like any other dating tactic. Women catch on. They’re faster about catching on to these things than men. That’s why we have to be constantly adapting and changing our methods because women will begin to understand our game otherwise.

Well, its nearly 9 years since my original post and I am happy to say that I still use this venue and the Algorithm still works. There have been a few decently long relationships in the last 9 years but in terms of meeting women, it doesnt change. Ive added a few new spots to the venue list but old faithful keeps on producing lol.

In the end, the woman is qualifying herself to ME. Not the other way around.

Seducing women has not changed in quite some time and I dont see it changing any time soon. Its all about being direct and playful, leading the woman, going out on dates and letting women qualify themselves or disqualify themselves.

Ive read a lot of things over the years about how important it is for guys to be funny. And dont get me wrong, having humor is a benefit. Although I think being FUN is a much more rounded way to be. I am not on dates to be a comedian. I am on dates to meet new women, date existing women and let them see the fun side of me to which most women who are attracted to me will want to experience more of. And there is also the point of being direct.

Last weekend I went out with a new chick that lives over an hour from me. So my venues were off the table. She took me to 3 places that she likes to socialize in, all dive bars but very nice inside. Guess what? My process didnt change. She was intrigued by a weird liquor shot that I mentioned to her previously, so we started with it (same one since I made this thread in 2016 btw). Then she went to her go to and I went to mine. At the 3rd venue she was getting very handsy and I looked at her and said "Its time to go back to your place". The rest is history. We had a dinner date mid week this week at a place in between us. Going there Wednesday night to grab a drink and spend the night. The woman is late 30s, yoga fanatic and is a professional business woman in corporate America. Done deal and more fun to be had with her. And others.

Its not hard fellas. Its much easier to constantly strive to be the best version of yourself, find out what works for you and your personality and then get out there and perform. Yet some guys want to reinvent the wheel.

I'll stick to what I have figured out and works for me.

Happy Hunting

 

[Barrister]

Well, its nearly 9 years since my original post and I am happy to say that I still use this venue and the Algorithm still works. There have been a few decently long relationships in the last 9 years but in terms of meeting women, it doesnt change. Ive added a few new spots to the venue list but old faithful keeps on producing lol.

In the end, the woman is qualifying herself to ME. Not the other way around.

Seducing women has not changed in quite some time and I dont see it changing any time soon. Its all about being direct and playful, leading the woman, going out on dates and letting women qualify themselves or disqualify themselves.

Ive read a lot of things over the years about how important it is for guys to be funny. And dont get me wrong, having humor is a benefit. Although I think being FUN is a much more rounded way to be. I am not on dates to be a comedian. I am on dates to meet new women, date existing women and let them see the fun side of me to which most women who are attracted to me will want to experience more of. And there is also the point of being direct.

Last weekend I went out with a new chick that lives over an hour from me. So my venues were off the table. She took me to 3 places that she likes to socialize in, all dive bars but very nice inside. Guess what? My process didnt change. She was intrigued by a weird liquor shot that I mentioned to her previously, so we started with it (same one since I made this thread in 2016 btw). Then she went to her go to and I went to mine. At the 3rd venue she was getting very handsy and I looked at her and said "Its time to go back to your place". The rest is history. We had a dinner date mid week this week at a place in between us. Going there Wednesday night to spend grab a drink and spend the night. The woman is late 30s, yoga fanatic and is a professional business woman in corporate America. Done deal and more fun to be had with her. And others.

Its not hard fellas. Its much easier to constantly strive to be the best version of yourself, find out what works for you and your personality and then get out there and perform. Yet some guys want to reinvent the wheel.

I'll stick to what I have figured out and works for me.

Happy Hunting

Your OP was gold; and this is a good follow-up.

Agree on the humor part. If it is natural and not too thick it works very well. Just don't turn the date into a joke-telling session -- and especially not if it is at your own expense even if you think it is funny. Women are going to get dried up by a clown even if they are laughing. You never want them laughing AT you; just with you.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Textbook advice

 

[Solomon]

This entire post is good and useful but after 3 years it will start to fade in usefulness just like any other dating tactic. Women catch on. They’re faster about catching on to these things than men. That’s why we have to be constantly adapting and changing our methods because women will begin to understand our game otherwise.

Nonsense

There are 2 Bars/Restaurants I have been taking girls to for years where I live
The restaurant is only a 5-minute drive from my place
Which is great logistics if the girl wants to come back
90% of my dates are within 10 minutes or less from my house I prefer girls to come to my area on a first date. If a girl lives far depending on the vibe I will compromise and meet her halfway. I live in a medium-sized town but I do not bother with women who live 30 minutes or further away from me. Unless they are willing to come to me (in the last year alone I had one girl drive 4 hours from another state to see me, and another 3 hours. I have a woman who lives 4 hours away currently and planning to see me)

I recently have added a 3rd because of the fact last summer I was going on a lot of dates. The waitresses are cool but some of them will say some slick shyt like "Weren't you guys here last week?" Not cool so by adding a 3rd bar in the rotation I can switch up more frequently depending on how many different dates I go on etc
However, all venues(3 bars) are a 7-minute drive or less from my place
OP is algorithm is spot on and I have been doing the same
In my experience,if a woman gives you a "side-hug" and then forgot about it, usually it means she is not feeling you.
This happened to me on my last date, no worries spinning more plates and trying to get them spinning

While this is useful in all. I don’t put that much stock on the venue. I’m more focused on the interaction, we could be in the middle of a moshpit. But ideally yes, build a reputation at venues. Most men can’t even maintain sexual tension with a women let alone work the staff at a venue.

The venue is important for logicitics. Plain and simple
If you meeting girls an hour from you or in random cities 30 minutes away
It makes it hard to pull chicks back even if they are DTF
in 2015 or 2016 I had a situation happen where a chick (cute nerdy girl with a bubble butt and small waist)was down to come home with me but then changed her mind because I lived to far (I was 25 minutes away). Luckily I did end up smashing her a couple times after that (sucks it didn't last cause she was my type)

I'm not saying the interaction isn't important it is. However logicistics are also important espeically if you had a great interaction and great sexual tension. A long drive can be a buzzkill as mentioned in the story