Thanks, but I don't take advice from charlatans who can talk the talk but can't walk the walk.6stringer said:That you took something I wrote personally and now feel the need to come to another thread and troll.
You are free to take or reject advice given.
* just read some of your old threads.. lol. I get it now
I agree 100%. Just actually have female friends and talk to them. You get a glimpse of how they operate. They reject guys and accept guys based on the most ridiculous reasons. That is if they can even articulate why they made that decision in the first place. There are soo many factors that go into it.gravityeyelids said:Not exactly. He may or may not be a higher quality man. There could be a number of factors:
1) Where she is in life and what type of relationship she's seeking (short term sex or long term stability, etc.)
2) Logistical reasons, such as location, availability of you or the other man, etc.
3) Something as random as hormonal shifts or a flare of emotions caused by....God knows what? Her friend's advice? Some fvcking movie that got her all emotional? Some book she read suggesting she needs to leave you
4) A sudden shift in your attitude, including you slippping up temporarily and becoming needy or boring or providing her with average sex
5) She simply got tired of you as she gets tired of all men after a certain period of time and convinces herself that she needs to change it up..
6) while you may offer physical attractiveness, great sex, humor, strength, physique, and all the other "Alpha" characteristics...she may just want to move on to someone with more money or more of a "nice" guy she can settle down with. Someone that will buy her sh!t
It's not usually just that shes upgrading straight from A to B. Not like shes changing in her car for model B because model A is outdated. I mean it can happen, but rarely. Best to not take it personal like everyone has been saying. You will drive yourself mentally insane trying to compare yourself to the "new guy" she's seeing. Just accept it and move on.
If a guy is getting constantly rejected from EVERY woman then yes, the problem is him. That means he is not following basic DJ principles and he is very ugly. But thats not the case for most guys who have a little bit of game. Have you ever been rejected by 9 hot chicks and on the 10th scored big. That 10th hot chick loves all your great qualities. This is what the OP is talking about. Just becuz the other 9 girls didnt recognize your value doesn't mean you are not valuable. The 10th hot girl did. You were what she was looking for. Girls these days reject valuable cool guys all the time for no good reason.Cheeks said:being involuntarily celibate or consistently rejected is it's own downward spiral.
I agree for the most part. But there's certainly scenarios where the girl does like her bf, but is getting "grass is greener" syndrome", and could end up going for a guy of equal or lesser value for the thrill of it.Peterpack said:IF a girl you approach on the street responds negatively
if a girl you went on one date with flakes on a second date
if a girl you **** once doesn't want any more
I think they are scenarios you could not take personally because the girl doesn't really know you deeply
BUT if you have a girlfriend for several months or longer and she leaves you for another man, how could you not take it a bit personal because she did know you well and left you
Well there will definitely be much more pain and difficulty in that situation. Neither indifference or NTIP will really erase that because you are dealing with a true loss- no matter how crappy the situation was, your brain will react as if it has lost something essential.Peterpack said:IF a girl you approach on the street responds negatively
if a girl you went on one date with flakes on a second date
if a girl you **** once doesn't want any more
I think they are scenarios you could not take personally because the girl doesn't really know you deeply
BUT if you have a girlfriend for several months or longer and she leaves you for another man, how could you not take it a bit personal because she did know you well and left you
Well there will definitely be much more pain and difficulty in that situation. Neither indifference or NTIP will really erase that because you are dealing with a true loss- no matter how crappy the situation was, your brain will react as if it has lost something essential.Peterpack said:IF a girl you approach on the street responds negatively
if a girl you went on one date with flakes on a second date
if a girl you **** once doesn't want any more
I think they are scenarios you could not take personally because the girl doesn't really know you deeply
BUT if you have a girlfriend for several months or longer and she leaves you for another man, how could you not take it a bit personal because she did know you well and left you