First of all, sorry for the wall of text, Ill try to split it up a bit.
Alright, I discovered this website Friday night, read a bunch over the weekend, and by today, I already improved 300%. I was walking around with better posture and following all the confidence tips, I even had 2 friends comment on the fact I was looking more confidant than I usually do (Which was not at all). After school, a girl who I never thought I'd ever have a chance with ran up to me today and wanted me to walk home with her. Her and I have known eachother for a long time, but never really hung out. I'm going to be teaching her guitar over the summer, but we hadn't hung out before today. I said sure and we started walking. I was hitting on her etc, and just before we got to her place I started with the kino.
We got to her place and she invited me in. She introduced me to one of her sisters and showed me her dads guitar. We went upstairs and there was an acoustic on the couch and I asked if I could play, she said no problem. I began playing Jack Johnson's Better Together, one of my favourite songs to play and she was completely amazed. Her older sister ran in and told me I was amazing. I played some Death Cab for Cutie and some John Mayer and her sister told her she was damn lucky to know a guy like me, then told me to get a girlfriend and play for her because any girl with a guy who has talent like me is lucky as hell (her words almost exactly).
After this, the girl I'm going for and I were just relaxing, since I wasn't sure how much time we had before I had to go (Father getting home) so we just were talking for a bit (but not in an emotional JWTBF type of way) She ended up lying down on me and getting really close.
We ended up going for a walk to the beach and just relaxing there. She kept hitting me and giggling, which I know women only do when their into someone. And other stuff like that.
Only problem was, there was something she wanted to know that she knew I knew, and I was teasing her with it (since I didnt want to just say it and immediately submit) but I think I might have teased her with it too long, since at the end she didnt seem too impressed with me. Also, I am 99% sure I could have kissed her at a few points, but I didn't, but on Thursday when she comes over, I'll change that.
Anyways, I just wanted to thank you all for helping me so much, I am by no means saying I'm a full fledged DJ now or anything, but over 1 weekend of reading, I went from being a low-self-esteemed nerd to getting one of the best looking girls in the school to be relatively into me. I will continue my reading until I do consider myself a DJ, but for the time being, I'm amazed with my progress.
Thankyou all
Edit: I also forgot to mention this. When I was teasing her about the thing she pretended to get mad at me, so I used that exact mimicing thing, which got her into doing that flirty hitting me, so, I must add that that works amazingly, so does the pretend-shunning her, since of course, all women crave attention
Alright, I discovered this website Friday night, read a bunch over the weekend, and by today, I already improved 300%. I was walking around with better posture and following all the confidence tips, I even had 2 friends comment on the fact I was looking more confidant than I usually do (Which was not at all). After school, a girl who I never thought I'd ever have a chance with ran up to me today and wanted me to walk home with her. Her and I have known eachother for a long time, but never really hung out. I'm going to be teaching her guitar over the summer, but we hadn't hung out before today. I said sure and we started walking. I was hitting on her etc, and just before we got to her place I started with the kino.
We got to her place and she invited me in. She introduced me to one of her sisters and showed me her dads guitar. We went upstairs and there was an acoustic on the couch and I asked if I could play, she said no problem. I began playing Jack Johnson's Better Together, one of my favourite songs to play and she was completely amazed. Her older sister ran in and told me I was amazing. I played some Death Cab for Cutie and some John Mayer and her sister told her she was damn lucky to know a guy like me, then told me to get a girlfriend and play for her because any girl with a guy who has talent like me is lucky as hell (her words almost exactly).
After this, the girl I'm going for and I were just relaxing, since I wasn't sure how much time we had before I had to go (Father getting home) so we just were talking for a bit (but not in an emotional JWTBF type of way) She ended up lying down on me and getting really close.
We ended up going for a walk to the beach and just relaxing there. She kept hitting me and giggling, which I know women only do when their into someone. And other stuff like that.
Only problem was, there was something she wanted to know that she knew I knew, and I was teasing her with it (since I didnt want to just say it and immediately submit) but I think I might have teased her with it too long, since at the end she didnt seem too impressed with me. Also, I am 99% sure I could have kissed her at a few points, but I didn't, but on Thursday when she comes over, I'll change that.
Anyways, I just wanted to thank you all for helping me so much, I am by no means saying I'm a full fledged DJ now or anything, but over 1 weekend of reading, I went from being a low-self-esteemed nerd to getting one of the best looking girls in the school to be relatively into me. I will continue my reading until I do consider myself a DJ, but for the time being, I'm amazed with my progress.
Thankyou all
Edit: I also forgot to mention this. When I was teasing her about the thing she pretended to get mad at me, so I used that exact mimicing thing, which got her into doing that flirty hitting me, so, I must add that that works amazingly, so does the pretend-shunning her, since of course, all women crave attention
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