My 26yr old doctor problem!!!

[goober4u]

I was at my brothers wedding yesterday as an usher. As part of the job the ladies take you by the arm and you walk them to a seat. It started out when I was walking a very attractive dark haired girl to a seat. She was very chatty with me as I walked her. After church I would catch her looking at me, and I figured she thought I was cute. It turns out I was right. My brother pulled me aside and told me that the girl thought I was hot and wanted my number. The next thing that happed was 2 of my brothers got me and her together to dance. Only then did I realize she was 26 (5 years older then me) and a doctor a veterinary medicine. Here I am a 21yr old living at home, no job, and going to school. I was very intimidated by her status, and I still am. When we were dancing she found out I was younger than her, and I got the impression that this turned her off to me. I left not to long after our dance. When my brother showed up at my house today he told me he had a present for me, then he handed me her business card, with her email written on the back also. It turns out that she is still interested in me. she thought she scared me off. That is why I write to you. What should I do? I will most definitely talk to her; I just wanted to know how you would feel in my position. I will not pass this opportunity up, I just want to know how I should approach this situation.

 

[crackhead]

Just try to get rid of all that crap in your head about your status being inferior to her!!!!

When you see her again, think about how cool YOU are and how lucky she is to be with YOU.

 

[marqZAL]

You need to treat her as you would any other girl and act like a man. If you in anyway are intimidated by her staus when u are around her she will be turned off. She isnt turned off by your status, and she knows how it is to be a student. How many students have alot of money to throw around? I dated a women who was an English proffesor at one of the local colleges in my town. She was attractive, had a PHD....meanwhile I had just gotten out of the Army, was back in my home town starting college(a different one from where she taught) and she knew it. I totally blew by going from my normal self to a wuss, because it bothered me that she had already made it, and was still struggling as a student.

 

[SLIKKER_THAN_AVG]

Yes, its VERY important that you see her as being lucky to be with you.

HOWEVER..

A lot of guys including me..still have trouble being in that confidence mindset..and even if they repeat it to themselves like 20 million times a day..there will be those days where you are freaked out..and wonder if you are good enough to go out with her..etc.

THEN..i would say fake it...fake it till you are blue in the face man. Its all about creating an impression so if your not in that mindset..fake it and it will help you get back into it..hopefully lol.

Peace

 

[Harry Cash]

Hey goober!

What does her profession or status mean to you? She's 26, she probably wants to have some fun. The impression you've had is very frequent, but seems like it wasn't true in your case.

She thought she scared you off! That is excellent! It means that she is really interested in you.
What for, who knows, just go there and check it out!

Don't worry about your position... it will only be an obstacle on your way.

That is all.

 

[MDgood]

Dude, this is all about the CONFIDENCE thing we've been talking about on this board left and right.

Act CONFIDENT and the fact that she's older than you and probably a hell of a lot smarter won't matter to her.

Just be yourself, unless you're a college frat boy

 

[Mizer]

Goob, please read my most recent and last thread I am about to post. Part of it deals with your concern. It inspired me to write it.


Mizer

 

[Eternal]

You are afraid of her and shes a vet? Oh come on man...Show a little pride! Give her a ring in a few days and get some coffee and some pie .

 

[The_King]

Hey,

Do not worry....my scenario..is that I am fvcking an Oxford University medicine student who is in her last week of exams, which once completed she has completed 6 years of seriously hard work to become a doctor. I thought, wow, I have a nice doctor bird, but you got to look behind that and realise that she wants to have fun and feel attraction like every other women, so do not let her status affect your game.

Just forget her status and treat her like you would any other chick that your intrested in!

 

[nw1512]

It's understandable to be intimidated by her at first. But when you think about it she's prob just sick of dealing with men her own age who are getting a bit boring, Give her a call and show her some fun man.

Remember she's was interested in you and she was the one who's made the effort so far.

Imagine what this is going to do for your confidence if you get this one.

 

[Derek Flint]

Put on your best "Gangsta" outfit (Fubu 05 jersey, baggy pants, do-rag, plaid underwear sticking out etc...) when you go out with her, that'll be sure to impress her. LOL


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Seriously, just stick to the DJ basics, don't kiss her A**, recognize when you are being tested, be C&F etc...

Don't be intimidated by her beauty or social standing, after all, you already know that she's interested.

All you have to do at this point is to NOT screw it up and you're in.

 

[Slickster]

Do yourself a favor Goober

Throw that email address away.

Talk on the phone or in person.

Good on ya man