Must improve looks

[Roober]

What haircut would you suggest?

I get different suggestions from different people, so I don't know what to listen to. I'm not going to trust some barber I've never met. And I also am not used to spending any time making my hair look nice. I just roll out of bed.

The greater thing about the modern age is the amount of free expertise at your fingertips. Google is your best friend...
1. Google head shapes and determine your head shape.
2. Then Google best haircuts for xxx head shape.

Do the same thing for facial hair. Your head looks larger on top, so I may suggest some sort of thin beard. It may take some time depending on how fast your facial hair grows to find what works best, but I don't think your current look works. You want something to give you a wider jawline.

And about your hair, get some pomade and don't be so ****ing lazy in the morning. It takes 5 minutes. If you won't take 5 minutes to make yourself look sharp, why would you attract a woman that spends an hour or more on her look in the morning? Just make it a habit to look as good as possible when going out.

And you have the money, hire a photographer to take some shots of you for about 200. Get some in a well fitted armani or other italian suit, some casual clothes, and borrow someone's dog. Take a bunch of different ones.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The greater thing about the modern age is the amount of free expertise at your fingertips. Google is your best friend...
1. Google head shapes and determine your head shape.
2. Then Google best haircuts for xxx head shape.

Do the same thing for facial hair. Your head looks larger on top, so I may suggest some sort of thin beard. It may take some time depending on how fast your facial hair grows to find what works best, but I don't think your current look works. You want something to give you a wider jawline.

And about your hair, get some pomade and don't be so ****ing lazy in the morning. It takes 5 minutes. If you won't take 5 minutes to make yourself look sharp, why would you attract a woman that spends an hour or more on her look in the morning? Just make it a habit to look as good as possible when going out.

And you have the money, hire a photographer to take some shots of you for about 200. Get some in a well fitted armani or other italian suit, some casual clothes, and borrow someone's dog. Take a bunch of different ones.

Do you think this is a good haircut for me?

I'm going to buy an Armani suit, etc., then get some professional photographs taken.

@guru1000
@BeExcellent

 

[casanova]

Yes I know I need to get larger muscles, especially arms. I have to wait under my bandages are off from plastic surgery.

That picture is a few months old. I'm in the process of laser facial hair removal, actually.

Yes I know I need to get larger muscles, especially arms. I have to wait under my bandages are off from plastic surgery.

Arms aren't always the case, I can help you make a fitness program and get you into shape. You won't believe the confidence and results muscles will give you, you will pull chicks out of their boyfriend's apartments like there is no tomorrow.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Okay What's the fitness plan. Someone gave me one earlier, but I'm always looking to improve it. I want to work out from home. I have the equipment. I just don't want to spend too much time doing this if necessary.

 

[Roober]

Do you think this is a good haircut for me?

I'm going to buy an Armani suit, etc., then get some professional photographs taken.

@guru1000
@BeExcellent

The tapered fade is classic and is really in right now. I have a version of it, so I may be bias. Doesn't have to be an Armani suit, but definitely something good. Go to nordstroms or any legitimate suit dealer, and they will take measurements galore to get a great fit for your body type.

Also, if you are going to bulk, you can try the program recommended in the Book of Pook. 30 lbs of muscle in 3 months (which will probably be closer to 4 or 5 months), but it takes dedication, serious dedication. "Diesel’s Guide to Bulking Up threads in the Health Forum is a start. For myself, I used Anthony Ellis’s program. 30lbs in 3 months, no joke. Though, for most people beginning, it will be like 30lbs in 4-5 months. "

 

[RichardTheFrog]

The tapered fade is classic and is really in right now. I have a version of it, so I may be bias. Doesn't have to be an Armani suit, but definitely something good. Go to nordstroms or any legitimate suit dealer, and they will take measurements galore to get a great fit for your body type.

Also, if you are going to bulk, you can try the program recommended in the Book of Pook. 30 lbs of muscle in 3 months (which will probably be closer to 4 or 5 months), but it takes dedication, serious dedication.

Will do. I have an appointment with a wardrobe consultant next week.

I'm afraid all of this stuff is so fake. A nice suit and car doesn't change me as a person. But I know I should do it, anyway.

 

[Stephen89]

You're not bad looking.

Go to the gym and get buff. Try the 5*5 workout, the key is to eat lots of protein and get good rest.

Perhaps have short hair?

Wear better fitting clothes. A nice smart jacket, jumper, jeans, shoes does it for me or even a navy blazer, grey jumper, dark jeans and black boots.

As said in a previous thread have the body language of a bad boy when you are out.

 

[Roober]

Will do. I have an appointment with a wardrobe consultant next week.

I'm afraid all of this stuff is so fake. A nice suit and car doesn't change me as a person. But I know I should do it, anyway.

It is not fake at all, it is essentially maximizing what you were born with, accentuating your best features. Do you want to be the best version of yourself, or just the... lazy version? Now it won't help your mind at all, you have to work on those demons too, and trust me, they are much more difficult than a few appearance fixes.

plus..
-Is there anything bad about owning a fancy italian suit? H3ll no. Can't tell you how many times I have worn my armani suit, which I couldn't afford at the time
-Is there anything wrong with looking your best? Not at all. Most people just don't take the time to do it, they would rather complain about how the world wronged them...

 

[guru1000]

Do you think this is a good haircut for me?

I'm going to buy an Armani suit, etc., then get some professional photographs taken.

@guru1000
@BeExcellent

You can style it right now.

1) Grab gel or forming cream;
2) Pat it thoroughly throughout your hair in a backwards motion;
3) Ensure your front is pushed back, accentuating a rectangular forehead;
3) Apply the Toppik directly behind the hairline;
4) Pat the Toppik down;
5) Hairspray everything down.

Take a pic and post it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Stop taking pictures of yourself alone and trying to look sexy. That activity is creepy in an of itself. Women are not going to respond well to it, compared to a picture of you around other people, possibly having friends, and ....I know this is complex but bear with me....smiling. You will be at your most attractive to women in pictures that look the least planned. Ideally, you would be out doing something with other people and looking like you are having fun. I'm sure you get bonus points if those people are more attractive, but it is not required, and in fact that will backfire if the women around you look like cheap slvts or wh0res.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

I got some unintended practice at taking photos today when I had to renew my drivers license. I think I look like a crazy person. I honestly thought I was smiling haha.

I asked this girl, she said she thought my eyes looked beautiful.

https://www.dropbox.com/s/6da6556jhy3d83j/0306181613_HDR.jpg?dl=0

 

[Murk]

That's a good cut.

If I was white I would definitely have a Pompadour Fade with beard/stubble it just looks so slick - google it. I don't think you have the volume to pull it off though? Go to a barbers and ask them, but get a fresh cut regularly, whatever style they suggest, twice a month.

As it stands I get a number 3 skin fade and keep a beard - similar to Drake does now but I've been doing it since I got my cornrows cut off 10 years ago (don't judge me).

Fresh haircut has you feeling like superman and you will feel more confident.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Your problem is not your looks, you care too much what others think.
Have some confidence in yourself, be able to lead, have a calm voice, relaxed body language.
And don't be a slave for poosy, the less you care the more attractive you are.
Resonate some powerful energy, take what you want.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Your problem is not your looks, you care too much what others think.
Have some confidence in yourself, be able to lead, have a calm voice, relaxed body language.
And don't be a slave for poosy, the less you care the more attractive you are.
Resonate some powerful energy, take what you want.

But don't I have to care what they think to some extent? If they don't find me attractive, I must change.

And I would say most of my problem is that I'm too quiet.