Must get back on the road...

[typical]

I'm going through this exact debate myself. The woman I'm with treats me like gold. She's not an emotional fvck-up, and she's not a drama queen. But my physical attraction to her has gone down. She's gained a good chunk of weight in the past couple of months. I don't mind girls who've got a bit of extra fat on them, but she already had that and has put on more. I've tried getting her to exercise with me, and she complained all the way through it. My bottom line is if the woman cannot take care of her body, then she's not the right woman for me.

We get along great, but I can't stay with someone I'm not physically attracted to. On top of it all, I've got this little hottie who has a lot of interest in dating me. She's petite, pretty, and we've talked about eating the right kinds of foods. I've used kino on her and she's responding well. I want to date her, and I'm going to date her.

One thing I've realized over the last few years is that Sosuave has turned me into a high-maintenance man. I feel that I deserve a fantastic woman, and sadly there aren't many women out there who will live up to that expectation. My gf is probably the one who's come the closest, but she's still so far away from it.

The search will continue.

Not high maintenance bro your now a man that has realized his self worth and wants or shall I say demands a better quality of life and woman. pat yourself on the back your doing fine.

Just remember guys life is way too shart to have regrets so do what you think and feel is right otherwise let it be.

 

[Delly2000]

I figure the main issue is that she isn't hot enough. I know it is a simplification. But it must be the truth. If u can't look past it...float on. Your leaving a good woman behind. But if you think you can do better you will start resenting being with her. So probably best to cut the cord.

But balance must be found. Got to find a girl that is hot enough for you and also has all the right qualities. She is out there boss. She is out there.

But the real hot ones tend to be riddled with problems. Too much attention. Too many guys fawning over them that are more "alpha" then you. But I think they are out there. But diamonds in the rough.

 

[sodbuster]

IF she is closed minded now...she will be later. What are the rest of her beliefs? ARE YOU ENTITLED TO AN OPINION AFTER MARRIAGE? IF she's overweight now, what will it be when she has landed you? things don't usually get better after the wedding.

Men marry women hoping they won't change... women marry men hoping they will... and they are usually BOTH disapointed.

 

[macagent]

IF she is closed minded now...she will be later. What are the rest of her beliefs? ARE YOU ENTITLED TO AN OPINION AFTER MARRIAGE? IF she's overweight now, what will it be when she has landed you? things don't usually get better after the wedding.

Men marry women hoping they won't change... women marry men hoping they will... and they are usually BOTH disapointed.

truth!

 

[Die Hard]

Took me a while but I finally ended things with her. Actually, we've only met once since I started this thread, I've been trying to avoid her (our work schedules not matching and me becoming sick in the meanwhile helped with that). But eventually, we would meet up tomorrow so I decided I had to end it today.

I called it a time-out but she understood that it probably means a permanent break. To be honest, she took things better than I expected.

So...back on the road again, I guess! Met a cute chick at salsa class tonight, lol. There was good chemistry between us, lots of laughs and sh!t. She already has a boyfriend, though... Plus, this Saturday I'm gonna go clubbing with my best pal. It's been a long time since we last did that so we're gonna pary HARD!!

Don't REALLY know what to think of it all, I got off the phone with her like 20 minutes ago. But it's been the right choice, I know that. Back on the road, this is where I need to be.

 

[Desdinova]

I split with mine too. It can be tough especially when the woman isn't a fvcking bytch. Sometimes you just need to hit greener pastures.

Have fun with the single life! I've already latched onto a 21 year old who's 50 times hotter.

 

[Die Hard]

ROFL! Good for you, man

Game on! As will I...