Yogibear said:
ok so today i made out with my girlfriend of one week for the first time, everything was going well, but i couldn't help myself from trying to get into her pants. she stopped me, and i tried again a few times. i should have just stopped right there. On the way home, she was really quiet.
so my question is: how do i let her know that I'm not just interested in sex? i really do care about her and really don't want to lose her
Heres the problem right here. Why the hell would you make this girl your gf if you've never even fvckin kissed her before!?
The reason why she acted the way she did was because shes probably very immature when it comes to guys, not to mention she hadnt even hooked up with you before today! Not only that, but come on man, if you've never hooked up with her before you cant just expect to get in her pants the
first time you kiss her? So yes, you are absolutely moving too fast, but part of it is because you never got sexual with her before you two started going out.
Unfortunately, she probably has this in her head right now: "Wow this guy is only in it for the ass".
Now let me say this: DO NOT go all afc on her and start apologzing for what you did. That is a no-no. What you do instead is just give her a little bit of compliments (dont over do it), and just make it seem like you genuinely care about her. Idk how much simpler I can put it lol.
