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Yes you read that right, my ex (4 years together over a year apart) wants to move in together, as friends of course. We've got pretty close since I started studying the ways of the DJ, mostly cus she trusts me not to hit on her while I have a steady stream of other women.
She's been practically living with me anyway since she is studying in my city and it saves her train fares. She's looking for a place of her own and now she's asked me to get a place with her.
She kinda has a BF and he knows the situation he seems ok with me. There's been nothing sexual between us for over a year and it's unlikely to rekindle.
We get on so well, I mean we're definetely best friends. We have unconditional trust and look out for each other. I don't supplicate (in fact I often get her to do stuff for me), and I don't think I'm an emotional tampon. But having said that, I kinda realise that we have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend only minus the sex.
I can't figure out if I'm being AFC or genuinely enjoying a fantastic friendship. I mean, I'd love to **** her of course but I'm harboring no illusions about winning her over. She is fun to be with, thoughtful, and amazing social proof and we always go clubbing together.
I suspect moving in together may be a step too far. So why am I seriously considering it?
Yes you read that right, my ex (4 years together over a year apart) wants to move in together, as friends of course. We've got pretty close since I started studying the ways of the DJ, mostly cus she trusts me not to hit on her while I have a steady stream of other women.
She's been practically living with me anyway since she is studying in my city and it saves her train fares. She's looking for a place of her own and now she's asked me to get a place with her.
She kinda has a BF and he knows the situation he seems ok with me. There's been nothing sexual between us for over a year and it's unlikely to rekindle.
We get on so well, I mean we're definetely best friends. We have unconditional trust and look out for each other. I don't supplicate (in fact I often get her to do stuff for me), and I don't think I'm an emotional tampon. But having said that, I kinda realise that we have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend only minus the sex.
I can't figure out if I'm being AFC or genuinely enjoying a fantastic friendship. I mean, I'd love to **** her of course but I'm harboring no illusions about winning her over. She is fun to be with, thoughtful, and amazing social proof and we always go clubbing together.
I suspect moving in together may be a step too far. So why am I seriously considering it?