Leeds_Lad_Dom said:
I'm gunna keep it short and sweet. This friday i'm off to the movies with a hb8 (she invited me) and maybe(?) one or two of her friends i also know. A few questions:
1. Does 'the move' actually work?
2. How big a problem will said friends be?
3. Have you some good experiences at the movies? lol
1. Ehh, it works but I would say it's widely known to anybody who has watched television before and could come across as corny, but either way it's better than nothing. NOTHING WILL GET YOU NOWHERE (redundant, I know)
2. They shouldn't be too much of a problem, she may be uncomfortable kissing you in front of them, but remember she is only as comfortable as you are. As long as you don't get nervous (because she will notice) you will be fine.
3. The movies is arguably the easiest place for a first kiss in my experiences, before I started DJing, it was my main date, just escalate slowly until kissing, however this doesn't always work. That's just the safe "maybe" route.
My advice is to stay fun throughout the whole thing, do random fun stuff, keep the girls interested, one thing I tend to do, especially since her friends will be there, is to think of myself as the entertainment. If I am constantly the center of attention, creating good vibes with everybody, the girl will be happy to have you as "her" boy. Other than that, keep the normal DJing thing going, don't be needy, and DON'T ignore her friends. Her friend's opinion on you may as well be her own. If they love you, so will she and vice versa.