The story., We are together for half a year. We are 26yrs old.
For the first 3 months, everything's perfect and we had really regular s3x. Way before i know her, I was (in her eyes) the perfect man and absolutely charming to her and her female friends. She chased me, we got together.
I committed a regular fault made by most men, "Being too relaxed". I became lazy and let her take care of my household chores as she soemtimes come over to my place and clean things up voluteerly. Indeed, as expected, I became less charming and put on some weight.
It is only when she started finding faults like. "You aren't as charming as way i know you before.. You are getting lazy" I won't blame her. I admit Its my fault. And then we had frequent quarrels that make me really tired, I started doing my own stuffs and see my female friends.
I begin to change for the better, on the way to being the great guy that all girls once were crazy about. I started becoming aloof... not caring if we are going to break up.
I am sure she wasn't seeing other guys out there. But i am also sure that if there are some better candidates out there, there's a chance she may leave. Ironically, when i go out, she still cares a great deal, worrying that i may leave her and go for other girls, keep calling and checking on me.
Her Cons..
She's in debt because she broke a job bond.. the penalty is 5Grand. Yet. she's too lazy to find a stable job... in fact she's out of job for half a year (She's 25, out of school with not much qualifications.) She seems to expect me to pay up her 5Grand. (I'm earning big bucks currently).
Money is no problem for me. but I can't help but to feel that..
"You are not working towards to the debt of 5Grand and yet leaving the debt over there, doing nothing about it, expecting me to pay?"
In summary, she cares a lot if i am going out with friends/other plates. But yet likes to find faults in me (Partially my fault because I was not as great a guy as I once was.) Oh and one thing.. she has anger problem.. gets angry all the time and being stubborn when things don't go in line with her.
Last but not least. S3x frequency is getting lower and lower... which I'm not happy about it.
Advice? Break up?
Forgive my poor english.
For the first 3 months, everything's perfect and we had really regular s3x. Way before i know her, I was (in her eyes) the perfect man and absolutely charming to her and her female friends. She chased me, we got together.
I committed a regular fault made by most men, "Being too relaxed". I became lazy and let her take care of my household chores as she soemtimes come over to my place and clean things up voluteerly. Indeed, as expected, I became less charming and put on some weight.
It is only when she started finding faults like. "You aren't as charming as way i know you before.. You are getting lazy" I won't blame her. I admit Its my fault. And then we had frequent quarrels that make me really tired, I started doing my own stuffs and see my female friends.
I begin to change for the better, on the way to being the great guy that all girls once were crazy about. I started becoming aloof... not caring if we are going to break up.
I am sure she wasn't seeing other guys out there. But i am also sure that if there are some better candidates out there, there's a chance she may leave. Ironically, when i go out, she still cares a great deal, worrying that i may leave her and go for other girls, keep calling and checking on me.
Her Cons..
She's in debt because she broke a job bond.. the penalty is 5Grand. Yet. she's too lazy to find a stable job... in fact she's out of job for half a year (She's 25, out of school with not much qualifications.) She seems to expect me to pay up her 5Grand. (I'm earning big bucks currently).
Money is no problem for me. but I can't help but to feel that..
"You are not working towards to the debt of 5Grand and yet leaving the debt over there, doing nothing about it, expecting me to pay?"
In summary, she cares a lot if i am going out with friends/other plates. But yet likes to find faults in me (Partially my fault because I was not as great a guy as I once was.) Oh and one thing.. she has anger problem.. gets angry all the time and being stubborn when things don't go in line with her.
Last but not least. S3x frequency is getting lower and lower... which I'm not happy about it.
Advice? Break up?
Forgive my poor english.
