Motivation

darkstarrr

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I'm beginning to come around after having experiencing the nightmare of my life. I need to find something to motivate me and inspire me that will help me be happy about life. It has to be something creative. Not liking joining a basketball league or something like that. I don't know what but I need to find something because I'm out of my daze but I'm still disallusioned about life.
 

romangod

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Write a book.


Cheers!
 

Jitterbug

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Try taking some short courses in arts. I went through a whole lot of them before finding my passion (swing dancing).
 

taiyuu_otoko

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volunteer at a childrens hospital

serve food to the homeless

train for a marathon

go on a mission in africa for two years

join the peace corp

volunteeer at a hospice center for the terminally ill

go on a tv/internet/speaking fast for a month

make it a habit of sitting quietly for an hour a day and pay attention only to your thoughts

read think and grow rich

learn a foreign langauge

re arrange all your furniture

speak only in E Prime

practice affirmations for an hour a day in the mirror

read the bible cover to cover

set small achievable goals and congratulate yourself after each achievement

cold approach one girl a day only to introduce yourself and get her name

take a cross country driving trip and sleep outside everynight

the possibilities are endless
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Darkstarr,
Depression is one Hell of a problem,very hard to kick it without help.....If you get any worse seek professional help.....Tokyo and Jitterbug have some good ideas.....try not to dwell on things,go out often,even just for a stroll round the shops...throw yourself into your work,looking after a pet can be very helpful....I have found that in affairs of the heart it is next to impossible to just forget an obsession,you can only transfer it and sublimate it in another...good luck.
 

DarkShade

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I tutor at a nearby Middle School, 7th grade social studies. Those kids are so out of control it's just hilarious to watch the teacher have an aneurysm trying to get them to be quiet. It's helped me get out of my funk because I can connect to them and they are pretty needy kids (bad end of town)
 
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