Motivation 101 ..

[cola]

I'm writhing this post to perhaps inspire some, and light a fire under the asses of others. In the last few weeks, i've been more active than usual on the forums and to my dismay you guys are constantly asking the same questions. Well let me teach you how to deal with 99% of your female problems ..​

Stop Giving A ****!!

Yes, this is correct. 99% of your problems with females are simply that you care too much. Alot of you are basing to much emphasis on the outcome of your interactions with females.

I just got done reading a thread, basically it was a guy ranting about how this girl who he thought was giving him IOI's suddenly turned cold, and he was frustrated and basically calling women cold .. And the only thing I could wonder while reading his post was .. Why do you care so much?

If you were a proffessional boxer who trained 6 hours a day would you really care about that chick at the club calling you or not?

If you were a DJ at one of the hottest clubs in your city, and one chick out of the 1000s you come across nightly flaked on you would you care?

If you were a doctor who was highly regarded in your practice and a girl told you she doesn't like you, would it really affect you?

NO!

Well whats the point Cola?
GET A FRIKKIN LIFE! If you are busy with life, and doing what you want to do and enjoying yourself you don't have nearly enough time to concern yourself with females and there stupid moods and flighty behavior. And its also the most logical option because this attitude is what really makes you more attractive to females..

If your busy doing other things besides worrying about a female than they inturn become more attracted to you because females want what they can not tame.

Get more hobbies! Get a passion.. Improve yourself.
Females should be your LAST priority.

To the dudes who are in the teens and twenties looking for relation ships:
WHY?!!!!!!!!?!?!?!?!??!?!!!

Its sooo many females in the world. Why would you want to commit yourself to just one when you can bang them by the tens!! Marriage/Relationships should be a priority when your so bored with banging chicks and know them so thoroughly that its becoming more a chore than fun meeting/fvcking them.

A note to all you guys out there who get mad when a female isn't interested in you, and then you come on so suave and talk about turning a sexual and how all females are evil..

Dude grow the hell up!! Females have a right not to find you attractive. They have a right to not want you.. They owe you nothing, stop this entitlement attitude. Its disgusting. Of course she isn't going to tell you flat out
There is something about you that just turns me off. They are trying to spare your feelings, and trying to remain safe, just in case your a nutjob who will want to stalk and kill them for turning you down,.

In conclusion

LETS GET FIRED UP ABOUT OURSELVES!
LETS GET UP AND GET HOBBIES!
LETS SET GOALS AND MAKE ACHIEVING THEM YOUR FIRST PRIORITY!
LETS WORK OUT!
LETS STAY FIT!
LETS DO SOMETHING WE LOVE!

LETS DO SOMETHING WE'VE BEEN TRYING TO DO FOR YEARS BUT WAS TOO SCARED!

LETS STOP PUTTING PVSSY ON A PEDASTOOL!

AND REALIZE THAT GETTING GIRLS IS A BY PRODUCT OF BEING A MAN. YOU HEAR THAT? BEING A MAN!
NOT A WHINEY VAGINABOY WHO CRIES AT THE FIRST SIGN OF REJECTION!

I wish you all luck!
Cola

 

[MyBloodyValentine]

word.

 

[Solomon]

CHEAA

Cola what up!

This is what I like to see
and I'd like to add on to that, guys doing this thing, you won't be a stud or DJ in a month, it's hard work!!!

You gotta also have postive mindset

Positive Mindset (the way of a natural)
The reason why some of you aren’t successful with women is because of your mindset. The mind is one of the most powerful tools that humans have and with the mind come thoughts/beliefs/ideas etc. A lot of guys have negative beliefs about women, because of frustration, bitterness, anger and resentment due to their dealings in the past with women. Most Naturals have few or negative beliefs about women. Why? Because they understand and accept women for whom they are and once you do that, once you let go of the negativity your game will go through the roof, at least it did for me. When I first started going out on the field if I got rejected, flaked on, dissed whatever. Instead of becoming frustrated by it, I took it as a learning experience, it could have been easy to throw in the towel and say “she is a *****” instead I accepted it and moved on. Does this mean I don’t get angry? Or frustrated? Or resentful with women at times? Hell yes I do. However instead of succumbing to the emotions of negativity I reframe my mind, and try to release those negative emotions. I tell myself its part of the game, and let it go, sometimes it’s easy sometimes its not. However you have to remember if you encounter negative women or some form of negativity it’s her loss not yours.

another thing is...(which Cola has mentioned)

Focus on life, chill with your boys, read a book(yeah I said it),go to the gym, build a car (one of my boys is doing this) whatever....

Posts like these is which reminds me I'm dong the right thing....

 

[cola]

Positive Mindset (the way of a natural)
The reason why some of you aren’t successful with women is because of your mindset. The mind is one of the most powerful tools that humans have and with the mind come thoughts/beliefs/ideas etc. A lot of guys have negative beliefs about women, because of frustration, bitterness, anger and resentment due to their dealings in the past with women. Most Naturals have few or negative beliefs about women. Why? Because they understand and accept women for whom they are and once you do that, once you let go of the negativity your game will go through the roof, at least it did for me. When I first started going out on the field if I got rejected, flaked on, dissed whatever. Instead of becoming frustrated by it, I took it as a learning experience, it could have been easy to throw in the towel and say “she is a *****” instead I accepted it and moved on. Does this mean I don’t get angry? Or frustrated? Or resentful with women at times? Hell yes I do. However instead of succumbing to the emotions of negativity I reframe my mind, and try to release those negative emotions. I tell myself its part of the game, and let it go, sometimes it’s easy sometimes its not. However you have to remember if you encounter negative women or some form of negativity it’s her loss not yours.

Thank you, Solo. Forgot to touch on that, but you said it so elegantly i'll leave it be.
Another thing I forgot to mention is, please stop being so emotional. Logic, not emotions is what a mans strong suite is. When you start getting all emotional and acting like a little b!tch your playing the womans game not the mans.

MEN DON'T GET ATTITUDES!
Thats B!tch Sh!t
A man isn't going to get bad results from a female and then come online and write a 8 paragraph diseratation about how all females are evil. A man is going to say ok fvck that hoe and go find one who's a$$ is nicer!

Grab your frikkin balls every now and again gentleman, remind yourself there still there.

 

[PimpOfTheSouth]

Good Stuff.