Mother and niece argued and I interfere to stop them, guess what?!

[kzar_kzar]

Putting this here because I’m fxcking frustrated!! And putting this anywhere else (Reddit) will freaking put blame on me!!!

mother is 70 , niece is 13 . Frequently Argue on smallest all things!! Toxic as hell! sadly last 2 times I was around!
today when they started arguing on something small , I try to put logic (ya big mistake ) , try to stop them because I’m also home . Well mother end up crying for no freaking reason and niece just went quite and inside. After an hour all of them are fine except neither of them is talking to me.!!!
It’s like as long as I’m working and busy with my own **** I have perfect relationship with all the women in my life the moment I’m visiting or staying with my mothers place, arguments break out, so much drama and ****.!

cannot wait to get hell out of it, —-

how do you guys even handle your relatives; it’s always toxic.!
With brother , cousin, and basically any men in family I’m fine with it.

 

[sevbucmash]

My relatives aren't like that. Nothing to handle.

 

[kzar_kzar]

My relatives aren't like that. Nothing to handle.

gd for you man.! Appreciate them I guess

 

[jhonny9546]

I am studying how to be assertive, both with women, people, and children.

To make it simple, this is the "easiest" example I can think of of how to talk to someone who has disrespected you in private

I really like the composure, the tone of voice, and the way he speaks. (Even though I am Italian, I can tell he is doing it the right way.)

There will be times when you will try to speak this way, but people for some reason, are so psychopathic that they will not listen to you. In that case, accept their consequences.

Nelle relazioni moderne, qui in italia, è molto diffuso che sia la donna a parlare in questo modo all'uomo.
L'uomo che recita la parte del bambino emotivo.
Ecco perchè ogni giorno mi rendo conto di quante volte le donne manchino di rispetto ai loro "uomini"

 

[kzar_kzar]

I am studying how to be assertive, both with women, people, and children.

To make it simple, this is the "easiest" example I can think of of how to talk to someone who has disrespected you in private

I really like the composure, the tone of voice, and the way he speaks. (Even though I am Italian, I can tell he is doing it the right way.)

There will be times when you will try to speak this way, but people for some reason, are so psychopathic that they will not listen to you. In that case, accept their consequences.

Nelle relazioni moderne, qui in italia, è molto diffuso che sia la donna a parlare in questo modo all'uomo.
L'uomo che recita la parte del bambino emotivo.
Ecco perchè ogni giorno mi rendo conto di quante volte le donne manchino di rispetto ai loro "uomini"

thanks, I cannot say I’m like this guy but I have composure most of the time.! I just love them and do things but guess sometimes it’s better you hide your love and let things roll.

Btw I have come across Italians ; many are friendly . Italian guys are super chill while women are literally cowboyish

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Stop involving yourself in toxicity.

 

[New_Journey]

I try to put logic (ya big mistake )

Yeah you tried to be Mr. White Knight.

Well mother end up crying for no freaking reason

You mother is a woman like any other woman who uses tears as a weapon, haven't you learned that AWALT? (all women are like that)

After an hour all of them are fine except neither of them is talking to me.!!!

Why do you care? Stop being so codependent and let other people handle their $hit on their own, nobody needs Captain Save a Ho3

With brother , cousin, and basically any men in family I’m fine with it.

Awww it bothers the baby that not everyone is fine with you but you wanna be liked by everyone? You got a booboo and it needs a kiss? Who gives a fvck if somebody doesn't talk to you, do you need them? If so, work on not needing them.

 

[kzar_kzar]

Yeah you tried to be Mr. White Knight.


You mother is a woman like any other woman who uses tears as a weapon, haven't you learned that AWALT? (all women are like that)


Why do you care? Stop being so codependent and let other people handle their $hit on their own, nobody needs Captain Save a Ho3


Awww it bothers the baby that not everyone is fine with you but you wanna be liked by everyone? You got a booboo and it needs a kiss? Who gives a fvck if somebody doesn't talk to you, do you need them? If so, work on not needing them.

Actually non of their tears matters to me! But you have points ; thanks

 

[New_Journey]

After an hour all of them are fine

Women love to fight, you gotta understand that, they like to stir up drama, it gives them a hormone high expressing all those emotions, you don't understand because it doesn't make sense, its like you going to the gym and lifting very heavy, that you feel you're gonna die but you are having the most fun and it gives you an emotional high. Crazy I know.