Gerard-890 said:
I've been with these women, with husbands and boyfriends of all types, some having great guys I mean you couldn't ask for more. They would cheat with me and a couple other guys and you nor Dr. Phil would ever be able to detect it.
I do agree with you about the fact that most of the time nobody knows.
But I think that most of the time when a woman wants to have sex with another man she will try to sever her physical relationship with guy #1.
Women aren't like men. Men don't have emotional voids that need to be filled as women do. It all comes down to whether or not he can justify his actions. See hot girl- want to fukk hot girl.
When a woman cheats it's usually because she is looking to fill in gaps. Women want sex too, but generally when they cheat they are doing so to compensate for an emotional need that isn't being fulfilled by her partner.
Of course, it's hard to say what exactly happens when it's your girl running around. It's obvious when it's YOU who is kissing up on someone else's girlfriend or sex partner, cause you are a party to the transaction.
This chick I was dating last year. She started seeing someone else unbeknownst to me in the beginning, but I knew something was up soon after it started.. The sex dried up. Then a good month or so later we went out on my birthday and she gave me a courtesy fukk. It was the worst sex I have ever had. The only reason she fukked me was because it was my birthday.
I just know that there have been many cases, some recently, that a chick will allow intimacy but no intercourse.
The saying "If you aren't fukking her, someone else is" rings true on both ends. If you are the boyfriend and she isn't fukking you, she is fukking someone else. If you are the guy she is fooling around with behind her boyfriends back that will play kissy face but won't fukk you. I have been on both sides and in my experience most of the time it's only one of the guys who is getting the pu$$y at any given time.