"Most" People Reside in the Matrix.

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Right off the bat I will say this: this isn't a posting on how to pick up women, or even a tactic. It goes layers above that. It goes to the heart of the true matter.

If you haven't already figured it out, most people aren't on your side. Frankly, control enables the *weak* or the lacking to gain leverage through systems and customs. A position is taken before a fight or debate or argument has begun, before the facts are considered.

You see, in mating and dating and relationships, there's no inherently right or wrong to it. There just is mating and dating. It serves its purpose. However, different sects of society (i.e. parents, school, religion, friends, family) will push their view on you. Why would they do this?

Competition.

From books like "The Selfish Gene" and "The Evolution of Desire," you learn that we are nothing more than programmed beings, built from the ground up with certain inherent, natural, and biological instructions. From there out, we are uploaded with "instructions" or "programs" by which we operate.

For instance, deep inside us, men have the desire to mate, to have sex with many women. Why is that?

Because our reproductive genes sought the healthiest women possible to pass on and ensure the survival of our race. That was only possible through visual (i.e. weight, height, hips, etc) means. If men can easily seek casual relationships, with little long-term investment, they do so. This is where the weaker camps don't want men rising up to what we're naturally made to do, because some people will be left out.

This is also why women almost never give good advice with regards to mating and dating, because they're the enemy! They have an agenda in direct opposition to ours! That'd be like the Patriots offering up the offensive and defensive plans to the Jets this weekend and still trying to play the game. When women seek men for resources and genetic potential, and men want the best woman at the lowest price possible, is it no wonder so much conflict arises?

Men who've been programmed to be "agents" of women (i.e AFC) or women, would HATE for men to realize this, or even do anything about it. Men have always had power in the arena surrounding resources. We're logical, we inherently KNOW how to manage things. Whereas women are "feelers", they inherently do the coddling, the care-taking. And only because of current times some of it was seen as demeaning, has the push been on to reverse the trend.

Inside this Matrix, childhood, beliefs, values, experiences, opinions, rule all. The mind is a closed vessle. Permeating it is only through the acceptance of the owner.

When a person who comes from a family of employees attempts to better himself by starting a company you will hear a lot of things like:

"Businesses are risky. Get a steady paycheck and a pension."

"Don't be a salesperson. They're evil."

"Corporations rip people off."

Believe me, I've personally heard them.

Are they true?

Nothing is true but what we make it.

You see, on this voyage through life, people will always tell you how to live your life. To not pursue sexual interests. To "get a job." To get married. To go to college. To workout. To get a house. A mortgage. Have a child. Not be a true man.

Life is compartmentalized for those in the matrix. When you ask a direct question, you generally get a canned answer. Something you've heard, or expect to hear.

On this journey, many get discouraged, and where do they end up?

A statistic. Like the others, with no grasp over their lives. I'm not empowering you to do anything ordinary, only what you desire to do and know that it's ok by only your values.

Website might lock out your opinions. Businesses might hate your proposal. Family members might even disagree with dating entirely. Friends might hate seeing you walk up to girls confidently. And women might dislike the fact you have options when it comes to dating. But so what. It's your life. It's their loss.

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Be careful...you say that certain things ARE and AREN'T the definition of a "true man." For some people, that path IS the preferred path. There are going to be people at many different levels, doing many different things, each fulfilling purposes. You may mock those salaried, pensioned guys, but without them, who would work for you?

There are always going to be leaders and followers. Leaders are the people who write their own code and followers are people who just run code that's handed to them. You need both for a functioning society.
 

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Very true.

Symps hate cuz they're jealous. You see all these "Why do guys need to brag" whiny type-post .It's pure jealousy,man.

Symps and non-players don't give a fvck about us.We are fighting a battle for them and they'll still be losers and haters.

Role-reversal can end tommorow and we'll get hated on even more cuz then it'll be the reign of the "super-thugs".They let women take controll cuz they are pvssy and now we get all the blame.

Now all these tuff-guys and ex-gangsters wannabe players.Gimme a break.

Sh!t we have more in common with Metros' than the average-punk.Those slobs willl never amount to nothing they put girls on pedetsals and then hate on anyone who gets them..

Players gotta stick together.Instead of trynna get at the feminazi's we need to seperate ourselves from the chumps and take advantadge.

Fvck putting "men back we there are supposed to be" cuz when that happens we'll get put back in the Girly-man category.We are on top right now -it's not that woman are strong-it's that guys like us are in demand.

Remember women have power now..we have power over them ..so if we help those sorry ass niggas get laid we are less and less special.

Later people.
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Good Post A-Unit. A class finishing paragraph, too.

This is where a lot of people become discouraged - myself included:

"Website might lock out your opinions. Businesses might hate your proposal. Family members might even disagree with dating entirely. Friends might hate seeing you walk up to girls confidently. And women might dislike the fact you have options when it comes to dating. But so what. It's your life. It's their loss. "

For me, most of that is true. Everyone I know completely disagrees with my views on women and how to 'date' and 'handle relationships'. They always wonder why I question what people say - and they hate that cause they think I'm argumentative. All I want to know is WHY it's done that way. The person who accepts what an indivual says without question is indeed a fool. To use something, you have to know HOW it works and WHY it works.

The biggest barrier isnt yourself, it's other people. You shouldnt change anything around you to fit in with your life, you should move to what YOU want to move to. Dont waste time trying to change something that doesnt want to change. Invest your time in fulfilling yourself, and over time, all of the people that you wanted to change will flock after you.

Women will see you as a man with a sense of humour, power, wealth, but most of all they'll see a man who is truely happy with what he has. Friends will probably be equally as powerful and succesful as yourself - people that wasted their life wont like you cause they're too busy being jealous. Then after getting through all that crap with your parents, you'll be able to give your family something to be proud of.
 

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz


Symps hate cuz they're jealous. You see all these "Why do guys need to brag" whiny type-post .It's pure jealousy,man.
Most guys need to brag because they are insecure. A guy with a good self-esteem can be honest about himself and not need to brag.

Someone could be a first-rate boxer and honestly say "I'm a first rate boxer" but him saying "I'm the king of the world" is just a sign of a frail ego.

I think the way my father put it was best: "Son, don't judge a man by how much he brags or how big his muscles are, you'll know his courage when the first shot is fired in anger at him."

Well, maybe that's a bit extreme but my dad was a soldier for 20+ years. Still I think it's clear as to what he meant.

The guys who need to brag live in a matrix of their own.
 

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Awesome post A-Unit. Two thumbs up.

Originally posted by DJBen
For me, most of that is true. Everyone I know completely disagrees with my views on women and how to 'date' and 'handle relationships'. They always wonder why I question what people say - and they hate that cause they think I'm argumentative. All I want to know is WHY it's done that way. The person who accepts what an indivual says without question is indeed a fool. To use something, you have to know HOW it works and WHY it works.
Im the same way but with everything not just dating/relationships & I really fyck people off. :D
 

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Yep

most people that need to brag are the weakest out of all of us. I mean look at the ghetto people (just pulling a group out of a hat). The thugs that brag usually are weak and the people that don't brag know that they are the sh!t. I have personally seen it at school before.

Most people who brag usually haven't been beat up very much or never. But when someone does come out and fight them they will usually turn their face and run like a little boy. This is pathetic. I am dealing with people like this right now. Now it is time to decide what to do with these boys. Taking suggestions over at Eternal's site.

Good post A-Unit
 

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Nah,nah,nah.


You guys are talking about thugs and tough-guys.I'm talking about bragging about women and your conquest.I really don't see nothing wrong with that and the guys that complain about it usually end up being haters.

I think it's a difference in culture.I don't know many guys who DON'T brag about something.
 

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Re: Yep

Originally posted by baseballDJ
most people that need to brag are the weakest out of all of us. I mean look at the ghetto people (just pulling a group out of a hat). The thugs that brag usually are weak and the people that don't brag know that they are the sh!t. I have personally seen it at school before.

This is so funny, I cant even laugh...Im speechless...Why is everyone on this site scared of thugs? Bunch of shook people on here, lol...People want to call themselves men but they get scared of a dude wearing a white tee and a fitted...
 

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Re: Re: Yep

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
This is so funny, I cant even laugh...Im speechless...Why is everyone on this site scared of thugs? Bunch of shook people on here, lol...People want to call themselves men but they get scared of a dude wearing a white tee and a fitted...
^^lol,I don't really like "thugs" either.

I never undertsood them..what's the purpose of acting hard really if your not getting something out of it?(-money-)

I used them as an example cuz most guys used to think that.Acting like that would get them women and attention.Now it's sympin'.

In reality "thugs" are sympin' too cuz they doing it for attention so women can look at 'em.Some are sorta homo IMO wanting to compare themselves against the gansta of their other men.

This sh!t is just plain homo to me.

But yeah I agree with you on the White T's and fitted thing..lol.I think some people lump all kinds of people into that thug category.
 

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Re: Re: Yep

Originally posted by TheInfamousCBear
This is so funny, I cant even laugh...Im speechless...Why is everyone on this site scared of thugs? Bunch of shook people on here, lol...People want to call themselves men but they get scared of a dude wearing a white tee and a fitted...
OK I could have been talking about anybody I just know that they are the easiest to recognize with because everyone knows them.

Ok let's just go with a school ground bully. He does things all the time and brags about all of his beatings. The one time someone stands up against his stuff he will shrink down and become scared (how he deals with fear is his way). Personally experienced a kid become scared to deal with someone else.

P.S. I know this because I see it in my thug friends (yes I do have thug friends but haven't seen them in awhile). I have seen it in other places too. So I use personal experience on this site too.
 

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"Nothing is true but what we make it." That is definately right. Whatever you believe comes true in in your own reality. This statement lead me to believe that you don't exactly practice it however.

You might be a preacher.

"Website might lock out your opinions. Businesses might hate your proposal. Family members might even disagree with dating entirely. Friends might hate seeing you walk up to girls confidently. And women might dislike the fact you have options when it comes to dating. But so what. It's your life. It's their loss. "

I would not want this to be true, would you?

You could believe this and claim it is totally right on all merits. But it isn't the type of reality I would want. Would you? It's your Loss.
 

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The only loss you can make is doing what you've always done.

If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you always have -- Nicked that off of The Unbelievable [Ronnie Coleman] Vid... and it's an awesome quote to live your life by.
 

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^^^ Do you live by that quote?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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All of consciousness is an action, not a thing. Therefore, it is motion ... without the thing creating motion! And YOU are motion, without the thing creating motion. You are action.
 

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This is also why women almost never give good advice with regards to mating and dating, because they're the enemy!

we'll think to the matrix movie, with the oracle who was part of the system, but helped the main character. I too believe that women can also help in the dating scene. Don't get me wrong, there are tons of stupid girls I wouldnt listen too, but than again, there are also a ton of desperate guys I would not listen to either.

"I suppose the most obvious question is, how can I trust you?"

"just have to make up your own damn mind to either accept what I am going to tell you or reject it"

Its a game of being smart enough to listen to the right people, and ignoring the wrong people.
 

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Originally posted by Beatflux
^^^ Do you live by that quote?
I've given up smoking, heavy drinking, I lost a fair amount of weight and then started bodybuilding and I'm within the process of ditching my crap mates and finding new ones.

I'm on a course that will get me a 'foot in the door' for a career that I would really enjoy, and hopefully from there one which I'll love [some sort of computer job in either astronomy, the bodybuilding world, or games programming, I'm yet to make a choice]

I'm holidng down a crap part time job while I'm doing that to put away in the kitty. I've got a few grand in some bonds, and I'm seeing how that works out.

The next stage I need to go through is this 'improving your social ability' stuff on these boards. Then after that, spending less time on these boards/leaving these boards.

I've had to tear myself out of the comfort zone to do all of this... I had to move away from my dad to live with my mum for a better future - all for purely selfish reasons [of which my father understands].

So yes. I live by that qoute. Why do you ask?
 

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Quite the Reponse.

My post doesn't purport to ascribe to an arrogant position of total self-rightenous, it's an analogy to the fact that we live in a world where other people project their realities on YOU, or attempt to disseminate their REALITIES on the world.

One can claim the "rightness" of abortion in either event, and a person born of a very religious family will claim that right because their reality for over 20 years has raised them to believe in God, to believe in Damnation, and to believe in Life. This is person is neither wholly wrong, nor wholly right. They just are what they are.

And on the other hand, you may have grown up in a liberal family that supports the existence of man and further discovery of life alternating drugs, making it capable of someone like Michael J Fox to be cured. Again, not wholly right or wrong. But put both these people in a room together and they will argue until someone is dead.

Why?

More basic arguments are had over such trifling issues. I've known guys who whipped out glocks on people just for trash-talking in public or cutting them off. Does their reality say that their pride or respect has been hurt by such an issue? Can you try to correct every transgression? No.

Again, you could be a wildly intelligent person, and for one reason or another, you were born into VERY bad circumstances. These circumstances left your identity crushed so badly, you fear creeping out of it because in the back of your mind all you hear are the people you've heard for years and years and years. SO WHAT. Are they right? You only make them right by adhereing to what they've said. SELF-REINFORCING THOUGHTS.

By attempting to dodge our deepest fears, we in effect, BRING those fears to life. How many people had insecurities of a mate leaving them, either guy or girl? How many believe it's OK to cause a fight or some MADE-UP facts or interpreted feelings? In effect, your jealousy, while it served an ancient function during times when mates were lacking, no longer aids your objectives. By being clostrophobic over your mate, you force them into seeking another mate, or i.e. cheating. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy in that, what you focused on, brought about what you did not want. Well, if you didn't want that, then why did you focus on it?

The mind is a funny thing like that. I recall the first statement I heard from NLP.

"Whatever you focus on increases in your life. And because your mind keeps in thought only 1 dominating thought at the moment, it will bring to your life what you most think about."

If you can think about anything in your life, why are you wasting it on dumb shyt like fear, failure, poverty, other people, small issues, shyt talking, or any other dumb things we can conjure up?

Alot of great analogies can be drawn from the Matrix movies. They made a point to say that all people in the Matrix were like Neo and Morpheus, but because they were still plugged in, they were also enemies, too, and couldn't be trusted. The same applies in life...

Unless someone is where you want to be, or a friend is doing what you also want to do, then why are you taking advice from them? If it's so great, why aren't they taking their own advice?

To have your own life, you must establish your own beliefs. It is not enough to just have interests, or hobbies, or feelings. Without your own core set of beliefs, you are merely a by product of your environment.

I have a cousin living in Maine, a recent reservist in the National Guard, he maintains many of the beliefs of his father and the state of Maine. Because they lack any real concentrated population, homosexuals and blacks are in short-supply. Consequently, my cousin and uncle are quietly biggoted. And until recently, I thought it had gone away. They are a product of their environment. While the mother (my aunt) grew up with mother who is very open minded, she has since transplanted herself in maine, four hours from where I currently live. It sickened me to hear such closed-mindedness, particularly the result of the environment, especially if they saw the rest of the US, they'd realize how faulty that statement is.

People today still operate under such beliefs, and even have such limiting beliefs, that their true person is locked under a cloak of beliefs thrust upon them from other people, not quite wise enough to use their brains or learn good communication.


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Too many people spend too much time analyzing movies and not living life. If yoru a critic, great, if your a fan great, but go out and live a little.

"and over time, all of the people that you wanted to change will flock after you."

Thats not true in reality.

Many people who believe what they wanted to believe and were "beyond their times" never came to realize what they created or what they would create.

Many people who were true great leaders throughout history were hated throughout their lives or ridiculed throughout their lives. They received regognition years later, generations later. or centuries later.

They became great leaders because they wanted to change things, change the way people viewed things, or change the world, for good or bad, but most of these great leaders throughout time never became infamouse until many years after they already were dead.

From what i see on this site and in society, there aren't very many people interesting in changing anything but the money in their own wallets or numbers in their little black books.

Profess this and that, reality is, your not much different then the people you hate.
 
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