most of the advice here is Crap/DJ bible is good.

[darth yoda]

one-itis = A disorder commonly found in AFCs, that forces them to think that one chick is so special that they'll do ANYTHING to get into her panties.

one-itis =/= love

one-itis =/= affection

one-itis =/= a "serious" relationship

one-itis =/= a healthy mindset with regards to a woman

 

[Sasha]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
right, a person gets there heart broken...and they dont feel bad

i wish I had the balls of steel you do

you wish

 

[frivolousz21]

one-itis = A disorder commonly found in AFCs, that forces them to think that one chick is so special that they'll do ANYTHING to get into her panties.

i agree

 

[AMF]

Its not rocket science, its compromise.

This site presents one side. Your nature, the little boy inside that never goes away and yearns for love his whole life, presents the other side.

This site is necessary, quite simply, because statistically virtually no people are classified as emotionally "secure". Psychological fact!

The reality is we are raised by woman to seek a woman's love and approval at all costs. But girls, the girls you want to bang, are simply nothing like your mom.

Your mom loves you UNCONDITIONALLY.

Girls will love us CONDITIONALLY.

Lose sight of yourself, lose sight of your strength and integrity and so become DEPENDANT, then you broke some of those conditions. Heartbreak ensues.

 

[MetalFortress]

Ugh. It's stupid when dudes say never to fall in love. "You must never show emotion" SHUT UP!!! Relationships are an emotional investment in the first place, and if you aren't investing any when you are in a committed relationship, YOU SHOULDN'T BE IN IT. It seems everybody who disagrees with Friv is a KJ. You guys aren't getting any play in real life, so don't even talk like you know what's up.

You guys who do this are like the male equivalent of bitter man-hater chicks. And nobody likes them. So why should anybody like you?

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Very nice advice. In 48 laws of power it says that your friends are more dangerous then your enemys

Why ??

cause you trust them and except them to protect your back. Ketp your eyes open guys.

In the art of war it says when you win a battle you are most varuable to defeat

thats cause people think " oh I got a g/f and she 100% digs me and she says she loves me so l'll be fine "

IN reality women say they want a tall guy and date a short guy they say they want a nice guy and date a jerk. Any girl can say I love you and not mean it. Women test guys all the time and the sad thing is we guys aren't testing women at all.

The next problem is being succesful. You have to try and you must try. People called Thomas Edison a idoit and crazy when he tried to make the light blub. They said it was impossible and he should give up a foolish idea. He failed many times but ketp trying then he did it people were shock.

Also the mind.
If you tell yourself a lie enough times you will believe it. A person died of metnal sucicida how ?? cause he said I would die for this and ketp saying it until he believe it. Once he believe he would really die then he did die. Stop telling yourself I'm a loser I'm a loser I'm a loser. Start saying I'm a real man I'm a real man. After a while you will believe it then you will become a real man.
When you ask your mind a question like this
( why do I suck with women ?? it might say cause your a loser )
Stop asking your self questions that put you down and ask questions that put you up like this
( why I'm so good at baseball ?? it might say cause you pratice like crazy and was made for the sport )
THe mind dosen't care if you ask a good question or a bad 1 it will just give you a answer so the next time you ask yourself why can't I get a women try asking what to do women respond to and what could I learn about women.

 

[KinkyMan]

i think it's all about the motivations behind falling in love,

it should be about her and not about your secret neediness, desperation, desire for sympathy after its over, etc

if it is really because of the latter reasons, it's not really love

but yea if you act like you don't care soooo much, you are weak, you need to at least be man enough to be open to the possibility

 

[DrMetallica]

frivolous, you have a fresh attitude at life and I enjoy your posts.