Most men are stunted, it's the worlds dirty secret

[Slick Mick]

That's The answer to the question; "Am I unique that I pissed away $800,000 of savings and 14 years of marriage on an 18 year old BPM with "daddy" issues?"
We as men, thrive on sexual experiences, and for the last 9 years, I've lived a roller coaster life of sex, drugs and menage a trios. Unfortunately I was 36 and had 3 children when I started,I owned 4 companies with 132 employees, net worth approximately 4 mil, and trust me, I'm not bragging but I sit here today and wonder what happened and I'm trying to process it. I've been observing this site for some time, watching as "players" tell you how to be a "Don Juan" and give you examples of what to do and what to say and I'm not certain of their prowess or history, but most of their advice seems to be spot-on. I'm not into the whole "DJ" terminology because I'm an Irishman, I'd prefer to be called a "Dublin" man. If you need me to finish that line, email me @ ****off.com.
Anyways, I'm not a braggart, but I'm not ashamed to share my tales of caution and excitement. Add to this thread of geek-dome and we'll go from here... By the way, stay away from BPD *****es.. If you even suspect it, run like the wind...This is coming from a cox-man that ran around on 2 of them, simultaneously for a decade, with scores of sluts....

 

[TonyBaloney]

Hey bud,

Not too sure what to make of your post?

Are you fuucked up or thriving?

Where did the money/wimmin go?

What are u up to now? Castrated?

Pray tell me more as I suspect that you could be a source of many anecdotes if you expand a little.....

 

[PlayHer Man]

The best life strategy for a man today is to focus on accumulating money, education, assets, power and resources while avoiding marriage and children.

Avoid any commitment that takes lots of money OUT of your pocket. Keep women as flings, girlfriends and FWB, but nothing too serious. Don't spend much of your money on women. Don't take them to fancy restaurants or on expensive vacations. Don't buy them lots of sh!t for their birthdays, V-day or holidays. Just don't. If they dump you over it.. too bad.

You don't have to be very smart to succeed in life and love. You just have to NOT be stupid. Do what's in your own best interest ALWAYS.

 

[Aristippus]

Slick. Yeah. Most men are stunted because they are brainwashed into putting women on a pedestal and devaluing themselves. Combine this idea with the false idea of ownership and suddenly you have half of the population that puts a price tag on their affections while the other half foolishly think they are supposed to pay for those affections.

The few that see the foolishness for what it is and realize their own worth, and see women for what they are, get a more realistic view on things. Then you stop overvaluing women. You might love your woman or women, but you never sacrifice your self-respect for them. And you no longer foolishly think you have to have money in order to have women.

You don't bend over backwards for them or tolerate uncivilized behavior. They have to adore you, worship the ground you walk on, and rightfully so. Because you are like a benevolent king who loves and cherishes them, but will not tolerate it if she repays your benevolence with disrespectful, uncivilized behavior. You won't pull a King Henry and say "Off with her head!", but if she crosses the line not only will she be corrected, but if repeated too many times and with too much severity, she will be "banished" from your life forever.

Women want to be treated like "princesses" or "queens" or whatever, but many of them want to treat their men like peasants and servants. Like the butler and the groundskeeper. DEMANDING things while at the same time being disrespectful. If she expects to be treated like a queen, she has to treat you like you're her king. Better yet, treat women well, but never refer to them as "princess" or "queen" or anything like that. Give them the good treatment without creating any delusions of grandeur for them.

 

[Burroughs]

99.9% of men are slaves who do not comprehend their own slavery

these men would follow their pee pees over a cliff like a wiley coyote if there was a promise of a diseased piece of poontang hovering in mid-air

until men in masse learn to control their sexual impulses and place women back in their ownership to serve them, bear children, and be obedient and dutiful as they were for 2 million years society will continue to crumble.

 

[Aristippus]

The heirarchy or chain of command in a relationship:

The Husband or Boyfriend
v
v
The wife or girlfried
v
v
and waaaaay waaaaaaay at the bottom of the totem pole
v
v
v
v
the children

The children have no authority in the household. I have to stress this because too many child worshipers stupidly act as if somehow the children have a say in the decisions of the house or that every decision should revolve around them. You, as the one who is working hard every day to make sure they have a nice, comfortable life with enough food and a warm place to stay are the authority. It is YOUR sweat and YOUR hard work that are keeping them alive! Without you they would DIE. Therefore, they have no authority. It's pathetic that I even have to write this. So many parents these days, in a pathetic display of behavior, cater to their child's every whim, instead of disciplining their child and building character.

 

[glass half full]

wish I knew a long time ago...

The best life strategy for a man today is to focus on accumulating money, education, assets, power and resources while avoiding marriage and children.

Avoid any commitment that takes lots of money OUT of your pocket. Keep women as flings, girlfriends and FWB, but nothing too serious. Don't spend much of your money on women. Don't take them to fancy restaurants or on expensive vacations. Don't buy them lots of sh!t for their birthdays, V-day or holidays. Just don't. If they dump you over it.. too bad.

You don't have to be very smart to succeed in life and love. You just have to NOT be stupid. Do what's in your own best interest ALWAYS.

This is so dam true! However better late than never!

 

[Slick Mick]

what are you looking to make of it??

Hey bud,

Not too sure what to make of your post?

Are you fuucked up or thriving?

Where did the money/wimmin go?

What are u up to now? Castrated?

Pray tell me more as I suspect that you could be a source of many anecdotes if you expand a little.....

I guess this is my personal tale of near self destruction and caution. I lost my entire net worth through a harsh economy, harsh divorce and too much wining and dining of biotchez..
Im still thriving and surviving though, never say die, rebuilding my empire one day at a time...Ive cut back to a really cool 40 yo hooker(not really one), who is an awesome sex freak.. We often go out and she hits on biotchez left and right.. Every once in a while, my BPD w/ daddy issues hits me up asking for some schlongg..
I've calmed down a bit but still enjoy challenges and adventures. Ive made every screw up there is in this life, so I'd say I'm a great source of info and advice.. Email me any time, I'm not too computer savvy though, it took me this long to find my own thread, But i got this now..

 

[SteR]

I guess this is my personal tale of near self destruction and caution. I lost my entire net worth through a harsh economy, harsh divorce and too much wining and dining of biotchez..
Im still thriving and surviving though, never say die, rebuilding my empire one day at a time...Ive cut back to a really cool 40 yo hooker(not really one), who is an awesome sex freak.. We often go out and she hits on biotchez left and right.. Every once in a while, my BPD w/ daddy issues hits me up asking for some schlongg..
I've calmed down a bit but still enjoy challenges and adventures. Ive made every screw up there is in this life, so I'd say I'm a great source of info and advice.. Email me any time, I'm not too computer savvy though, it took me this long to find my own thread, But i got this now..

Well, I for one thing it'd be great if you shared all your lessons/experiences in this thread. I've always found it's best to listen to the guys who've learned the hard way... you'd be doing the younger guys a MASSIVE favour..

 

[Slick Mick]

Ster;
I definitely appreciate your show of respect for those(your elders) that have walked your path ahead of you. I'm not finding that courtesy to be in abundance in this world today. I'm a "former" Marine and our system of honor in the corps was based on traditions and the will to carry on those traditions in respect for those that came before you. It was the last bastion of exclusive manhood, that our beloved President just screwed up for us.. Screw politics though, we're here to learn how to not let women assist us in wrecking our lives both mentally and financially...
I'll definitely share some stories, I can weave some humorous stories and I don't need to make any of them up, I just have to remember them. The years of swinging for the fences, accompanied by a steady diet of Alcohol, sluts and drugs have taken their toll on the memory part of the brain, just takes a bit longer to find where I put them.. Physically, I'm a rock star, I take enough care to keep some muscle-mass over the years and no belly.....That teamed with unbridled confidence, like I own this room when I occupy it, and the per-conceived notion that I'm gonna show this girl a great time, make her feel that no one else matters in this world. But I only want her for a finite period of time, no marriage, no kids, no deep emotions that cause me to become a biotch down the line..
One of my dearly departed friends from back in the day had the best line ever.... Repeat it daily, though have to speak of yourself in the third person, and believe it ... He said(in a SW Georgia accent), " They make pretty girls evvvveeeerrrrryyy daaaay, but you know one thing they don't make every day? They don't make "Great(insert your name here in the prural)!" Not today, not tomorrow and not next year.. End the statement, as he did, with a Nature Boy Rick Flair "WOOOOO"
Anyway, I just relocated to Lexington, KY after 18 years in FL for a biz opportunity, so I'm starting my harem over, in a sense, and for the 1st time ever, I signed up on a dating site, POF.. because I'm not certain how else I'll be making my moves at this point, and I don't know a soul yet.. I'm not too optimistic out of the gate, all I'm getting is "meet-up" requests from a ton of haggard biotches . I put in my profile that I was looking to meet "Athletic women" and that I had a superficial streak within me, these broads are still dinging the inbox alert on my Iphone at an alarming rate.. and whats with posing with your kids on a dating site, really????
Sorry about the tangent, but I'm on point now... I'll post a story later about my stupid mindset when I decided to marry my college sweetheart at 24...