Most impt rule of contact

[mikey2012]

[/LIST]In any DJs mind, he is KING. He is infallible , strong, invincible, perfect.
He is also the ****, no one can fault him.
No biatch can ever win him over.
He will not yield to the opposite sex.
He is land of plenty.
This is YOU.

So the rules of contact is to leave the biatch hanging. If she contacts you, you must resist the urge to respond back straight away. You thinkif you don't she may lose interest or if you do she might like you more. That's our thinking. But biatches don't think like that. If you respond immediately she will think you are too easy thus reducing your value and she will lose interest fast. Like the other post said you need to use reverse psychology . Put them selves in their shoes. If you contacted a gal and she text or called you straight back you would think
wtf ...too easy and become less attracted. Make yourself scarce. Let the biatch come to you. But you have do it subtly if she finds out that this is a ploy then she will not fall for it. When you don't contact her back she will begin thinking...where is he what is he doing, is he with someone else and your value will increase and hers go down. Think about it.. This is what you be thinking if you did the same and some gal didn't call you back. You would want her more.

That way you will regain the power. Don't be fooled, even in LTRs you must adopt this tactic to keep your value, even though in her eyes your value is still high but it will decline albeit slowly if you resort to your beta ways.

The power with this is that she will start questioning herself , even if she didn't like you initially , what's wrong with me, what I did wrong etc...

Be illusive, unpredictable.

2. Rule to keep the biatch...you must fvck her good.

If you follow these rules they will be eating out your hand.

 

[lookalike]

i m not somebody who likes playing games but I have to admit this is 100000 x correct. I recently lost a girls interest by being too available. it goes against our logical male thinking but you HAVE to do it. When I first met the girl I didn't pick up her calls much and she would be all over me, leaving messages asking where I was etc. over time I picked up more and more. eventually every time she called, I answered. I could feeeel this girl lose interest in me but I couldn't stop because I figured if I didn't pick up she would get mad and leave. well, here I am now and she lost all interest in me. When it comes to these girls whatever u Think u should do, do the opposite! they'll thank u for it..

 

[rhythmic]

The thing about being appearing to be busy and unavailable is that:

you can't seem to be TRYING to LOOK unavailable

because then the bubble is burst, and you're the ultimate chump.

Always have an alibi. Actually be doing something with your life.

There are lines of gold in this though, I liked:

No biatch can ever win him over.
He will not yield to the opposite sex.

Don't be fooled, even in LTRs you must adopt this tactic to keep your value, even though in her eyes your value is still high but it will decline albeit slowly if you resort to your beta ways.

 

[zekko]

i m not somebody who likes playing games but I have to admit this is 100000 x correct. I recently lost a girls interest by being too available. it goes against our logical male thinking but you HAVE to do it...

This is a popular notion here, but I disagree with it. It's true that you can make the mistake of being too available, but that doesn't mean you have to go to the other extreme to find success. If you are a high value guy, or if her interest in you is high, it simply isn't necessary to pretend that you are always busy or pretend that you are ignoring her or putting her off or whatever. But I know there are mostly younger guys here who haven't really built their value yet, so all they have are these games to play.

And all this business about being a KING, infallible, and perfect is just stupid. Nobody is perfect, and anybody who actually believes he is a king has a vastly overinflated view of himself.

 

[mikey2012]

Also go with your gut.

If you feel she is slipping away or she is changing he attitudes towards you need to back the fvck off. We think if we are losing her then we need step up and chase more. This is WRONG. You will always lose the biatch. Make her chase you. You need to reestablish the balance of power. In some ways this is no contact rule for being in a relationship as well. The biatches can smell fear and they punish weakness. Don't let them do that .

 

[mikey2012]

This is a popular notion here, but I disagree with it. It's true that you can make the mistake of being too available, but that doesn't mean you have to go to the other extreme to find success. If you are a high value guy, or if her interest in you is high, it simply isn't necessary to pretend that you are always busy or pretend that you are ignoring her or putting her off or whatever. But I know there are mostly younger guys here who haven't really built their value yet, so all they have are these games to play.

And all this business about being a KING, infallible, and perfect is just stupid. Nobody is perfect, and anybody who actually believes he is a king has a vastly overinflated view of himself.

You misunderstand. You need to to have this mentality when you feel you need to chase otherwise you will sucuumb to weakness . This mindset is essential to keep you strong in times of weakness ! Believe me even if you are brad Pitt and her initial interest is sky High and if you are too available you will start losing value slowly.

Remember it's all balance of power. If you need the relationship she will WALK over you. period

Treat them mean. Keep them keen. I hate to do this but you must protect yourself first.

Give them the feeling that you are slipping away!!!!! Otherwise you will be owned. That's the cold hard fact. Once these biatches smell weakness then it's over.

I wish we could be all in this world where we meet gal and we like them and they like us and we are happy after. Nature just don't work like that. Think about why women have affairs . You need to have that power all the time, even if you are married otherwise you might as well be a slave,

I don't want to play these games as well but you need to understand how women mind works.mif you make them feel secure they won't want you. You need to make them feel insecure otherwise you will be toast

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